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I like this boy, he likes me. My mom won't let me date yet. WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?!?!? (link)
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I think that you should ask your mom why she won't let you date. It could be a reason that she is not telling you. Maybe she is afraid you are going to get hurt and she doesnt want to see you like that. I need alittle more information other than she wont let you, to give you a better answer. Like, did she give you a reason or did she just say no. If she just said no, usually that means that as a parent she is not ready to let you date. Maybe she got her heart broken at one point in time by someone that she thought really liked her. I think you two need to sit down and talk about why she wont let you. Conversation is the key here. If you dont talk about the things that are bothering you or the the things that you want, then you two need to work on having a better relationship. I personally think that you need to talk to her about it more or at least give me more info on her reason why you are not allowed to date. Let me know more info and i might be able to help more. Good luck and i hope to get more info on this soon...
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well i read the advice thing about the guy being shy by not telling my friend he liked me. thanks i appreciated it (: . yeah so today at the end of the day..he and his friend were sitting behind this girl michelle. so yeah he was like, "haha michelle you have no one to talk to in here", and then he was asking her and his friend, these ela questions cause he needed help or whatever(and since they are all in the same ela class), he was smiling a lot. So i asked my friend, "is he always this way to michelle?" and she said, "no" then she said they argue a lot in ela class ( seriously argue not jokingly) so i was wondering does this mean he doesnt like me or he does.. i dont know if he was being this way cause i was there or he really likes michelle. he did look at me during quiet study ( last period class) but that was towards the end of quiet study. What do you think this means? was he trying to make me jealous or does he really seriously like michelle.
thanks in advance! (link)
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Okay... im glad your asking me another question... id be happy to explain... I think that he was just trying to make you jealous. You said that he needed help answering a question. So maybe he was being nice to her so that she would help him. Us girls like the attention guys give us no matter if it is positive or negative. I think this guy really does like you. If he is starring at you that much then he likes you. Guys think that if they make the girl they like jealous then the girl will flirt more or initiate the relationship... If your to scared to ask him if he likes you then the next time he looks at you... wink. Then look away... The next time he looks at you.... blow a kiss only using your lips. And this time, smile afterwards. This should work. That way your not really talking to him but your showing him that you are interested. Take my advice and try those two things before some other girl gets his attention. Guys do move on if the girl they like is not showing any emotion back. So you better get him before someone elso does. Do the two things i told you and then come back and tell me how he reacted. I might be able to tell you what to do next depending on his reactions. Good luck hun and keep me posted....
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whats the diff between lust and love
we've had sex already!!!
and he still likes kickin-it w/ me (link)
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Okay... lust is when you are not in love with the person and what your doing is just plain fun. Such as sex. Sex is different when you are in love. Making love and having sex are two different things. So you need to decide which one you are doing. I myself am happily married and what we do in bed is making love. What i used to do with him and other guys was just having sex. It was all fun and didnt really mean anything. I understand he like kickin it with you. But didnt you say that he doesnt know if he feels the same way you do? Give me more and I may be able to answer you better.
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Hello....lol
background: I have a guy friend and he says i'm one of his best friends. I told him i liked him like 5 months ago..but it didn't ruin the friendship. Then about 2 months after that, I asked him did he like me more than a friend and he said no...i only asks becuz i thought he really did like me....
Ok..So i have this guy friend named david and we are good friends and i use to crush on him but he has a GF.
NOW: I was talking to my guy friend on the comp about 3 days ago. I told him, "I'm think i'm gunna ask david to come with me to church this saturday." He said, "Ok..like i care."...and i said, "why so you always act like this?!" He said, "becuze i'm not interested."
What does that mean?...after that happened i signed off and we haven't talked since. I'm not talking to him. He can call me..and then i'll talk.
also..one time we were passing notes in church adn i was telling him what i thought david was gettin me for x-mas. and he wrote, "cool"...when i asked him why..he said he was jealous. So the next time he said cool after i talked about a guy..i asked himm why he says cool...and he got defense and asked me who asks what cools means..he said cool is just cool....Is he jealous or does he like me?..i'm really conufused. (link)
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Definately jealous and does like you. He's scared to admit that he likes you and I think its hard for him to see you talk about another guy. Especially since he does like you more than a friend. Try not talking about other guys around him. That really does not help anything. That only makes them drift further and further away. Try talking to him and explaining that you like him and that he can tell you if he likes you back. Good luck hunny
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well this guy sat next to me last year. we became friends really good friends. He would flirt with me and i could tell he liked me.. all my friends said he deffinatly did.. but i never told him my true feelings because we were such good friends because i didnt want to lose him as a friend if he said he didnt like me so yeah then summer came and i saw him again in september (for school). And he would look alot at me. Many times we would make eye contact. and like 2 or so weeks ago my friend caught him talking to his friend saying he liked me and all this other stuff. And so like 4 days ago she asked him, "do u like(she said my name" and he said nope. and then my friend was going to leave and he said ,"i know she likes me." so my friend was confused because he said i know she likes me really happilly. well yesterday at school been wierd i caught him multiple times looking at me and he seems to be more shy. But today he was looking at me through the corners of his eyes. And i saw him look at me alot of times. He didnt really seem shy today.. he looked at me a lot. So i dont know what this all means? Please give some advice. Thanks in advance! (link)
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This is so my area... I am happy to help on this one. Sometimes your best friend can be more then just a friend. You feel comfortable with them and since you are friends they know everything about you. Such as, your likes and your dislikes.... It is actually better that he is your friend but now you think he likes you more. This gives you a better chance at the relationship working out. Theres really not much more to know about each other. I think that he said he didnt like you because he was scared. Guys dont really liked be bumbarded like that. It scares them and makes them nervous. Sending your best friend to do the work also didnt help. Its better if you do the asking. If your a shy person, maybe you can write him a note and tell him how you feel. But i suggest you talk to him face to face. Let your feelings come from the heart. If you tell him how you feel and he doesnt want to be friends anymore then he really wasnt your friend at all. Friends listen to what each other have to say and dont judge them on how they feel. I think he really does like you and hes scared to tell you. Guys do get scared you know. Especially around a girl that he cares about. Staring at you all the time is also a dead give a way. Good luck and i hope you do the right thing by telling him how you really feel.... in person.
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my boyfriend's friends jsut passed away. HE's doing stupid things and using their names as an excuse. HE's taking it really hard. I was wondering if theres anything i can do to make him feel better?
right now i don't know what to do. i really want to help him..
please help. asap. thnx so much. (link)
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I am sorry for his loss. I know how hard it can be to lose someone you care about. You need to sit him down and let him know that doing stupid things is not going to bring them back. Also, let him know that you are there for him. Tell him that if he needs to talk then youll be there to listen. He really needs to talk about it. Doing stupid things and keeping it bottled up is not going to make things better. Talking is the best way to help him right now. If that doesnt work then I suggest you to persuade him to go and speak with a grief counselor. They are specialized in that and they know exactly how to help. You can usually find them in your local area. Sometimes regular counselors can also help if he is not willing to talk to you. Good Luck and i hope this will help you out
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my parents won't let me have a boyfriend only because they didnt date people until they were in college. i know they want to protect me but this is really bothering me because everyone else is going off and having fun with there boyfriends when i can't have one.
so does anybody know any things i could persuade them with? i dont want to bring it up like I WANT TO HAVE A BOYFRIEND. i just want it to kind of..come into the conversation. if you know what i mean, but any help is fine. THANKS IN ADVANCE! (link)
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I think I may be able to help with this one. Let me start by asking, " If everyone jumped off a bridge would you do it too?" Just because everyone else is doing it is not a good reason. That answer never worked for me and I doubt it will work for you. I think that they are just trying to protect you and they dont want you to get hurt. You also need to understand where they are coming from. To start with, you might want to ask them if you can go to a movie or go study with a boy before you ask to have a boyfriend. You need to get to know a guy first. Asking parents to let you date is not a good way to start out. You have to gradually work your way to that. So just start with the movie or the studying thing. I hope I have helped.
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Okay so theres this guy that i really like ..
Hes 18 only two and 4 months older then me and he had a girlfriend that hes always off and on with but see even when hes on with her hes always trying to get with me and he tells me he really does like and isn't using me or anything like that but whenever im able to do something hes not and when hes able to do something im not ..
And like I really really like him and and i think im falling for him (not in love) and i just don't know what to do with him because i want him to be all mine but the problem is that hes going back and forth between me and his ex
but im not one of those girls who make people choose i dont like that so i just dont want to do about him should i give up or should i keep trying to make him mine?
HELP!!! =/ (link)
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okay, lets see if I can help you out on this one. If your wanting honest advice then here it is. First of all, if he says that he really likes you and is not using you then why is going back and forth between you and his ex? That sounds to me like he is and he's just telling you what you want to hear. Guys do that to make themselves look in front of a girl. I myself have actually been in this situation and I got out of it. You deserve someone who wants to be with you all the time and not keep going back to another girl. Believe me when I tell you, hes not worth it hun. I dont understand the part about you falling for him. You say you are but you also say that your not falling in love. So in closing, if you are falling in love then maybe you should tell him how you feel. If your not in love, then I think its just lust. So if you dont want a relationship with him then just keep doing what your doing. But if you want more then you need to tell him that if you are going to be with him, he needs to commit to you and only you.
Another piece of advice, stop talking to him for awhile and let him come to do. That might make him commit to you if your wanting a relationship.
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so me and my guy have been dating for 15th months! i love him soo much! we we're each other's firsts for EVERYTHING except making out...i'm 16 he is 17...he's the kinda guy that is really moody like his dad...and stubborn... me and him have had some really big fights and stuff like that...he's cheated on my twice and i know about them but i've also cheated on him twice which he doesn't know about...i've been stressing out alot about our relationship because i really don't want to lose him...how can i make our relationship healthier? i do call him alot and everytime we are at his house we have sex..how can i change our relationship for the better? and don't just say to stop having sex...and idk if we should break up or not...we really don't want to cause we are like co-dependant on each other..oh and we both get really mad at each other over stu[id things sometimes.. (link)
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Wow. I hope I can help on this one and you may or may not like what I have to say. Some people say that you dont know what love is a 16 or 17 but I disagree. I myself fell in love at 15, got married at 17, and now still happily married. Relationships have their ups and downs. But you two cheating on each other is not going to make your relationship a healthy relationship. First I would let him know that you did cheat on him because honesty is the best way to go. You dont want to have skeletons in your closet when he finds out about it in the long run. Second of all, relationships are not based on sex. Just so you know that. I dont think that it was right for you too to cheat on each other. That tells me that if you are really in love then you wouldnt cheat on each other. Another thing, in a relationship you cant depend on each other. As an adult, I can tell you that I think that you need some time to yourself. You need to become independent and dont depend on anyone but yourself. You need to think about the fact that you may not be together 2 or 3 years down the road. You need to become independent now so in the future you dont feel like you need someone to make you a person. The best luck to you and if you need anymore advice let me know.
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