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E-mail: mzdiamond203@yahoo.com
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Location: Georgia
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Member Since: July 6, 2004
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Okay.. well Ive been with my boyfriend for 16 months (on wednesday) Anyways.. he got drunk last night and cheated on me with his ex.. and he said that he didnt even mean to, he was just drunk.. and that he loved me he just wanted to take a break.. and he came back online, and we were talking.. and it was like.. we were still together.. i mean he still called me "babygirl" and said I love you when he had to leave.. what should i do? :/ Thanks!~ (link)
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Oh my.. maybe you two really do need a break .. to see what other people are like.. you know i mean because if you stay with one guy you might miss mr. right or something. But if he cheated on you with his ex then i see something defintly wrong there... I think that you should try to find someone else .. and see if you still like him the way you do right now .. because then you will find out if what you and him have is serious or if its just a waste of time.. and maybe you should ingore those little comments hes making and tell him to go tell that to his new girlfriend.. after all hes the one that wanted it to end in the first place.
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Ok so theres a guy I met like last year and I was actually 14 then. I met him when he was down on vacaion. We tried to make it work but it didn't because he never moved down because his dad found a job up there. I still know his AIM/Email. Should I try to contact him? What should I say? This sounds crazy but I think about him all the time and love him sooo much. I'm sure the love is strong enough the distance now wouldn't be a issue. What should I do?
Signed,
Sad and confused!
15/Female (link)
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Wow ... long distance relationships usually don`t work out.. but if you really truely love him then you and him should be able to work through anything. I think that you should stay in contact with him and tell him how much u like him and that you dont mind to be in a long distance relationship
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Alright, as extremely cliche as this sounds, I have fallen for my best guy friend. We both have seperate boy and girlfriends, and both have expressed the desire to break up with them. (Because we can tell each other everything.) Well, almost everything. Some how over the last year I have fallen for him, hard! He's really understanding but I don't want to ruin our friendship if he doesn't like me that way. I have turned down a lot of guy friends and I know how awkward it feels to be around them. But it would feel so goood to get it off my chest.
Any advice? If I should tell him.. how? (link)
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I think you should tell him straight forward.. and see if he feels the same.. hmm maybe yall are ment to be you never know until you take that chance.
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ok well i know that i should just leave him alone but let me tell u the story first..well me and this guy named Jared dated and he told me he loved me but we broke up because there was a misunderstanding and now he had been with this girl for three months and i now see that i am in love with him and he wants me to stay out of there relationship!!!What do i do?!?!?!? (link)
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Yes yes another heartbroken by the words "I love you".. I think that you should definitly tell him how you feel and tell him that she will never love you like you do.. and if he doesn`t see how much you care about him by that then hunny hes not worth it.. because if he moved on .. then i think you should! Maybe he might get jealous.. haha you never know :)
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i went out with this guy fro 8 months, we broke up durning the school year and i still like him. now my friend likes him. well shes so annoying and she brags about what they to me. Even though he doesnt like her at all and thinks shes annoying. I duno how to make it stop, shes really getting on my nerves and i already tried to talk to her about, it didnt work. HELP! (link)
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Ohh that is the same problem im having lol.. But yeah me and my ex boyfriend go back out.. and im so lucky because i get to rub that in her face haha.. im so mean.. haha anyways i think that you should tell her that its bothering you and if she still doesn`t stop then i wouldn`t talk to her or anything because how is she going to talk about how much she likes him to you and thats your ex boyfriend?? you know thats not a good friend.. anyways ... if you need anymore advice.. hit me up :D
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Now I have this friend (boy) who i tend to like a lot! and sometimes it's weird we see each other a lot but in not the right places and we barely really know each other...but we do...i know this is kinda confusing..lol..but anyways, he asked my friends if i like him and they asked me...i mean i would say yes but the only thing is i dont really "trust" these friends...because they could come out and tell EVERYBODY! and i dont want that..you know..i think he figured out that i like him...i dont constantly stare...he does sometimes...does that mean he likes me? is it wrong for me to like him when i barely know him? should i ask my friend to ask him out for me? HELP!
Signed,
Confused Cupcake (lol) (link)
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I think that you should tell him how you feel about him and see if he feels the same.. It will help out in the long run and you wont have to worry about your friends being in all your business. I dont think its wrong for you to like someone and you barely know them.. but you should try to get to know them better before you tell them you like them because they might change after a while
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me and my bf were talking last night and he kept saying i hate my brother i wish aron was my bro (thats his cousin) and he kept saying it and saying it and like i hate him i wish he wasnt my brother and i said im glad your bro is your bro and he said why do you always stick up for him? and i said cuz.. i have my reasons and he said he hated his bro more and more and kept going on and i got really mad b-cuz i love my brother and my brother is dead so out of that i said at least your bro didnt fricken die... was saying that totally wrong? i mean he kept going on and on and i wanted my point across and i've never told him it b4 but now he knows and after i said that it was a loooooong silence but then we hung up and he called back and said... i love you... and then we got off the phone with that (link)
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Aww well i think that he might be saying that because his brother might have done something to him .. but i dont think he fully knows what the definiton of hate is.. and its good you told him that because now he knows that some people dont have a brother or sister and hes lucky because he does.
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f/16: there are 2 guys that i like the good boy and the bad boy. please tell me which u think is better and why.
the good boy: likes to have fun, former bmx biker, likes to chill, friends kinda boring unless you like to just sit there an talk; in band, up to do pranks, doesnt do drugs,and likes kids but doesnt have any.
the bad boy: loves to have fun, skater, drummer, never a dull moment, always up to pranks, does drugs, likes kids but doesnt have any, always ends up in trouble (not major trouble).
thanx for your advice
f/16 (link)
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Well i dont think it really matters what we think .. you should go with the one that you have the best time with and the one that you like the most.. thats all that matters..
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Oh ok, I expressed my feelings to this guy i liked and i think i kinda scared him. Seriously there was that kinda ocward scilence, you know it was quiet. And yeah ever time i try talking to him hr just wont talk to me, and like im madly in love with him! What should i do i really reall need you help. ASAP
thanxs. (link)
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I think if hes not answering you or talking to you then you shouldn`t waste your time on someone who doesn`t feel the same way you do. You should try to move on and find someone who is gonna love you like you love them.
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OkaY there is this boy I like. And we go out, lets say his name is Chris. Well we were talking one night and he told me that he luved me and he wasnt kidding. And I told my friend I wasnt like I didnt believe it I mean if A boy just tells you that its really wierd. So yeah I told him I luved him back. But I dnt even know if he does. He told me he does and even e-mailed me saying that he luvved me and that he wasnt lyin. i really like him but im tottally not sur what to do and i like him alot. but i never really thought about luvin anyone until it was tru and how am i supposed to know its tru. i think i luv him but im not 100% sure and i told him that back so obviously he thinks i feel the same exact way. well please can someone tell me if you think he is playing with me. i mean he i liked him in the beginning of 8th grade but then he said that he couldnt go wit me cuz he aint want a girlfriend then all of a sudded we do go out and he is like all i luv u and he said he started likin me on the last day of school whitch was about a month and half ago..so its been a while and we have only been going out for..4dayz?!
Please help me! (link)
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whoa only 4 days and he tells you he loves you? ughh i think that you shouldn`t worry about loving some one right now unless your 100 percent that you really do love him.. because thats how you get hurt.. and no one wants to go threw that at all.But if you think he is playing around and it seems like that then you shouldnt tell him that.. unless you know he means it and you mean it because u dont want to go threw the pain when its over.. because im telling you alll the pain and stuff start with the i love you words. I hope i am answering this right.. but this is just what i think.
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