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Hey I'm Elizabeth. I love to dance and i consider myself a very mellow person! I am into EVERYTHING! I love: Classic Rock, music, reading, action pack stuff such as hunting (everything a guy likes), Sports, I love watching sports.ETC if you're soo interested in me.. then why don't strike up a conversation with me! : )Anything you like..i'll probably learn to like it as well..


HAVE ANY PERSONAL QUESTIONS..FEEL FREE TO PERSONAL MESSAGE ME ON HERE AND I WILL TRY TO RESPOND AS QUICKLY AS POSSIBLE.
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I'm in need of some adive here...
There's this guy I've known since 3rd grade, and we're in 9th going into 10th now. He's always been a friend to me but just about a month or two ago, I realized I really like him. A lot. After a while of texting him and stuff I told him I liked him and that I feel bad. He said not to feel bad because he likes me too, he just wants to hang out more.
He broke up with his girlfriend a couple months ago... and she's this girl in middle school. So he's single. We're close now and text every day and sometimes hang out.

What I would like to know is... should I talk to him about how crappy I feel because I like him so much and I wish we were together or should I not rush it, like rush into a relationship?
I really do not want this to end up badly because he means so much to me... so I'm not sure if I should rush things or what. Please give your thoughts =/ (link)
I'd be careful because a relationship could break your friendship


Hey, i need help on flirting!!! how do i make myself more comfortable around guys and how should i flirt with them 2 make (him) like me more??!?!!?

Thanksssss :))))))) (link)
Just flirt with them and smile. Eventually either you or them will strike up a conversation


I just started going out with this guy. He knows a ton of people and is always giving like 10 girls hugs left and right everyday. And sometimes he even kisses their heads/foreheads and tells him he loves them. I'm guessing he's just really, really good friends with these girls, but a lot of girls like him and he does this with so many. Is it wrong for me to get mad at him for this? I don't see anything wrong with hugs, but it just seems like hes all over some of them..and he does this right in front of me. I'm new to relationships, so I don't exactly know if this is considered acceptable? (link)
Just tell him that it bothers you


I am in high school and you know how everyone is hurrying to get a boyfriend well i need advice on how to get a boyfriend i feel very sad when all my other friends have them but I dont. Well they are very skinny and well I am not a size 1 if you know what i mean so I would appreciate it if you all could help me find someone? Please and Thank you!! (link)
if your interested in a guy.. go ahead and make a move!


Hello my name is Natalie, I am 15 years old and I have a boyfriend named Don and I am really confused about him right now. He always says he loves me but he doesn't show it. I know most people would say that this is stupid but he hasn't even changed his status on myspace yet it still says single. It means alot to me because when we first went out he was so happy to say that I was his girlfriend but now it's like he just don't care. I try to talk to him but he wouldn't listen and I just have a feeling that he's just using me till he can find the next best thing.Sorry that this is long I have alot to say but what should I do.

Thanks xoxo,
Natalie F (link)
Hey,
Possibly he's afraid of what his friends may think and if he doesn't listen to you.. then get rid of him! Your better than that.. if i had a bf that doesn't listen to me.. then i would break up with him.."You know what.. i don't feel like we have a connection and you don't listen to me.. which is very disrespectful.. i need a guy that will actually care and listen to me." A real man wouldn't ignore you.

Hope that helped a bit!
X3 Liz
He sounds immature = [
theres ALOT of other guys out there!


I've known him for a while & have seen him at the same places I've been twice. I just started talking to him on IM today because I've been so shy & scared to IM him. But, I realized that I like him, and I don't know how to tell him. I want to, but I'm scared he'll think I'm ugly or whatever. I mean, I know he doesn't, but I'm scared he won't like me back.

Help? (link)
Open up to him! Start talking to him! Don't be shy! Who cares if he rejects you! Take a risk! There's plenty of guys out there..

Hope that helped a bit
~Liz


ok so there is this really sweet, funny, kind, cute ( i could go on 4ever) and he knows that i like him (along with everyone else in the whole world!) and i don't know if he likes me bc his dad (my math teacher and his too) says that he thinks he likes me (don't ya hate it wen parents talk about you) and he is showing all the signs that he does (looked it up online) but when i asked hi out (well my friend asked him out for me but i was watching) he blushed got all confused and said no. there is a dance coming up and i want to ask him if he wants to go but i don't want him to get mad at me thinking that i am stuborn and just don't get it. i really like thi guy but i don't know what to do! PUH-LEASE help me! (link)
= ] Sounds like your kind of shy.. or maybe your a little confused or maybe your not confused!

Maybe you don't know whats going through his mind/head..what his thoughts are..

But hey.. why don't you try to get to know him.. first before the dance comes! If you see him in the hall.. say a casual "Hey!" to him or you can go and have fun with it and playfully nudge him. Show him some signs.. but don't give it all away!

To me the guy sounds kind of bashful and shy.. he will not get mad at you.. (hopefully not)and just have fun with him.. show him that you care and try to get to know him. Possibly start out with easy conversations. Such as: Hey, whats up? What class are you going to? You know easy ones.. what are your interests?

Do it day by day. Easy steps. Warm up to him and he'll start to get use it. He'll eventually open up! Then once you guys open up a little bit.. possibly shock him and invite him.. to go tag along after school and go somewhere like "subway".. idk.. say this possibly: Hey! My friends and I are going to get something to eat! Do you want to tag along? (to make him feel conformable around your friends ask him if he wants to bring a friend..he may feel a little awkward without any of his friends around)


Hope.. I helped a bit!




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