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i'm 22 f and my bf is 24 we've been together for 4 months but were friends for 2 years before. resently conversations about the future have been coming up. he says that he would love to marry me and be with me always but wants to be together for longer before he makes that comitment. however when the subject of kids came up he was more excited. i want to have kids with him but i feel that this is more important to him then marriage. which doesn't fly in my books. i'm a little old fashioned that way. is this just me being crazy or should i really worry about it. (link)
I would say that there is nothing to worry about, only time can tell if you are meant to be together as 4 months really is not a long time even if you were friends before hand there is a big difference between the two. I would suggest that the next time a conversation about the future comes up you should just explain that you do not want kids until you are married if he loves you the way you think he does I'm sure he will understand. I hope this helped, Good Luck.


am a female and i had sex with my bf for 8 months and unprotected and he has cummed inside of me. but i realise that my period hasn come yet and i feel this horrible pain in my puvic area.. also my breast are so sensitive and they hurt so much. i also started getting dizzy and i berly can stand strait some times.. Can i be pregnant?? (link)
Yes, There is a big chance that you are pregnant. Sensitive breasts, stomach aches and dizzyness are sometimes signs of Pregnancy. Especially as you have had unprotected sex and have skipped a period I would get a pregnancy test for the pharmacy or if you can I would go see a doctor. The doctor will help you if you are pregnant and If you are not pregnant I would recommend that you have a chat with your doctor about protection such as The Pill and use condoms in the future to avoid this situation again.
I hope I helped. Good Luck.


no mascara or anything else just eyeliner on lower eyelid. (link)
I wear eyeliner on my lower eyelid, this makes my eyes stand out however I do also wear Mascara. I think it might make you look a bit moody as it shows off the lower parts of your eyes and not your whole eye. However as long as you do it with an eye pencil that is not black it will work. For example I have used just white eye pencil on its own and it works fantastically because it makes the eyes appear wider and more awake than they actually are.
I hope this helped.


I'm really popular at my school, probally the most popular girl in my school; but I don't like any of the jocks or popular guys at my school who like me. I like this one guy who is in a totally different group than the one I hang out with. He's not someone a bunch of girls like, and he's not really popular. He hangs out with the punks and rockers and people lke that, and I do dress punk, but I don't no how to talk to him. I don't have him in any of my classes and he doesn't know who I am. A couple of my friends know him, but my other friends would kill me if I became friends with him or went out with him. Which I can't because he has a girlfriend at the moment , but for now I just wanna get to know him. What shoild I do? (link)
i think that you should find out if he has an email or msn addy and then talk to him through that. but first i think you should randomly talk to him eg ask him where your next room is. then get to know him. if you do like him you should tell your friends if they are true friends they will understand.


does anybody know if the pick of destiny is rated r or is it still unrated? haha thanks, im sooooo excited for that movie!!!!!!!!!! (link)
is that film the tenatious D film beause if it is ,it is a 15. and comes out on the 23/24


Ok if i go to the health clinic and tell them that i had sex and the condom fell off what do you think they will do? (link)
I think that they will sit you down and friendly talk to you about what happened and then they will give you advice like taking the morning after pill or taking a pregnance test at the very last resort.
I think they would be very helpful and you would be in good hands
i hope this helped.


well about the young boy earlier we had sex 2 day ago and we didnt use a condom and he bused in me a told me we couldnt have sex anymore he always do this and i dont understand why he does this over and over again he knows how i feel but when i push him away he make a way back in my life to hurt me again it really hurts like someone stabbed me in my chest (link)
i think you already know the answer to this question. If you know that letting this guy back into your life is going to hurt you. DONT LET HIM BACK IN. it just takes one easy word 'NO'. He is obviousley using you and you have to much dignity to let yourself be used like that. i hope this helped


Hey. I want to get Christmas presents for four of my best freinds. However, I have no clue what to get them! They are all 15 years old and all girls. I want it to be something special. Does anyone have any ideas of what I can get them?

It can be homemade of store bought. (link)
Hi,i was in a similar situation and desided to have both homemade and store brought presents so that you save money and your friends still get great presents. I would suggest that you can buy them some chocolate, maybe a pair of socks and then you can hand make their xmas cards and make really nice jewelery this shows that you care about your friends and have put alot of time and effort into their gifts.




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