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My math 10 teacher has been acting really strange around me. He came up to me the other day and said "my wife's maiden name is the same as yours". He also said I reminded him of his wife when she was younger, and said it in a kind of romantic (yuck) way. Another time he caught me and my friend writing notes, and then he came up to me, tried to read the note, and then said "oh it's a love letter to me". Another girl heard and thought he was joking, because she said "I highly doupt that sir". But I know he was being serious. I always catch him staring at me. One day he heard me say the F word. He told me to stay behind after class. Instead of giving me crap, he said "I'm really suprised at you, but I'm just going to give you a warning". He was talking seductively. I know he was enjoying having me all alone.
It feels really gross and wrong of him. I am only 15. He's like old enough to be my father. What should I do, and is he being inappropriate or am i overreacting? (link)
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Saying your teacher is coming onto you is a pretty serious allegation. It is advisable to tell someone however if you think you're overracting then maybe just see what happens. He might just be a weirdo in general.
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I like this guy, hes not that popular and i know people will think i was crazy if they found out i liked him! I dont know if he likes me or knows i like him. I always drop hints and stuff and he is like one of my good friends. Everytime we talk about who each other likes he says he dosent know who he likes and i say i cant tell him . I dont want to make things akward between us if i do tell him. I am really confused and i cant take it anymore.! (link)
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just tell him before it gets too awkward to even talk to him anymore. if your friends really are "cool" then they will accept him and hopefully see in him what you see. if they don't accept him then they clearly aren't worth hanging out with at all.
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Ok well there is this girl who told me she loved me but she broke up with me like 2 weeks ago then made out with her other friend that she liked the next day. I was wondering she does love me again and stuff and i love her but i dont kno wut to do. Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you.
P.S. I rate high. (link)
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i think the best advice is to move on. she made a really really fast rebound. sorry :-(
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I'm feeling really bad about something. Well about 4 months ago a married man that I had feelings for gave me a computer. We never had an affair but came close. He gave me his old computer because he was moving with his wife to another province and said he just wanted to get rid of it. I excepted it but felt guilty about excepting such an extravagant gift. He knew I didnt have much money and I think he also gave it to me because he felt bad for moving away from me.
Well anyways, I havent told any of my friends or family. I have the computer hidden in the bedroom of my appartment. I put it in the bedroom because my friends never go in it, they usually just hang out in my kithen or living room. They all still think that I've been going to the library to check and send emails. Since he gave me the computer, I got the internet hooked up. I never said anything to my friends or family because I knew I'd be bombarded with questions, and wanting to know why a married man would give me such an extravagant gift.
Should I tell them or just keep it a secret?
signed,
guilty (link)
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That was a very kind gesture of him. Since nothing actually happened you don't have to put any sexual tension on it. You shouldn't feel guilty that he gave you such a nice gift, especially because he probably didn't need it anymore.
I think it is ok to tell your family and friends you have a computer. If you don't want to tell them the truth (which isn't advisable) then you can say that you got it on ebay or at a garage sale or something like that. There is not much explaining involved there. If they ask about the money just say that you've been saving up and didn't want to tell anyone because you didn't want anyone to help you out.
If you want to tell the truth- which I would suggest. Tell them that you have a very generous friend who just moved away and he didn't have use for it anymore. You don't have to give details unless you feel comfortable. Truthfully this new computer should be a sign of relief, so don't feel guilty about it!
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Today at school something really sad-mean happened to a friend of mine and we were all talking and thinking about stuff and we were wondering....
Why are guys such jerks towards fat girls?
and why don't they liek to date chubby girls? how come they only like to date girls who are sticks with a drawn on face?
k thanx i rate 5's. (link)
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Ok don't jump on me but.. do you like to date boys who are fat or have greasy pimple faces or who know how to turn on a computer than turn on a girl? Yeah.. I didn't really think so.
Another important question to ask is why are girls suck jerks toward fat girls also?
This is a situation that is not a fault of boys or girls alone but society in general. I'm not going to get into a rant about this but I'm just going say that right now it sucks hard but as you and those boys get older you'll all start to notice what's on the inside of people and not just what's on the outside. I am 20 years old and have never been the toothpick or the fat girl... but I still got picked on. There will always be assholes and there will always be truly kind people- it's part of life and you just have to learn who to surround yourself with. What exactly is it about the "cool" guys that makes them so cool and why are you so attracted to them. Is it their abs, their guitar, or their infectious vibrant personality? If it is the latter then you are a lot more mature than most people your age(or mine). All I can assure you is that I promise people eventually grow up.. and if they don't, you'll realize you don't need to be wasting your time around them.
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ok i just started going out with this guy yesterday and today at school he was seriously CLINGY and he said he loved me at the end o the day i was so freaked out how should i act around him what to i say cuz im not even sure if i like him anymore PLEASE HELP SOON 5's for anyone who helps at all (link)
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Ew isn't it just so creepy when someone who you don't know that well is like "I love you"!?!? I had a boyfriend that used to do that before we'd even been dating a month. ::shudders::
If you still like him- ask him to hang out and tell him to take it slow because love is a big emotion.
If you don't like him anymore- tell him you want to hang out but you just want to be friends. If he persists just tell him you're not into him like that.
For just acting about him in general just be casual and don't let him know you're uncomfortable. I don't know how old you are but emotions come and go fast- you shouldn't have much to worry about soon enough.
Good luck
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When there's any sort of social gathering involving alcohol, my fiance always gets drunk. Not completely drunk, just a little drunk. It used to not bother me at all. But lately, it's blown up into a huge deal.
It stems from the fact that my mother was an alcoholic when I was a child. Also, when my fiance and I were split up for a month, he went through a depression and would drink every day and smoke a pack of cigarettes every day, and almost got kicked out of college.
So now when I see him drinking at all, it angers me to the point I want to explode immediately. Since he has informed me that he will still drink no matter what, we've decided upon a compromise; he can drink on special occasions, but not get drunk, even a little bit. BUT, even that angers me!
When he started smoking, I did everything I could to stop him, but I failed. He is finally quitting now, but I'm afraid that alcohol will one day be the same way, especially if we hit a rough patch in our lives. He makes excuses for drinking, such as saying it's the only way he can be himself in a crowd, and that scares me!! But on the other hand, I don't want to be completely irrational and fight about this all the time.
What should I do? (link)
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No matter how much you talk to him and tell him how you feel he's really just not going to listen until he's ready. I hate to say it but if it's "the only way he can be himself in a crowd" then his mother is not the only alcoholic in his family. Does he know that alcoholism can be genetic? Is this something you want to live with the rest of your life and perhaps pass onto your children? If I were in this situation I would either be proactive and get him to AA or I would move on. :-/
Just remember you can't control him and until he's ready to admit he has a problem he's not going to help himself.
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I've never had vaginal intercourse, but about 6 years ago I fooled around with my first and only bf. I performed oral sex on him and also let him perform anal on me without using a condom.
I tell everyone that I'm still a virgin and saving myslef for my husband. No one knows about what I did with my ex bf.
Should I get tested for any STD's? Just to be on the safe side? I know it was 6 years ago. Also, what are the chances that I could have caught something? (link)
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I'm assuming that if you have not yet been tested that you have not been to a gynecologist either. If this is true it is high time to go! If you were sexually active six years ago then I assume you are at least around 20, so if you are and you haven't been to the gyno then it's really time to go. Just for your general health if anything. Please get tested. And if you can't afford a doctor then go to Planned Parenthood or your city's public health care provider.
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K so about a month ago Mr. X (who doesn't know I exist) walked across my PE class to get the the basketball court outside. Usually we have people walking in and out all the time so it wasn't so odd. Other than that, I barely see him around school. I took a PE class to meet him maybe but he is in a more advanced class.
So today, I went inside his PE Class and was playing hoops when he walked in and looked at me with a suprised expression on his face and asked his friend "Is this the ------- right class?". I didn't understand why he would say that because usually people walk into the gym and play all the time.
So my friend and I moved to the outside courts and started playing hoops in the rain. There was only a guy at the edge of the court, trying to tie his shoelaces. Other than that it was just me and my friend. Then Mr. X walks outside with his friend and stands at the edge of the court with his friend, dribbling a soccer ball with his feet. Anyways, he just stands there for like 10 minutes, dribbling and talking to his friend. It was odd because everyone inside was playing ball and he led his friend outside to where me and my friend were playing.
Sorry if this is long but is he interested maybe or...? I rate 5's. (link)
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err i don't want to break your heart but it sounds like he's just kind of a cocky guy that does what he wants when he wants and doesn't respect how other people react. i dont suggest getting your hopes up too high. sorry :-\
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