Im 16 and I've been going out with my bf for over a month and I really like him and he really likes me but the only problem is he likes to have sex and I don't. He wants me to sneak out with him a lot to do it and I don't want to. A couple of days ago this guy told me he wanted to date me and he is sweet and would never push me to do things like my bf does now. But the problem with him is we are so different. He's more of the preppy kind of guy and I'm more of the laid back person. I know if I leave my bf now I'll miss him like crazy because he's perfect except for the fact he pushes me to do bad things. The new guy is a good boy but idk if I should dump my bf for him or not?
Ok let me say the part that I hated hearing when I was your age first. "You are 16 and you will most likely have a lot of different guys in your life before you meet your prince charming." I have to tell you that this is actually true.
The most important advice anyone can give you now is that you should never let anyone especially the man in your life push you into doing anything. If you are afraid you will lose him if you don't have sex when he wants it then that should tell you something. The other guy may surprise you and you should never close a door on taking the chance to do something that could make you happy.
Talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you aren't comfortable having sex all the time and that you would like to learn and experience other things with him as well. Again if he doesn't understand that then he doesn't deserve you. Jumping from one relationship to another is part of being a teen and if you and your bf (after you talk to him) break up then give the new guy a chance. Remember you just don't want to get in the same situation all over again.
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I'm live in Canada. So a while ago I asked a question on this site about how to tell a guy how i feel about him and everything.. Someone said to message him on facebook to tell him that i like him and how I feel about him and everything.. But I really confused on what to say! Any ideas?
I can see where it would be good to tell you how you feel but at the same time I agree that you should give it time instead of just blurting it out and I certainly wouldn't do it on facebook. The more you get to know him the better you can judge if your feelings are authentic and if he has the same feelings. Guys do often give mixed signals and once you two are spending more time together if you still feel this way then you should speak to him in person about it. Like I told someone else the worse thing that could happen is he could tell you that he doesn't feel the same and at that point you have the opportunity to move on and get over your feelings.
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So there is this guy I like but I'm not sure if he likes me. He said hi to me once but other than that its been mostly the both of us not trying to get caught starring at each other. He looks at me and then turns away very quickly. He tries to avoid me looking at me but I know he sees me looking at him I mean wouldnt you notice someone looking at you? And lately we seem to be running into each other more than we use to or somehow hes near by where I can see him. And I can be with a group of people and he will talk to everyone but me. I'm trying to get his attention but it doesnt seem to work what do i do? Does he like me or not?
It sounds like he is shy about his feelings. I have to agree that you should talk to him about it. The worse thing he can say is no he doesn't like you that way and even then you have an answer a chance to move on.
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