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ok well theres this guy that im like friends with i guess and he likes me but i dont like him like that and he calls me EVERY day and more than once too and its starting to make me not want to answer the phone bc its most likely him and i dont want to hurt his feelings but i dont really like talking to guys that much on the phone unless we have something to talk about and me and him usually dont have anything to talk about so then ill try to get off the phone after like 30 minutes and he gets mad at me and tells me i always do this to him. i dont know what to do! please help me! -kayla
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Normally, I would say just be normal when girls talk about guys who like them who they don't like, but this one's a little obsessive, no?
You have to be upfront, but not hurtful. Try to tell him casually that you want to take it down a notch.
I have a guy friend like this too, except he doesn't like me, he's just like that. When I don't pay attention he gets mad too. Don't think nearly as much as this guy, though.
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Well in my opinion u should just le thim know that you dont feel the same way but u just want 2 stay friends with him thats what i said to this guy mike who i was kind of friends with and we still talk but thats it...so let me know how everything goes hope i helped
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Umm i would suggest caller id! LOL Only joking i think honesty is hte only route you can take. There was a philosopher named Kant who pronouces that as humans we should always do what is right! Always so you have to ask you self though is being honest to him gonna be the right thing for you to do. And if it is you must do so! I hope things work out for you!
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Have you tried telling him that you don't like him that way? I know it seems mean, but it's better than dragging on and on like this. Just explain to him that you think the two of you are better off as friends. Maybe once he realizes you aren't interested in a relationship, he'll back off a little bit. His feelings are going to get hurt no matter what. At least this way, you can save a lot of time and he can focus on finding a new girl to chase after.
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