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ok, there is this guy who definitly likes me ad i think i like him too. i have a feeling he might ask me out and i want to say yes but i know that people are going to wonder what i see in him and probably laugh and make fun of me. he's a great kid and really nice and he listens to me but he's not very attractive. what can i say to make people not bother me if we go out? (link)
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*`you can just tell people that they should just mind their own business? looks arent everythinq and if he`s a nice quy and actually LiiSTENS to you, thats special =] dont worry about what other people think, juss follow your heart. =] hope i helped!
sincerely,
chikita
P.S.- qood luckk!
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Okay so this whole thing is going to sound extremely silly but here goes...
I have this problem with falling for guys that coincidentally happen to be leaving the country in the very near future. Like...I got into a relationship with this guy that when we got involved, we both knew that he was going to Africa the next year. The relationship lasted about 8 months and we broke up before he left. A few months after that, I had a fling with a guy that's going to Japan next summer. A few months after that, I had a fling with a soldier who's going to Iraq in February. The last couple of weeks I've been having a thing with a soldier in Iraq...well, see, we're really good friends, he just left Thursday to go back, and he's coming back to the United States in October of 2007. This last one who left on Thursday, we've been talking and I can't stop thinking about him and I really want to be with him and all I can think about is how it's just not fair!!!
What should I do? (link)
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That's a rough situation there. Yeah, it sounds like it sucks big time (lol) but, unfortunately, there's not really much you can do about it.. (It's life, you know?), but that shouldn't keep you from searching! Just be sure to find out backround information first before you try and get involved with the person,and if you know they're leaving, there's not really much point in being with them if they have to leave you..(Right?)(I know that may sound harsh but it's the truth) =/ Anyways, just keep your head held up high! You'll find the right one eventually! hope i helped! =]
sincerely,
chikita
(sorry my 'grammar, spelling, and puncuation' sucks..its how I type..which I do know how to do)
(P.S.- GO0D lUCKK!!) =D
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i recently broke up w/ my girlfriend so have invited lots of girls to my myspace and about .5 have accepted. i need advice about what to talk about when i send messages b/c i don't have much to go by as they are still strangers. and i don't know how long to wait before making contact. please note, i think that all of them are cute and am interested in dating but don't want to come across as desperate or needy. any suggestions? thanks (link)
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i think dat you should talk 2 dem like you do 2 your friends. as girls, you do need to repsect them and their privacy soo try not to ask too many personal questions =];; try askin them what theyre into, what they like to do, etc. =] hope i helped!
sincerely,
chikita
(P.S.- good luck!) =]
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ok.
15/f.
My question is.. does age really matter? like i like this guy.. we'll call him... M. well M is a bit younger then me.. like 6 months or something.. we're in the same grade and everything.. if we were to go out would that be wrong because of the age?
Like i'm gonna be 16 in February but he'll still be 15.. i guess all i'm trying to say is that.. since we're in the same grade.. would age matter?
thank you. any help is appreciated:] (link)
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age definitely doesnt matter. a lot of people can have a large age difference but it doesnt matter because as lonq as they're in love, nothing else matters =] and 6 months isnt relle a big deal! so if you like him, go for it =] hope i helped!
best wishes,
chikita
(P.S.-GOOD LUCK!) =D
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I can't loose him.
I can't.
He just broke up with me.
I love him.
I can't do this.
I can't give him up this easily.
What do i do? (link)
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da way i see it, you hav 2 optionsz;;
-tell him how you feel (let it all out, tell him you dont wanna let him go && you still wanna continue your relationship wid him)
OR
-TRY to move on (cry it all out, face that there are other fish in the sea, and your opportunity to hav a relationship will come agen)
i kno its hard but you cant juss sit there cryin, regretin everythin, and juss bein completely miserable! juss think about wat you really want and if this guy is worth it. hope i helped =]
sincerely,
chikita
(P.S.- GOOD LUCK)
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16/f.
alright well i really like this kid "B". and i really thought he liked me too. we talked and everything and then we hooked up at a party. he always flirts with me and everything too. well last saturday he called and invited me and my friend to a party. we went. but he was being a real asshole to me. he was calling me a bitch and everything in the car. then we got to the party and he was like slapping my butt and tapping me on the shoulder and moving. then i was talking to this girl and she said that she just met him and she wanted to hook up with him. she said that he kissed her before he left to get us. that really made me mad. and THEN he started kissing me in front of her. and then they had sex. then he was kissing every girl BUT me. he even tried kissing my friend even though she has a b/f. she pushed him away of course. i was so mad i sat in the bathroom and i wanted to cry. but then i decided that i wouldnt let him ruin my night. so i went back to the party and i started talking to his best friend "E" that ive known since like 4th grade. he was really drunk but he kept hugging me and he told me that he's always thought i was cute but he doesnt know why he never talked to me. he said that he liked me. then i danced with him and after an hour of us talking he kissed me. he did tell me that he acts like a whore when he is drunk. he said he just wanted to stick with me. but i went upstairs and then came back down and the chick that had sex with "B" was flirting with "E". then she started making out with him. i got mad again and i just sat down. my friend went and called him a whore and said that he was an a-hole. i sat next to him and started talking to this guy about something and "E" was like "do you hate me" and i told him no but i thought that he was a whore. then he was like "im soo sorry i really like you" and the kid next to me was like if you really liked her you wouldnt be making out with the chick next to you. well by then the chick was making out with another guy. well "E" went upstairs and layed down and i had to go up there for a drink and me and him started talking and he said he was really sorry. but then "B" kept touching my shoulder and moving again. he kept asking if i was gonna have sex with "E" and i kept telling him no. he started being an a-hole again. well when everyone fell asleep, me and "E" went downstairs and hooked up. we didnt have sex though. well then that chick had sex with another guy. she was disgusting. but then the next morning "B" kept asking me if me and "E" had sex and i kept telling him no and he kept calling me a whore. "E" held my hand the whole way home and everything and gave me a kiss goodbye. the next day i got his number and i called him. then yesterday me, him, his sister and "B" hung out. and he was holding my hand and everything but "B" was again being mean to me. he kept calling me a bitch and we all went to mall. he was like "dont walk by me" and i was like "w/e" but then when we got into the car to go get something to eat he was like "why are you so mean to me" and i was like "are you kidding me? your mean to me" and he told me he was sorry and he kissed my hand right in front of "E". then when "E" was in his house to get something "B" was like this is my song to you and it the beginning went "i never knew how loved felt until i fell in love with you" and he kept flirting with me. we all went out to eat. and he kept staring at me even though i was sitting next to "E". idk what to do. there both a little "whorish" but i really do have feelings for them.
i get that weird feeling in my stomach when "B" touches me like i just want to be with him and when "E" touches me all i want do to is cuddle with him and be with him. their best friends and that makes this really hard. "E" has some flaws to though. he's always talken about hooking up with other girls in front of me. i try not to pay attention but it gets me mad. so does anyone know what i should do??? (link)
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W0WW;; you have a real situation on your hands here =/..well 1st things 1st =] dont let that girl get to you! she seems like a lil hoe and you shouldnt waste your time worryin about her..number 2- be careful on which guy you choose! both these guys seem like they cant control themselves very well which can lead to a lot of misunderstanding and stress! i cant tell you which guy to choose, but what i can tell you is just listen to your heart. i know that may not seem like much, but its all you really need to do! =] hope i helped!
sincerely,
chikita
(p.s.- GOOD LUCK!! =D)
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13/f
When a guy asks me out, how can I say 'No'?
Can I have an example of what to say? (link)
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yeah when a guy asks a girl out, its kinda awkward if we wanna say no and and sometimes we even get a lil nervous and dont know what to say..so i know how you feel! try smiling and saying "im sorry, but i only like you as a friend" or "im flattered, but id rather be friends" hope i helped!! =]
sincerely,
chikita
(P.S.- good luck) =D
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ok so like im like this girl and like i really need your help. im frends with this girl named nicole sanchez but i just dont know how to tell her that i love ur because she is the bestestestest frend in da world. she rocks my socks off. she is one of my bestest frends and i dunno wat i would do without her. PLEASE HELP. thnxx bye.
--Holly =D (link)
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W3ll ii THiiNK iiF SH3 R3AD DAT..SH3`D HAV AN 100 WATT SMiiL3 =]
P.S.- DAYUMM SH35Z R3ll3 lUCKii 2 HAV A FR3ND LYK YU
sincerely,
chikita
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i dont know what is wrong with me i dont know weather im afriad of committment or not i want guys to like me i want to have a relationship i want what other people have you know but everytime i get asked out i always find a fault and say not and no im really not shallow or anything and i want a boyfriend so bad some times and than other times i dont you know i just cant make up my mind everytime when i can have a relationship i always seem to convince myself that'll it'll never work out and most of the guys i like never ask me out so am i just being picky or am i just afriad of committment its so confusing i want somebody so bad one minute i want to be loved touched and you feel wanted but than i can never bring myself to really say yes and go for it because i dont know help me please (link)
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dont try 2 force yourself 2 have feelings 4 someone! when you really like someone you`ll know. but 1 thing us girls have a problem with isz expectations. sometimes we expect 2 much from guys. try 2 give one a chance! =] even if you neva thought of you 2 together..try it out and see what comes out of it! who knows..maybe you`ll end up wid da type of guy you`ve been longing for! =]
hope i helped!!
sincerely,
chikita
(P.S.-good luck =])
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k . so i really like this boy named DeJohn , & he likes me to ` he asked me out yesterday but i told him lets " talk " for a while .... im just scared that the SAME thing is gonna happen as it did last time ` which was gettin called a nigger lover & treated as if i was a fuckin peice of dirt i mean i SERIOUSLY dont kno What the hell is wrong with datin a black boy i mean ok different color skin i mean BIG WHOOP ? .. help me ` should i just go out with him or WHAT ??
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bein called a nigga luva can get annoyin..people seem 2 have rude opinions bout 2 people wid different colored skin goin out which is WRONG!! dont let anyone get in the way! there isz absolutely NOTHING wrong wid goin out wid sum1 who haz different colored skin, theyre human too. what matters isz da inside && not da outside (sum people dont see dat)! if he`sz a good guy && you like him den go 4 it!! =] && if people kant accept da fact you like dejohn den theyre not worth it..juss follow your heart! hope i helped!! =]
sincerely,
chikita
((good luck)) =D
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How can you tell if you like someone.. (link)
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most of the time,this is a hard question to ask ..its juss sorta in your heart..ask urself these questions..
-when you see him/her, talk to him/her, or hear his/her name, do u get nervous or butterflies in your stomach?
-do you try to talk to him/her alot?
-do you think you like him/her enough to have him/her as a crush
-do you feel comfortable around him/her
-do you like their qualities as a person (if you`ve talked to them before)
-do you stare alot?
-do you think about him/her alot?
**if you`ve answered yes to any of these questions..chances are you like them!! now for anyone who is reading this, this isnt some exact method..just questions that may be worthwile thinking aboutt
hope i helped =]
sincerely,
chikita
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okay so everyday i see boyfreiends and girlfriends walking down the hall holding hands and hugging and it really makes me mad bc i dont have a boyfriend and boys in 7th grade are SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO freakin' immature and we have a dance coming up and im hoping someone wil ask me but i think itwould be weird if i asked someone. but i really dont know who i like bc i never really got to know any of the guys in achool. (link)
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i think you should try to meet some of the guys @ ur school..and yeah lets face it..lol guysz kan be really immature theze daysz..itsz juss how they r..but beneath all those "immature" actionsz kan be a guy who can turn out to be a really good friend..or maybe even more! try to start a conversation with one of them, maybe laugh at one of their jokes and try to spark a convoz., or maybe try to figure out wat theyre into..maybe you guys have stuff in common..=]
hope i helped!!
sincerely,
chikita
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