Hey guys =D here's my question.. there's this girl @ my school, we're pretty good friends. A couple of days ago, she told me she liked me in a more then friends type of way. Problem is i'm a girl & i don't swing that way. I want to tell her that i'm not attracted to her in that way, but i don't know how to do that without hurting her feelings... any ideas would be great! thanks!
Hey Sweetie, That can be quite weird for someone, but just let her know nicely, im sure if you approach it the right way then she wont be offended beyond the disappointment that you dont like her back but that is normal! Good Luck Hun!
-Britnie
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ok well theres this guy that im like friends with i guess and he likes me but i dont like him like that and he calls me EVERY day and more than once too and its starting to make me not want to answer the phone bc its most likely him and i dont want to hurt his feelings but i dont really like talking to guys that much on the phone unless we have something to talk about and me and him usually dont have anything to talk about so then ill try to get off the phone after like 30 minutes and he gets mad at me and tells me i always do this to him. i dont know what to do! please help me! -kayla
Umm i would suggest caller id! LOL Only joking i think honesty is hte only route you can take. There was a philosopher named Kant who pronouces that as humans we should always do what is right! Always so you have to ask you self though is being honest to him gonna be the right thing for you to do. And if it is you must do so! I hope things work out for you!
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I'm so sorry if it's long....
i am in love. I know it, and I can feel it. I talked to the same guy for 2 years. He lives 45 minutes away and it kills me. i see him almost every weekend, but I suffer through the week without him. It's all I think about .He's all I wish I had. It makes me miserable to be without him. Does anyone else have this feeling? This feeling when the phone rings it just might be him, or when you see his face again you just fall in love all over again? My mother tells me I'm too young to be in love. 16 is just a beginning, she says. I believe love has no boundries. I just want to know, how do you feel your in love? Express yourselves...because I know everyone loves someone.
I dont think 16 is too young at all. For some teens love can be misguiding and not be love at all, but for thosoe who have felt love at 16 it is real, and time will show that! I fell in love when i was 16 to a guy i dated on and off for a year and a half! Though we arent together any longer he is the one that showed me whta it was like to love another person sincerely. The guy i am dating now is great though he lives in Tallahassee going to FSU. I live in Navarre # hrs away! It is hard sometimes but our love is strong and we make it work. So i know where you are coming from. What i found out is that if you get out sometimes and go have fun it really does help, go out with the girls go have fun! So you wont have to be always sad. It sounds like you really miss this guy and good luck!****
***Britnie
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Okay here's the deal: (sorry if it's long but i really need advice w/ this)
three years ago i dated this guy Dave for three weeks. after those three weeks he dumped me cause i wouldn't sleep w/ him. loser. anyway; i moved on and started dating his friend. almost three years later we're stil together. they're not friends anymore tho.
so lately wherever we go and Dave's there, he'll totaly hit on me and he won't leave me alone. if we're at a party he'll follow me around all night asking me stupid questions and completely stalking me. this weekend we were at a party and my boyfriend and i were just in a corner talking and kissing and he comes up right between us and starts a convo w/ me. my boyfriend thinks it's funny cause Dave is being such a loser. my boyfriend wants me to tell him off but i just can't be mean to someone, i've never ben able to tell anyone off but i CAN'T stand Dave. usualy when he's talking to me i just walk away and totaly ignore him but he doesn't get the hint. what would you do?
Hey sounds like fun..not! I think you should say something. it doesnt mean you have to be mean about it at all but if you dont say anything at all things might get out of control. and if you dont feel comfortable doing so i would reccomend asking yourboyfriend to say something...( that is what boyfriends are for ...right to protect girls!). so i hope that helps.
*Britnie
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For me my love life sucks. I have the most amazing friends, but i still wish I had someone to actually love.
My problem is that i dont know how to really get a guys attention. I am always told to be myself, and thats what guyslove the most. But, I do just that, and I seem to not be getting any feedback. Do I need to take my 'flirting level' up a bit? pleeease help me!!
no sweetheart you dont need flirting lessons, remember that there are reasons for everything. I agree you should always just be yourself, and one day a guy will see that beauty in you and wont be able to resist.
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