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Ok theres a guy I like he's always been very on and off with me... He's told me before that he wants to kiss me yet he hasn't we've only hung out a couple times tho... I want to go to his work tomo and see if maybe he will walk me out after we talk or whatever and I really want him to kiss me! I kinda just feel like being like I came here for one thing and I want u to kiss me now.. But I know I'm too shy how can I get him to kiss me!

I was shy at first with this girl. For months we both wanted the same thing, a kiss but never had the guts to do it. One day she was over my house, she looked at me and I knew what was comming, and she said, "We both know we want this, let's just kiss and go from there." And what do you know? We've been together for about a year now. Sometimes boys need to be pushed, and you need to take that scary step if you want it bad enough.

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Alright, I met my boyfriend when I was 15 and I'm now a Freshman in college, so we've been together for 3 years.
I love him. He's a great guy, he's been there for me. He's my first kiss, my first love.. I lost my virginity to him.
The problem is our relationship feels like it's going stale. We don't really do anything adventurous and we certainly don't have any exciting anymore. I've tried getting him to talk about his lack of sexual desire and he just brushes it off. I've tried getting him to take me to do new things but he's brushed that off as well. I've tried mentioning that perhaps we shouldn't see each other every single day so we can retain some excitement when we do get together,but that hasn't seemed to go anywhere either.
I'm at a loss. I'm so sexually unsastisfied and bored, I've found myself going on internet chatrooms, imagining a guy doing the things he says he would. Now I've found a guy to talk to but he doesn't know my real name or where I live.. it's exciting but I know I shouldn't do it. The problem is since it's on the internet and the chances of him catching me is slim, I wind up doing it anyway.

I don't want to break up with my boyfriend.. I really care about and love him. But what can I do to either spice up our relationship or discipline myself from trying to explore other men?

What I would say is that he is afraid to try new things, not that he doesn't want to. Maybe you need to take control, and just do some new things and tell him, that's what I want. Either way, he has the right to know the truth, and doesn't deserve being cheated on. He seems like he really cares about you, and by you going behind his back, you are hurting your relationship and possibly killing it. At the end of the day, do you want a guy who will give you what you want sexually and leave, or try and work with someone who loves you, and try to make things work?

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im so scurd of callin my girlfriend on the phone.. she always calls me.. but i always dial her number then hang up.... is there something wrong with me?

no your just nevous(obviously) but there's nothing wrong with you.. my friend was afraid to talk to his gf on the phone and my other friend did the same thing but you just gotta do it.. there's nothing to be afraid of if you love her and she loves you

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ok well for new years i was out of town and so was my b/f so we couldnt even talk on the phone, i was in a RV park in palm dessert and i was at the rec. center in the resort and this guy(lets call him Bill) came in and asked if he could play pool with me and i siad yeah, this was a day befor new years eve. im a BIG flirt and i dont relize when im flirting, and the next day i went to the rec center to meet up with Bill and later that night we were tired out from playin B-Ball so we were sittin together on the couch well when the new year came he kissed me and i kissed him back, and i shouldnt of i know now im really guilty becuz im not the kind of girl who cheats on her b/f,and ill never see Bill agian but i still feel guilty what im asking is should i feel really guilty for this? should i tell my b/f? or try to forget the whole thing?HELP!

well that's a tough one.. if your really close.. and can't get it off your mind then you should really tell him the truth and what happened and how you feel.

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My boyfriend and i were together for almost 4 months.. and i fell in love with him.. we never really got to see each other.. and we both cheated on each other. But we were in love, so it didnt really matter. He broke up with me a few days ago.. i begged and pleaded and tried everything to get him back. I just want it all to be ok. I cried for 2 days.. and I wrote him a letter explaining all my feelings and how much fun I had with him. The letter made me feel a little better.. but I just need a way to get him off my mind.. its horrible..

please help me! i rate 5s

well... there's no real way to erase that... just talk to your clsoe friends and see if you can find another person you love



p.s I'm sorry.. i know what it feels like

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I wish girls didnt like me becuz of my looks I mean I try to find some I like and I am so popular at my school but they just like me becuz of my looks and the spread stories around that I have sex on the first date and stuff liek that and I do have a girlfriend and we been going out sence 8th grade and we are in the 10th grade now but the other girls always tells my girl friend that I am cheating on her and I am really not please help

well first of all... stop bragging second.. just don't look for a girl with looks

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okay..well..im 13/f..and i have NO clue what to get my boyfriend for christmas..he definatly likes music and stuff..but..im guessing your a guy..hopefully around my age..what would you want your girlfriend to give you? this is reely important..please reply!!
-Jessica

Yea i am a boy and I'm around that age... and I'm like a music freak... but i don't really buy guys things so i dodn't know

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okay;; im a girl..and just turned 13 in Oct. ..i met this guy named Justin over the summer and we became close and all..he liked me, i liked him...now over the summer he was 16 and now hes 17..when he turned 17 he lyke changed hiz mind and hes now all like "..i cant go out w/ u because of the age diffrence"..but i mean i REALLY like him ..alot;; i cant stop thinkin about him ..etc. ..what should i do?

well that's a hard thing to get over.... you can't just forget about him so... i sorry i don't know

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i have a major crush on this kid that i have liked since about the 4th or 5th grade. we used to be lik best frenz now he doesnt even talk to me..but i found out that he liked the gurl i hate..should i ask him out? forget about him? move on? or just try and be his frend?..by the way..i think i luv this kid :-/

if you love him



ASK HIM OUT!

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hey. i lik this kid soo much but he likes mi best frend .. i think, should i ask him out anywayz?

help me .. i need it

yea it's worth a shot



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What age would you let your Child date?? What would you allow them to do with Him or Her?

11 is a good age we mature around then




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What do I do to get a guy to like me and want to ask me out, or be noticed in a innocent way? Also what are some signs of whether a not a guy likes you?

well some signs are how much he looks at you and how he does.. does he talk to you a lot.. is he trying to be around you...well there's no real way besides be youself!!!


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me and this boy have been going out for almost two months..i really like him but he has cheated on me..but he was honest and told me..i also like his brother which likes me too..i dont know if me and my boyfriend should breake up and i should go with his brother or stay with him..can you help me?

well if he cheated on you then dump him! there's no reason to stay with him.. if you stay on him he'll just do it again and expect to get away with it.. go out with his brother if you like him


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hey. this kid really likes me but hes never met me. i like him 2, he seems awesome..but ive been hearing stuff about him. like that i wouldnt like him because hes the total opposite of me like hes really shy.. what should i do?

Give him a chance.. get to know him before u make any commitments.. don't listen to other people they are roably just lying.. talk ot him for a while... then you can see what he's really like


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What should i do when i've fallen for the right guy at the wrong time?

Wait for the right time


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i am 13 1/2 and i like this kids sooo much!! and i thought he liked me too and i told him iliked him but i found out he had a girl friend i was crushed he said lets be good friends i said ok onlineadn alone we r soo nice to each otha but wen he is with friends he totaly ignores me or is mean please help!
from: crushed and confused

Well i'm really sorry.. i know how it feels.. but he shouldn't be mean and ignore you! He should always be nice to you.. and maybe he isn't ur type if he's always mean around you.. not just online



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13/f Sorry if this is a little confusing!

My friend goes to a differnt school than me. She introduced this kid to me (hes 12) and now I'm beginning to liek him. I know he likes me too, because my friend asked him and he said yes, and he also told me. Like, it would work out great with us, except for one thing, my friend. She used to go out with him and he dumped her a little while ago. But she still likes him..a LOT. He knows that she likes him, but he doesnt like her. The girl that introduced us (that I have been talkign about the whole time, that likes him also) is mad at him for liking me, and mad at me for liking him. She really doesn't want me to like him, but it's hard NOT to..you know what I mean?? Well it's really confusing and I don't know what to do. What if he asks me out? I like him a lot too, but I don't want to lose my friend. Please help me?

Well then she really isn't a friend.. i dated my x g/f's best friend and she eventually got over it after i talked to her for a while.. becuase she liked my best fired.. so it all worked out for me and her. You should go out with him.. If she's ur freind she'll understand but if she doesn't at first she will later.. just do what you think is right


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To all the guys: why is it that you like girls/ what is it that makes you ask them out?

i think right now i just need to know that not all guys are shallow.

well I'm a guy but I'm not shallow.. but most are.. well things that i like are.. defently sense of humor.. that's #1.. 2nd would have to be a personality.. and 3rd i like a good smile

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What's better?
a) a girl who's drop dead gorgeous with the IQ of a broom

-or-

b) a girl who's cute and can carry on intelligent conversation (like... genius level IQ)

please say why, and how old you are so i can figure out how that relates to my age bracket...

please and thank you!

B!! last time i dated a gorgous girl she was a real jerk.. they never have no commitment.. so i would go with B

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ok this isnt really advice but who are you? i think i know you but im not sure...

and here is the real advice that i need-
me and this guy flirt like a lot...and i like him...but i really dont think he likes me...should i tell him that i like him? or should i just keep flirting with him? please tell me what you think i should do

thanks bye-

Tell him!You can't hide forever. jsut tell him the truth about you liking him. i mean you can still flirt so why not be b/f and g/f two?


HOpe i helped ya

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