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Sometimes a stranger knows best. I dont know you so i wont be afraid to tell it like it is so dont be afraid to ask. = )
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I'm fourteen he's sixteen. He has mono. I can't kiss him. What am I supposed to do??
Hi I'm Ella. Take advantage of texing and lovey dovey phone calls. Wait until he's better and plan a special date or night to show him how much you miss his lovely kisses. Show him what you're working with (when he's better). HAPPY POST-MONO KISSING! = )
i don't know what to do i'm with a man i don't love, hes like 20 years older than me, i'm going crazy, cause i have no one to turn to. i have social phobia, no friends, i can't talk to ppl, cause i've got trust problems.....
i feel like a dead person just going thru the motions, i beat myself up constantly everyday, cause sometimes i hate myself.
i'm living a lie..
sometimesw i think i'm a evil monster
Okay girl it sounds like first you need to get back to the basics and breathe. Then make a change in you life because if you feeling like this then its time to shake it up and do whats best for you. First of unless you think your relationship with this guy is heading towards love it may be time to end it because it sounds like its apart of the problem. When you decide that go on to the social issues. Realize that using this man as a social crutch, which i think you are, is not the way to go. Take baby steps by first building your self confident and strength that way if people do break your trust you wont break into a million pieces. Once you've build yourself up test yurself with baby steps, getting back out, and putting yourself out there because if you put nothing out there you get nothing back. Best of luck and always rememebr if it gets too much at times get back to basics and breathe because you have to power to change any circumstance you find yourself in = )
13/F - he is 14/M
Okay here are just some questions for boys only (or girls if you think you can answer them) that protain to a problem I am having now: (please answer them like you would if you were 14)
1. Do boys ever play around with girls' emotions for the heck of it? Like do they ever just get a laugh out of messing around with a girl's feelings? If so, WHY??
2. What are boys' reactions when a girl starts crying?
3. What would a boy do if he likes a girl but doesn't want a girlfriend? What should the girl do in this situation?
4. I've heard a lot of diferent girls' opinions, but in you opinion do you prefer to chase a girl or have her come to you?
5. What ( in your boy opinion haha ) should a girl do if the boy she likes (and he says he likes her too) is ignoring her? If he likes her why would he ignore her??
Please help me out guys, this boy is really confusing me... And you say girls are confusing... Ha.
1. Yes YES definatly yes. Some do it because they're just being stupid and need someone to pick on, sorry it had to be you,and some do it yo impress their friends.
2. A guy's initial reaction to a crying girl is whats wrong with you and 'please stop crying' because most guys cant handle it when a girl cries.
3.If a boy likes a girl but doesnt want that relationship more than likely he's just going to flirt and just 'chill' with her with making any sort of intended committment. The girl should decide if she cares that she and this person are not official or if she wants that at all. If this girl wants a boyfiend then she should either encourage an official situation or discourage their behavior all together.
4.I'm a girl... but i have alot of guy friends and most of them say they prefer to be the persuer because it keeps their intrest and if you had to work for something or in this case someone you value it or her more.
5.There could be a number of reasons but in simple guy mind mode more than likely this guys just has other things on his mind right now, not sure if he wants to be with you like that right now, or is already with someone else.