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my boyfriend is coming home in the beginning of november, hes in california and im in texas (hes 18 and im 16) weve been dating for 3 months and we started dating before he moved back to california (its a really long complicated story) anyways, i really want to do something special while hes home, i know were going to spend alot of time together the 2 weeks he's in town but i dont want it to just be like watching movies and stuff like that. i want to do something thats memorable. we're both virgins so everything of a sexual nature is definately excluded, i mean something thats totally creative and especially sweet. i also dont have much money i can spend because im going on 2 trips this year and im saving up for them. any ideas? i can use all the advice i can get! thankyou so much! (link)
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Just do something that dosent cost. Like go to a little pond or river when it gets dark and spread out a blanket and just sit and talk and look up at the stars. Its romantic. Maybe light a few candles out there. or go back to where you guys first met. Or just have a romantic dinner. Let me know what kind of stuff yall like to do and i can give you better advice.
-Cathleen JAcobs
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so theres this boy, and he means the world to me. hes my best friend.
he has a girlfriend, but says hes in love with me. and he doesnt know what to do. im sitting here wondering if i should stay here wating for him to break up with his girlfriend. or move on.
except when i get a new crush my best friend gets mad and jealous and makes me feel bad.
what do i do? help. (link)
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I think yall should sit down and talk about it face to face alone. Tell him if he wants you he needs to leave his girlfriend. ANd if hes not gonna be with you stop getting jealous when you get a crush. Because hes with someone and tellin you he loves you. IF he wont leave his girlfriend tell him yall juss need to move on and stay friends. Hope i helped! ♥ CAthleen!
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I'm 13, and my boyfriend [who I have been dating for a year and a half] is 17. He will be 18 in April. I'll be turning 14 in October. I live in Louisiana and he lives in Texas. We met off the internet and have met personally twice. Both of my parents have approved and met with him, unfortunately, I live with my grandparents and they do NOT approve.
Some people tell me that the legal dating age difference cannot be higher than 2 years apart. Other people tell me it's 5 years. What is the actual difference?
Also, his mom or dad does not approve at all of us having any kind of romantic relationship [or any kind of relationship at all] together. Do they legally have the rights to keep him from talking/seeing me while he's still 17? (link)
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okay sweety deep breathe. lol okay ive been through this same thing before. Well it is 5 years. and they can something about it. As soon as he turns 18 and before if they have a reason. but they do have to have a reason. now i will say if a male is 18 hes not suppose to date under 18 that is totally against the law. i mean watch out for the older ones too. diffrent states. and everything. well hope i helped!
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i no you guys r prolly sick of these questions but please bare with me.
im 13/f,and me & my bf have been together for almost 4 months.although u may think im too young,were madly in love with each other.
i want to do something EXTREMLY special that he will never forget for valentines day.
please help.
also i cant spend more than 20 dollars?
thanks a ton.
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okay sweetheart.....20 dollars is not a lot but its not quanity its quality. so yeah. Okay ummmm you can get a small stuffed v-day puppy. and you know a card write youre feelings in it. Just be sweet all day. Be loveable. Hope i could help!
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Well i've like a guy for about a year, and just recently i've found out hes a jerk. So i really need some tips or something to get over him.
Thanks!!! (link)
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try not to think about the memories you two had together. ignore it. I mean yeah its hard. specially if you loved him. the same thing has happend to me. But either try to move on to another guy you trust and hopefully you can fall in love with the new guy and the feelings for the other one will go away. not at first but they will eventually. PROMISE!
-cathleen
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I Am 16 And I Have A Boyfriend And I Love Him ALOT!!! Lately It Seems Like All I Can Think About IS Doing Stuff With Other Guys! However When I Am With My Boyfriend Or Talking To Him...I Dont Have That Problem! So What Exactly Is Going On Here... (link)
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okay....i will say this ive had that problem before. yeah and it sucked. What i did was you know spend more time with him. If a thought of doing something with another guy popped in my head i juss ignored it and thought of him. I mean its hard at first but youll get used to it and if you start ignoreing it and thinking of him when you think of that it will proabley stop. hope ths helped.
-cathleen ♥
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I really like this guy Jake, right? I'm 14 and he's 14 & he's in a few of my classes. Football player, hockey player, honor roll...perfect. We're friends & talk all the time, but we don't hang out one-on-one because I'm not as physically attractive as his past girlfriends.
I like him a lot, and I'd like him to ask me out, but I'm what my school would call fat-a size six. I know, I know. Fat. But is there a way that I can act, or something I can do, or say, or change my look, to make him like me as more than a friend?
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Okay sweetheart....first off if someone dosent like you for who you are then the he** with him/her. But since this guy is special. Take pride in yourself hold you head up high. Change your hairstyle. if you always wear it one way. Smile alot. Have confidence. Work on a high self-esteam. Just set your mind to it! Hope i helped!
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I like this guy who likes me back. Only problem is, he has a girlfriend. He cheated on her with me, and we were hooking up for a couple weeks. Then we talked about it all and he said "im confused, because i mean i love my girlfriend but then i see you, and i like you too. i dont think we should hook up until i know whats going on with her." so i left it at that. i was really upset for the next few days. we still talk, and i saw him the other night and he was standing behind me with his arms around me. little things he does makes me know he cares. but i dont know what to make of it. he tells me he misses me, and he was sad today when he said that he doesnt think i still like him because i dont call him or IM him all the time. i told him i dont want to be a pain. i miss him so much, and i know he misses me. but whats the deal..? sorry this is so long (link)
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okay sweetheart first of all dont let him play you like a deck of cards. Not saying he is. Just tell him you need to have a serious conversation with him. In person. Just the two of you. Then tell him how you feel. Ask him how he feels? Which way one he wants to be with? Cause you dont wanna waste ur time on one guy. Not at all. i did and got played. but you know its life. Just talk to him. Ever wanna know if someone is lying while ure talking to them.....well if they look to the right they're remembering and if they look to the left they're lying. Thats true i learned it and tested it befefore always works. Hope this helped! GOOD LUCK!
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i used to be extremely social at home..always calling people..always wanting to talk to my friends on aim..but lately i just feel like sleeping or listening to music in my room and when i get on aim theres only a couple people i ever even want to talk to and when im on the phone im usually wanting to get off (besides with one guy) i dont even call people often anymore because i never feel like it..could this be a sign of anything? (link)
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No its normal. I feel that way alot. i Mean it will show you who you're closest friends are and everything. You're just a laid back person who likes to chill. Hope this helped!
-Cathleen
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