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hey. i live in ct too. you're really sexy, and you seem like you're awesome guy. do you have a girlfriend? (link)
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Thank you I think you are the sweetest girls I have talked to. I think we should go out. It almost feels like we are supposed to be together :) I do have a girlfriend she reminds me of you lol
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Hi im Jessica im 13 years old and i just cant find a boyfriend that i can hold onto for a whileeither they get annoying or they start flirting with someone else what can i do to find someoone for me.If anyone out there wants to im me my s/n is xxlittlejxx9.
from jess (link)
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don't get frustrated. Boys are immature and don't understand girls. Besides when you are 13 you shouldn't be looking for a serious relationship anyway. In my case I found that the right person always seems to come along when you aren't searching and searching for them. They just fall into your lap. So don't give up, just enjoy life and when a real nice guy who wants to stay around for a while on his own will comes around. Grab him! :)
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There's this guy that I like, and everyone thinks that we like each other. Everytime someone asks me if we like each other, I say no, but I really do. We both know that everyone thinks we like each other, but I don't know if he likes me or not. Everyone thinks he does though. How should I fix this? I'm 14/Female (link)
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Talk to him about it. Im sure once the topic gets going youw ill know if he does or not. Just go for it. You only live once :).... say something along the lines of
Everyone keeps asking us if we are together.. Isn't that funny? or.. What do you think about that? or.. How do you feel about that? .. Is that weird?
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Ok i kinda like this girl, but the problem is shes moving away in a little over a month. im planning on asking her out, but im wondering what she will expect to happen at the end of the month. she cant stay, i cant go with her, and i dont know if im ready for a long distance relationship. if it matters shes not moving accross the globe or anything, about a 4 hour drive. so, mostly for the girls, what is she gonna expect to happen? im 18/m shes 19/f. (link)
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Honestly dude I find it hard to maintain a long distance relationship if its even an hour. Depends how much time you have and how much you really care though. Go for it, if it doesn't work atleast you gave it your best.
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it sems like every guy that i like on the internet and they like me i eather go off on them for some rason or the stop talk ing to me what is wrong with me (link)
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Internet guys.... haha don't go for people you meet on the internet. It usually NEVER works out. I have met many girls and for some reason once you meet you just stop talking. I only keep in touch with about 4 of the many girls I have gotten to know from the internet.
And at your age you really need to be careful with meeting guys from the internet. Guys are weird, give it time you will find a decent one :)
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My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and we are very much in love. We do not attend the same highschool so not seeing him everyday does make it hard, but other than that, we have a very good relationship. He has a myspace and there is this girl that comments all the time saying how he's "An awesome kid" and she wishes they could hang out more. I checked out her myspace and in a few of her pictures, HIS pictures are in there with her. Not just him by himself, but him with her and another one of their friends. He's been spending wayy too much time with her and I don't know what to think. I've been cheated on by every boyfriend I had and I thought this one would be different. I don't know what to do. Can anyone help me out? (link)
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Well I douldn't jump to any conclusions that he is cheating on you. Since you don't go to the same HS and can't see each other every day maybe he has someone else he has been hanging out with. I would confront him about it, maybe even ask her?? Maybe she doesn't know he has a girlfriend? Im not to sure going about it like that is the best way but its an option. Talk to him about it, a year is a long time and to have gotten that far im sure you guys have great communication.
Im here if ya need me :)
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K, i dated my ex-boyfriend for about 8 months. We broke up for a stupid reason, but we never got back together, but we still hung out and acted like we were dating. I can't handle the fact that we're not together. For example, this weekend, I was talking to his friend, Mike online. He was telling me that he wants to hook up with three other chicks. I got mad because he lied to me, saying that I was his only one. I know he shouldn't feel obligated to me but I don't know. Today at school, he found out I was mad and he said he didn't know what to do and I should move on. I really do want to move on, but I don't know how, or the right way to move on. I know wallowing and watching depressed movies is a good way to go, or finding somebody else, but every girl that's been broken up with knows that doesn't work. Can someone help me?
Oh, and don't say "don't see him anymore" because I have one class and lunch with him every day. I can't not see him. And i always talk to him too. If I don't talk to him he'll get mad. SOMEONE HELP! ill rate 5's for any decent answer.. and sorry for the length. (link)
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Well hun the fact that he told you to move on was a very blunt statement. You should probably take his advice. It takes time, it doesn't happen fast. But summer is coming soon so classes with him won't be something to worry about soon.
Watching sad movies? lol watch comedy and talk to friends about it.
He tells you to move on but gets mad when you don't talk to him? Hes playing mind games.. Typical guy :)
Well tell him that if you are to move on and get over him that you can't just keep talking to him, you need your space. Seeing him is one thing but talking to him, hanging out with him is a different story. He can't get mad if you don't talk to him. You aren't obligated to talk to ANYONE .. :) If you need anything, send away .. Im glad it was long and expressed. When people ask short questions its hard to base a good answer on them
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I don't know anymore what to do. Yesterday I posted a question here but I'm still confused. I met this guy in school. (You won't believe this) Last Grade 2, I started to have crush on this guy and It continued until now. I have not seen him for 1 year now but I still kept thinking about him. I know where his school is but I can't go there since I have a scholarship in my school. I think he likes me but is too shy to really tell me directly. He tried to talk to me last time and often smiled at me but I didn't talk back and smiled back at him :(. I regret that fact and I really wanted to show to him that I care. He even walked with me to my classroom last time but I still didn't talk to him. It was because I was nervous. Now, I didn't see him anymore. Sometimes I cry often because of him. It's really different with him and I am also worried because he has a personality problem last time. What if he would be led the wrong way? Please help me. What should I do? Age: 16 Gender: Female (link)
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Sometimes you make those mistakes but you learn from them. Thats why I am not afraid to talk to a girl anymore. If you wait in life things won't happen. You need to act apon them. Don't transfer schools because some guy smiled at you. Talk to him next time you see him and if you can.
Don't be afraid, he sounds like a decent guy, go for it. Ask him for his number! Its 2005 :)
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Okay my boyfriend(Steve) means alot to me and i mean alot to him. I care about him so much w/ like everything i've got, i am so afraid of losing him, me and him have been thru way too much for us to break up now. We've been together for like 9 months now and he has become the love of my life, the person i wanna be with forever, he has this friend(Shana) and they've been freinds for like mad long before i ever came in the picture and i dont want them to stop talkin but at the same time its like i am VERY VERY jealous of the girl, i dont know why i am but i am. Its really weird cause theres other girls he talk to and i really dont care about them, but her i do, and he's going into the air force in 75 days and i know for a fact that i wont do nothin wrong while hes gone , and i trust him but what if something happens and he finds someone else and doesnt come back for me.. In the past i have done shit that maybe gives him a reason to not trust me like i cheated on him ONCE and never again and i lied to him about cigarettes, but after all that and we talked about it i dont think i could lie or cheat on him again, the reason why i know why i wouldnt cheat is because that was like at the beginning of the relationship and all the shit we've been thru after that happened i dont think i could do that to him, hes the reasom why i made it thru all of it(it was a big mother-daughter-moms bf thing).. i love him alot, i dont even think LOVE is the exact word but its the closest. He is the best tbig thats stepped into my life and i am afraid of losing him, we also argue alot too, and we both accuse each other of things but then we talk it out. please what do u think is the future for us?
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The Air Force.. wow. Somehow I get the impression that he is older then you. You seem to be the one who is jealous of her and does he know this? If not maybe you should talk to him about it and hear his side of the story. Honestly you aren't going to see him all that much if he is going into the Air Force.. Boot Camp, Training, and serving if he does.. A friend of mine was dating a guy and she had been with im 4 years on and off and when he went to the Navy .. It only lasted a few months and that was it. They still talk but it was hard with her going to college and him going to the Navy. Love is a funny thing, but if its real you won't loose him.
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im a guy who is shy and i like this girl who is like my best friend and i want to have a bigger relationship with her, what should i do to get her attention? please help!! thanks (link)
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Thats always a real tricky one. With this one I personally would give it time. Depending on how old you are its a big thing. I was 17 and told my best friend of 2 years that I basically was in love with her. She felt weird and didn't talk to me for 2 months. We are fine now, I realized it was some silly feeling I had. Sometimes in the long run its the best thing but.. I dono dude hint at her. Give her smiles maybe tell her shes very pretty one day. When a dance comes ask her to go with you and maybe make a move there.
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Ok...my boyfriend broke up with my like.. 4months ago..so like in january.. the end of december.. and like i really really like him... and i want him to kno that i like him without like... tell him.. i mean i pretty much spelled it out for him..but hhe is like blind... well anywayz, i just need help!
DeSpErAtE! (link)
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I was hanging out with an amazing friend of mine and she had broken up with her BF and I had broken up with my GF.. She said to me because we were both upset.. EX's are EX's for a reason!!
If you have spelled it out for him and he still doesn't seem to see it. I don't know how to say this but maybe he is ignoring it and isn't interested? Sometimes you just need to move on as easy as it is to say.
If you REALLY decide you like him the best way IS to tell him in person by yourself but its not that easy. Have a friend tell him or write him a note.
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i'm 14 and a female. Last year, i went out with my friend. We broke up over the summer, but i knew he still liked me and i kinda still liked him.
this year, i started liking a new guy (one of my friends), and (stupidly) told him that i liked him. nothing really bad came of that but he told me he was happier being friends with me. so, we stayed friends. He says cute and romantic things to me and tells me he loves me and stuff, but still claims hes "not sure" how he feels about me.
now, i know my "ex" boyfriend from last year still likes me, and now i'm beginning to have feels for him again. I also still like my other friend. so should i wait for a guy that might never like me like i like him? or should i try to "rekindle" the relationship i had before? (link)
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Wait around results in missing out on golden oppertunities. But in this case I would wait it out and try something new. Rekindleing... *shudders*
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It is almost the anniversary of the night that I met my first love. I met him @ a school dance and there is a school dance the day b4 the anniversary of the night that I met him and I want to remind him of how it use to be, just for old times sake. What should I do? just 2 give u an idea:
"ribbon in the sky" by stevie wonder was kinda like our song. he likes the ocean. we met that night and were attracted to eachother and fell in love this summer. any ideas of what i can do???
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Request the song, possibly if there is any form of water in the area go there. Not sure if you drive or not but after the dance going to the water would be very nice.
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I know this is probly a question you get every now n then.. but I think I like thsi kid.. but we have only talked a couple times.. but each time we were kinda like... yah know flirtyishh and we don't talk a whole bunch.. but I think he might like me too.. but Ionoo is it too early to like him? and what should I do to figure out if I really do? (link)
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People can like someone just by watching how they act towards other people or based on looks (Which I don't recomend)
But if you like him you will look foward to seeing him throughout the day.
Possibly find yourself dressing up and making yourself pretty to impress him.
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