Hey all....my name is Scott. I'm a 15 year old dude from Johnston, RI. I've enjoyed giving people advice in the past, so I decided to check this out. Ask me questions...if I can find some time I'll try to answer. :)
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okay well i have been talking to this guy online and on the phone almost every night for about a year and 1/2 and even though i have never actually physically met him i think i have fallen in love with his personality. we only live about an hour away and i am friends with his cousin who lives near me, so its very possible that we could meet whenever we wanted to. well i do want to meet him to maybe try to start a relationship, but the problem is that i sent him a fake picture of me. not just one fake picture, but i have sent him websites..TONS of fake picures saying that they were me. so now he has this image of a beautiful girl in his mind. its not that im afraid he will think im ugly at this point, but i am afraid to admit that i sent him alllll those pictures. its extremely embarassing.. and i didnt do it just once, ive done it ALOT!!! i dont know what to do..if i never meet him then it will break my heart and i think i will be missing out on something really great...what should i do? i know this is pathetic..please dont be rude i just need help!! (link)
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All right, well, the first thing I would do is send a real picture of myself. If you think he'd like you for you, he would appreciate you. Remember, its beauty thats on the inside that counts. If he cant appreicate you for you, then he isnt worth it. Anyways, I hope this helped in some way, and I wish you good luck with you and this man! :)
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i just started liking this guy. lets just call him bob. and about a year ago we were good friends and randomly i started liking him the other day. it was really weird. but i just found out that he has a gf n i know nothing about her or how long theyve bin goin out. im really upset but what should i do? i cant just win him over because i NEVER see him except for in the halls but i dont have time to talk to him then! ill rate u a 5 if u answer! (link)
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First of all, still remain his friends. You never know, maybe with some time stuff might work out for best for you? Personally, I've liked a lot of girls, and a lot of them either had boyfriends or got one after I asked them out. If you have his IM or phone number, talk to him through that. Remember, the key is to remain his friend. You never know what'll happen. ;)
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Ok, well, let me start off by saying i'm a 7th grade girl. Today at lunch this kid named derek passed me a note and said it was from my friend brian. I took one of my girl freinds, tara, to the bathrooom and read the note. It was really orny and soft....it read, "Roses are read, Violets are blue, sugar is sweet, and so are you......will you go out with me?". My friend tara started cracking up while i was numb and shocked from the note. I threw it in the trash and ignored brian the whole day. Now, me being quite popular (not rele popular, but popular as in knoing everyone in our grade and tlk to them and hang) and brian being shy and non-social. It's really weird and almost gross that he asked me out.....i rele don't know how to tell him that i don't want to go out with him at all so that he on't get embarrased and i won't get embarrased. Pleask tell me what i can write to him so he on't get hurt.
Thank-you so much for the help (link)
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The ideal thing behind this is to not hurt him. Myself, I've asked out a lot of girls and got turned down without them blinking an eye, and it hurts. Remember, its a perfectly normal human emotion to like someone. What if you liked someone and they didnt like you back? I know for a fact that no one would want to feel hurt about it, because that can be the worst thing. Its best if you tell him that you dont really know him that well and cant really make a decision until you do. Remember, hes a person just like you, and sure he might be a little shy, but you cant just ignore him. Shyness takes a lot to overcome, I used to be very shy and I never talked to anyone of the opposite sex.
Just remember to be very nice about it; I dont think you really want to hurt him, do you?
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okay theres this guy that likes me.. and i used to like him. I sit with him evryday at lunch. Hes so controlling. I cant stand it anymore. All my friends say i should ask him out or he should ask me but i cant stand him anymore.!! Seriously. He really bugs me!! i turn my cell phone off just so i dont have to talk to him at night. He asks whats wrong with my phone, i tell him i couldnt talk anyways or that my older sister was using my phone and it went dead. That was true Wednesday Night tho. Yesterday in the note he rote me.. he told me.. "Dotn make any plans for Saturday night. We're doing something. What we're doing i dont know.. but"
See i cant put up with that anymore.
What can i do?
Please help me...
Christine (link)
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Ugh. I see this a lot of times around my school. In this case, the key is that he used to like you. Maybe he thinks that you still do? If thats the case, you have to let him know somehow that you dont like him, it might get him to back off a little bit, thus ending the problem.
I hope this helps in some way! :)
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Eep. I'm er..I play for both sides of the field and i'm v. v. nervous about telling people. There is this girl I am really interested in. I want to..You know pursue her but i'm not sure if she er..*blushes* is the same as me. ((don't worry, she's single it's a different one xD)) I'm just so scared she might think i'm a weirdo and we might not be abel to be friends again.
-Truley yours,
Bisexual babe xD I couldn't think of anything else! (link)
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Ok, well first of all bisexuality is perfectly normal. If you like someone of the same sex and you want to persue it though, it might be helpful if you know if shes bi or not. To find this out, a good way to find this out is to poke around at it, instead of outright asking her. Once you find this out, persue it, if you really like her!
:hugs: Hope this was of some help...thanks for your question!
-Scott
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