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hey everyone! You can call me elle. I absolutley love helping people so i hope you will come to me if you need anything!!! i'm into acting and i have an agent...its my passion and i've been surrounded by it my whole life. also, if anyone is depressed or anything i'm a good person to ask how to deal with it. i myself went through that sort of pain and came out the other end a better person. i'm here for everyone...anytime you need me! thanks!!!

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okay,here is the scenario

i met this gal on the net,so what happens is that it is a chatroom,right,and we chat and soon find that we share the same interest and all that.we did not have cyber sex and it was just pure talk,later she sent me her photo and her msn.we soon had a great chat,but she has never seen me before.she then confessed her feelings to me on one night so here's my question:

1)does it count as love when a gal says she loves you when she has never seen you before,but loves your personality,chatting with you and everything else.

don't ask why i did not sent her my pic yet,i'm working on it,but i just wanna ask if it counts as love or not till this point where she doesn't know how i look like but likes my personality and other stuff.

ok,personally,i've never been into the whole meet someone from a chatroom and build a relationahip thing but I'm certainly not saying its all bad.I know people in my life who have started talking to someone online and it has worked out for them..and also people who its not worked out so well for. truthfully, I think this ones you're own feeling toward the subject. I mean, who am i to say shes not in love with you..i've never met her and don't know anything about her so she could be the kind of person who can connect with someone without meeting them but then again, maybe shes not. I have a question for you..do you trust her? I mean, chatrooms are made especially to get people to think they know each other better than they really do. If you think you have a valid reason to beleive she knows you through your words then great for you, but i'm here to tell you it dosn't always work that way. personally, i don't think i could fall in love with someone i've never met..thats just my perspective. But i can't possibly begin to speak for this girl. Who am i to ruin love if its accually there. You've never met this girl,and you may never meet her...who knows if its accually safe to. This is a pure from the heart dicision. to me, i have to know a person well enough but who knows, love works in misterious ways and no 2 people are the same when it come down to it. Someone once said you should beleive the person the first time until they give you a reaon not to and thats exactly what i'm telling you. You're lucky to find someone who cares for you so much but be careful, a heart is an easy thing to break. If you decide to trust, be aware of the consicuences. Hope i could help!

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15/f. i've recently found out that i get crushes on people waaay too easily and quickly. like today we had a field trip and on of the guys that was new this year who is friends with a lot of girls i talked to the first time. he is really nice and funny and we stayed together the whole time on the field trip and sat next to each other for two of the presentations and at lunch. it is so weird because i just basically met him but i've started to like him. i know that he doesn't suspect anything because he is friends with like a lot of girls because he is easy to talk to. and we got each others numbers and screen names, but that doesn't really mean anything to him. what can i do to stop getting crushes on guys so easily.

also i started out being friends with this "punkish" guy that is bi. he is so nice and even though i'm kinda girly, i've kinda started to like him. i know that i have no chance with him because 1) he likes older people, and 2)people would probably make fun of us. what can i do to stop liking him. i'd much rather just be friends with him.

thanks!

the thing about being 15 is, thats what we do! we get crushes on people we barly even know or people we have a strong connection for one day..thats perfectly normal.guys are a very important part of our lives and looking for the right one and hoping he'll be the one you want all the time makes a lot of sense because smart girls like us know that they really could be the one we want! keep doing your thing...its the only way to find someone you truley care about and beleive me,when you do its the best feeling in the world!!!also, when you find that person,you'll stop looking and falling for those other guys. until then,enjoy the fact that you are free to date and go out with whoever you like that way!!! thats half the fun!!!about your guy friend, you just have to tell yourself it won't work..that is,if you truley beleive it won't. personally, i wouldn't care about what others think...i mean..why should those people care..its your life,ya know! i also know that although he may like older people that he won't nessisarily always go for them. if you really don't think its worth a try, exept it and move on. you can't help who you like but once you except it,time heals everything..and thats a promise!hope i could help!

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Well I met this guy at the dog park. He's incredible, and we totally hit it off. Then, this afternoon, we made plans to meet again, and we did, and though we didn't talk as much (there were other people there we were talking to) I had an incredible time. He's one of my myspace friends, should I message him and tell him I had fun, or would that be wierd? Should I wait a while? How long should I wait to see if he wants to hang out again?

Also I'm 18 and he's 24, do you think he'll think I'm too young? Ah this is so crazy I'm so infatuated with him.

GO FOR IT!!! i bet he feels the same. fyi: i'm 5 years younger than my bf and we're going strong so you arn't too young! tell us how it goes

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