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Hiya! Hiya for everyone!!! Everyone from Advicenators!!! And writers from FanFiction.net!! (Only for people who read my stories and my profile...)Actually, I hope my best friend, Sailor Itako would see this column... Bad thing she's in California... Anyway... I am here to give advices to everyone!! I will do my best to make y'all happy!!! Keep smiling everyone!! Happiness!! Happiness!!!
Name: Celcia Finolietta (in FanFiction), Vin (in real world), Go Chang Juan
Nickname: Vin or FCelcia
Interests: Reading, writing, drawing, dancing, singing, doing weird things, playing piano, giving advice to someone, shopping, etc.
Weaknesses: People, lizard, and school.
Goals: To be a writer, an artist, a pianist, a mangaka, dancer, etc.
Favorite things: Books, Fin mascot, Teddy Christopher, my piano, and jewelries. (+ Ghosts)
Favorite places to go: Library, Bookstores, London, Florence, Barcelona, Singapore, etc.
What makes you happy?: Books.
What you hate most?: Cheaters, arrogant people, liars, and people who say bad things about books and library.

E-mail: fcelcia@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Houston, TX
Occupation: Student, a reader, and an artist.
Age: 13
Yahoo: fcelcia@yahoo.com
Member Since: July 10, 2005
Answers: 26
Last Update: August 11, 2005
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ok now i have a boyfriend. hes nice, funny. and god hes gorgeous. But hes extremely sensitive and everything hurts his feelings. Hes jealous all the time and it drives me insane. He always has to be calling me or texting me when hes not with me, and im not the type of girl to expect him to do that. Hes got a life i know what hes doing, so its cool i dont stress over it. we've been together going on 7 months and as soon as i met him i fell for him. i've know him for like 8 months. Sounds like i need to break it off huh? If it were someone else thats what i would say. but honestly i cant. and i dont know why? like in a way i want to, but when it comes down to doing it i just cant. i forget about it. whats that mean?


i rate good if you take the time to help me out. thank you. (link)
You don't want to break up with him, it means that you like him, deep inside your heart.
That's okay if he's jealous or sensitive, it just means that he loves you so much and does not want anybody else to be with you... In this case, you just need to prove him that you're loyal and you'll never betray him. He will probably understand. And hey, type of boy like him can be trusted. Well, you love him, and he loves you, the only thing that's missing is understanding... You should just talk to him if he really drives you insane. Just tell him to trust you.
Hope it will help you. I wish for the best luck for you and your boyfriend.

FCelcia


So my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half on August 23rd. We decided that we would just get each other something small and $25 or less.. but I have no idea what I should do and I'm stumped.. If you have any ideas, please let me know.. thanks a bunch! (link)
Wow!! Happy Anniversary!!! Hope you guys will be always together!!! Well... what does he like?? Probably guys' stuffs. Like cd, shirt, watch, hat, necklace (for a boy of course), or maybe just give him something that really worthy. It does not have to be things, but can be more than that.


my ex juss broke up wit her bf and i realli still like her and her bf was cheating on her how can i get her to be back wit me cuz i still have realli strong feelings for her wut should i do? (link)
What do you think you should do?? You have this strong feelings to her, there's nothing wrong about it. Just show her your feelings. Well, if you want to get her back... cheer her on. I actually am a girl, so I know how she feels. I think that she might be hurt, her bf cheated on her!!! If I were you, I would cheer her on. (That's a way to get a girl's heart...) Then tell her that there's bunch of boys who are better than her ex bf. Then tell her that you still like her. She maybe will think about that. I hope everything will work out. I wish for the best luck for you...


ok well i might ask out a 6th grader and im in 7th grade and im probably gonna see her maybe 2 times a weekis this a problem? (link)
I don't think that there's anything wrong for a 7th grader to date a 6th grader. It's just... you like her, no matter what. (I like your attitude) It's fine if you just only could see her twice a week... It would be really special for her... especially if she liked you. So, ask her out!!!


13/f he is 14/m
Theres this guy that i've been talking to online for about a year. We eventually exchanged cell phone numbers and have talked on the phone. He is really nice and I find myself feeling in love with him. I know people probably think internet love is a bust but that's how I feel when I talk to him. He isn't one of the guys that wants to have cyber sex either, just to talk. He's always there when I need him and he's very sweet and he is always looking out for my best interests as well. I want to meet him but I don't know if I should. He lives about an hour away from me and he was planning on taking a train to visit me. I know there are some freaks out there, but I don't think he comes off as one of them and I also know to be careful and if I were to meet him I would bring a friend, of course. I don't know what to do, the train station is public but the town is small so not a whole bunch of people would be there. Please give me advice. (link)
Okay... you haven't met this guy, right? You just know him from phone calls and internet, right?? And you believe in everything he says to you?? You're really sure that you want to meet him, but what about if he's not the one that you dream about??? You'll loose it. but I think you're a positive thinking one, so just go. Maybe you should ask for a friend to accompany you, you know that it's not save for a girl alone in a place.

FCeLciA


ok im gonna try and make this short. me and my boyfriend broke up in march. but we still talk like were goin out like we still say i love you and everything. but than the other day i got asked out by another guy and i said yea. but when my xbf found out he was mad. and start sayin i thought you loved me and everything. so i broke up with my recent bf. cuz i still have feelings for my x i dont know what to do cuz my x says things will never be the same between us again so i dont know if i should move on or what someone please help me i rate high!!! (link)
Why on the earth would you say yes to someone that you don't really like?? I'm just kidding...
Actually... you should not say yes to the 2nd guy, because you still have feeling for your x. Maybe you should come to your x and tell him how you feel about him, tell him that you still love him, but you have no idea what to do because you guys broke up in march. Tell him that you're free that time, so you can say yes to every guy... But hey, you still love him, tell him how you feel. And I hope the best luck for you. Don't worry, everything will work out!!


what do boys see or like most in girls
eyes
nose
hair
legs
arms
boobs
please i rate high (link)
If it's a bad boy, he'll like the boobs... I think... But if it's a nice guy... he'll like your manner, and everything about you!!! ^_^


ok so i finally got the courage to tell a guy friend of mine that i really him, and it took me forever! He told me that it was good news to hear, and then he's been gone at camp to help little kids and everything... it was all pretty new to us to tell eachother how we felt. And he and my friend just broke up (she cheated on him) and so they're not even friends anymore.. i was jw how to keep him intrested when he comes back? I want him to know i'm still kinda crazy about him.. but i don't know where to start.. and i don't wanna come off psycho! please help! thanks!

----> the girl next door (link)
Well...that's good that you tell him how you feel!! That's a girl I wanna know... so brave!! I like the way you write about your boy...
hm...let me see... you still like this boy, right? Just tell him like you tell him before about your feeling toward him. Don't be shy. If you think that he still likes you, why don't you try??


do u think my ex-boyfriend would get jealuse if I hag out with a guy that likes me and flrits with me in frount of him? (link)
Well...that depends of how he feels about you. If he still likes you, he will get jealous. But if he doesn't, maybe he won't. But probably he will get jealous seeing you with another guy, cause you were with him before. He will miss your presence if he sees you with other guy.

*FCeLciA*


Ok well ive been dating this guy for almost 2 years. We really love each other and we live with each other. Hes been telling me latley that i dont act like i care about him. I really do and i tried telling him this and he says i dont act it and i dont show him that i care and love him..What do i do to show him that i really do wanna be in a relationship an i do love and care about him..ive tried talkin to him..an it doesnt seem to work..is there certain stuff that needs to be said? what i dont wanna loose him an i wanna be with him..but i need to know he knows i love him

i rate 5's (link)
Well...spend more time with him, tell him that you love him, and tell him how much you really need him. He probably just being jealous that maybe you care about something more than you care about him. If talking doesn't work so much, you probably want to do something for him that will tell him how much you love him. Do something, then it'll make you feel better and solve your problem.


ok i like this guy and i want to tell him but i would get nevous and red in the face if i told him. so i want to do in a way that i dont have to tell him.plz help. (link)
Well...in this case... it's really hard for you to confess your feeling, isn't it? I was having the same problem as you do, but I solved it by telling him the way I feel about him. And it was magical, even though I was nervous and blushed, I feel so great that I have told him everything. Hm... you probably would prefer to show him the way you feel than say it to him, right?? Or maybe you could just send him a love letter!! At least you don't have to say it in front of him... that's at least... So, all I could say is show the way you feel about him or send him a love letter... Oh, come on... be brave, girl!!!


i'm almost 15 and a female, he just turned 16 and a male.

i was in love with a terrific guy. we broke up... because of distance. he lived hours from me, and i guess we couldn't "date". i think if we were living you know in a area together, we would still be together. i think he still has feelings for me, and i know that because some of my friends have asked him, and he says i'm the most amazing girl he's ever met... and that meant a lot to me. do you think there's a way we could get together again? i love him, he's my first love, and i haven't been able to let another guy love me. he was so amazing and my life was perfect with him... i want him again. do you guys have any suggestions how i can tell him... and really find out if he still is in love with me. both of us haven't had a relationship since. it's been about 9 months since we broke up...well 9 on the 22nd. So I really need help, I'm confused.

I'll rate 5's (link)
I choose to answer this question because I have the same problem. I feel like I wanna cry rite now. Oh gosh... Well, if I were you, I would tell him the way I feel about him. Mm...I just did it, and it felt good anyway. You should try it! It would make you feel better. But you're so lucky... at least he tells your friend that he likes you... I think it will work out for you. If he still loves you, there's nothing that you could worry about. Just with his love, you could stand the distance. Well... I believe that he loves you. If a boy said that you are the most amazing girl he's ever met, he meant it.




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