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Hi I am Amanda i am about 16 years of age and i have brown hair origionally but i died it blonde... i have brown eyes... i am about 5'3" and about 107 pounds. For all you georgeous men out there... im sorry im taken!*love u Bryan* and very much in love! and ladies im always here to help you on your guy problem... trust me i know what they are like!! haha (guys you know im here for you too... ive got a girls mind! its the best way to figure out your girls!) if you would like to know more about me you can IM me!
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i give my boyfriend hands jobs but i dont think it works how am i suppose to and i have given my bf head but that doesnt work or at least i dont think it does how can i get better or do it just to make sure i do it right (link)
try using some kind of masaging lotion when you do... it always bumps the good feeling up a notch! hope i helped... anything else just ask


Is it normal to just cum without having sex or getting fingered? I notcie that everytime Im with my boyfriend and he touches me I think I just cum is that normal? (link)
yes it is perfectly normal u cum because ur horny and its nothing bad... its just a discharge of excess fluids... perfectly normal nothing to worrie about!


When me and my boyfriend talk on the phone he asks me questions like do i masterbate and stuff like that should I just tell him the truth to all of them and what if I sound really stupid saying it? (link)
if you do not feel comftorble telling him that dont its all up to you tell him what you feel is right. and if you dont want to talk to him about it... tell him you dont want to talk about it.


My boyfriend and me got into a fight a while ago i felt bad and told him id make it up he asked me to give him head im just nervous too like i never did it before so if you can please help. (link)
wait he asked you to give him head to make it up to him? thats not right... making it up to him would be a present or throwing him a party not doing sexual things with him... it kinda sounds like thats all he wants.... but hey its your choice... if your asking howto give head you just put your mouth over his dick and go up and down with your head go down as far as your comftorble so you dont gag kinda use your tougne with it too just lick it as your going up and down... and watch out for teeth!!hope i helped


Me and my boyfriend really want to have sex i just dont want to get pregant and i sorta told him that i had sex twice already and my friend told me that it hurt her and i dont want him thinking this is my first time and i dont want to do something wrong n i know to use a condom. so if u can help me out with like anything (link)
make sure he knws its your first time, he will be really mad if he finds out you lied and he took your virginity, use a condom is the best thing but you should be careful make sure you know you truely love him before you do it, your first time is everything, be careful, any other questions just ask me!


How do you talk dirty lol like when ur having sex or getting fingered (link)
personally i dont know the answer to this question but guessing... just while you having sex just be like "fuck me harder baby" "ooo your so fucking hot" ect. thats what i would see as talking dirty... hope i helped


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my boyfriend smokes pot and i HATE it...i have really strong feelings about it b.c of certain things from my family // well i want him to stop and he promised me he would, he did it once and i wasnt so mad then he did it at this party that i went to! i dont want him to think im trying to control his life i just dont want to associate with people who do pot and i dont like to see him hurting himself like that...im scared to talk to him about it b.c i dont have enough strenght after everything that happened in my family...well, what can i do - leave your screen name for AIM if possible ! (link)
ive been in the same situation with my boyfriend... im me on HtooHelp thats my aim

-Amanda


me and my boo have been going out for 2 weeks we love each other alot and we really wanna make out!!
but how do i?

please help (link)
there is no real way to plan to make out i guess if ur laying down watching a movie or something just lookat her and kidd her and keep kissin her on the llips over and over and mabey open your mouth a little shell get the hint i hope i helped!


I recently met this guy who I really am starting to like a lot. He has even talked about us being togeather, as in boyfriend/girlfriend, but I decided we should take it slow and go out a few more times. He recently admitted to me that he was bisexual. I still really like him a lot, so should this effect me in any way? I'm really confused, please help me. Thanks (link)
if you really like him a little thing like that shouldnt hold you back..... just go for it... theres no problem with bi people.... if you need to just talk to him about it... dont let that little thing hold you back... hope i helped


my boyfriend said something really mean to me about the way i look earlier today on the phone. i hung up on him and he keeps calling back and i wont answer. he left a message saying "if you ever stop being mad at me call me, ill understand if you dont though" i want to call him back...what should i say? (link)
call him back... the best thing is to talk it out with him... tell him you thought it was really rude what he said and he shouldnt have said it and it really pissed you off... tell him your not going to be mad at him forever because you shouldnt over something small like that... but you do need some time right now to calm down and let off some steam from being mad and tell him youll call him back when you feel better. if hes an ass about it... then dish out a comeback and say somwething bad about how he looks...but im sure you wont have to do that im sure hell understand! if you need anything else you can e mail me or im me!! hope i helped!


how do you let a guy know that u like him, but now being to obvious but by giving him little hints so maybe he will ask you out? (link)
just when you talk to him kinda touch his arms a bit and if you guys are watching a movie somewhere go and sit next to him and sit kinda close so your shoulders are kinda touching and be really sweet to him and offer him things mabey call him hun every once in a while... mabey start playing around with him and wrestle with him or something or just stare him in the eyes and when he says something like "what?!?" be like nothing and smile and look away and mabey give a little laugh! soon enough you guys will be diving into each other!!!!! lol hope i helped!


Whats the best way to dump your boyfriend? thanx (link)
Tell him its just not working out for you and you stricktly want to be friends... if he asks why just say you dont feel the same way you used to and you guess it just wasnt meant to be! hope i helped


How do I get my gf to think im "sweet" and really hang out with me alot? movies? talk on phone alot? what should i do?? I RATE REALLY HIGH!


=) (link)
to make your girlfriend think you are sweet you should do sweet things for her.... just show up with a rose one day or buy her chocoates for no reason just cuz you like her... and call her little sweet names like baby, sweetheart, ect. show her how you feel for her.... ask her if she wants to go to a movie and then pay for her ticket and her ... mabey take her to dinner one night... just the little things that most couples do... show her how you feel dont hold back and when you get on the phone with her just keep conversation going because if you dont shes going to get bored ! i know it works for me! hope i helped


If a guy touches your arm a lot as hes talking to you, is this a good sign? (link)
This probably means he likes you.... mabye hes nto sure enough to fully move in... btu he is probably moving slow to see if you go along with it and dont like look at him funny or push him away... if you like him go wih thhe flow and let it keep happening im sure something good will happen soon!!!!


On monday 7th I went to the movies with this guy I like him and he asked me out and I said YES. (doesnt go to my school). On tuesday 8th some guy I also liked asked me out after school (goes to my school) I said YES. I was going to break up with one of them but I dont know which one I should break up with. I think the guy who goes to my school is going out to get laid and bc im older then him n he likes me. Then the other guy is going out with me bc he likes me and wants to get laid. BUT then again all guys want to get laid. Who do I chose or how do I chose one? (link)
what you should do is make a list.... make one list of the good and bad thing of the guy from your school and then a list of the good and bad things of the guy not from your school... look at them both and whichever guy has more ups then downs is the keeper... thats at least what i would do! i hope i helped... if you do that and it doesnt work write me again and i may be able to think of something else!


I somehow got my bfs friends number in my phonebook. His friend texted me saying "i need to tell u something" so i told my bf i found something that i didnt want to knw. then i went to work n my bf calls n tells me he cheated on me. i go home, call him n he tells me he wont do it again, he wants to be w me, he wants a straight forward relationship. so I gave him a second chance was that wrong?He cheated on me w a girl he supposable hates, they went out b4 n she cheated on him, she hates his best friend. First he said he did it bc he didnt want to hurt her feelings then he said bc hes stupid then he said bc it just happened then finally tells me the truth bc he wants to get laid. (link)
He is an asshole! hes not worth it.... you need to find a guy who will not treat you like that you deserve better then that....it wasnt wrong to give him a second chance... everyone deserves a second chance but if he is going to lie to you and keep changing his story he is not worth it.... you need trust in a relationship and if he is going to go and cheat on you then you cannot trust him... so i think he doesnt deserve you... your so much better then that.... dump that trash and find a man who will treat you right... treat you like a princess... not like your a piece of a game! hope i helped... if u need anything else ask hun! im here for ya!


well i like this girl and she said she likes me to but she said she also likes 3 other guys at the same time but she wants 2 go out with me. should i wait until she just likes me or ask her out now?
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you should ask her out before the other guys get to her!!!! just go for it... once you guys hang out more and more shell like you WAY more then those other guys and youll be just fine! but go with her before they snatch her up!!!! hope i helped


i started liking this boy right after winterbreak. he started liking me too and we started hanging out alot. we went out for a little bit but then broke up. then he started liking one of my good friends. now he like sme again and im still crazy about him. i dont know what to do. i love him to death. (link)
GO FOR IT GIRL!!!!! if he likes you again move in and do your thing! if your friend gets mad talk to her about it and if she still gets mad... its just a boy shell surely get over it!! but follow your heart! hope i helped


i like Zain Motani could you get this message to him so that he can respond some how and tell me what kind of girls he likes please if it is not too much trouble i really like this guy (link)
i dunno who that is sorry


He is kind of overwieght, but sweet and fun to talk too. I really feel happy around him, and always try to talk to him. But at my school he is regarded as a geek, or a nerd by everyone. And I think he likes me too! I'm not quite sure I'm ready to date, but how can I have him keep liking me until I am? (link)
okay hun... you like him and he likes you! he likes you for what you are doing now... so KEEP DOIN IT!!! who cares what other people think of him... if you like him thats all you need! if your not ready to date... all you have to do is keep likin him till you are and keep doing whatever your doing to make him like you... im sure hell stick around... and if he asks you out and your sure that you are still not ready explain that to him... tell him you still wanna be friends and when you are ready tell him he will definetly be the first one you go to! but keep it real with him... and dont let what others think of him stop you! its not them going to be with him... you are... and you should do what makes you happy! hope i helped!




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