Hello there! My name is Carli. I actually joined this site about two years ago, but on a different name. I've always loved giving advice, and I've always helped my friends with stuff. And I can probably answer any question you throw at me. I try my absolute best to answer every question I come by. =D
E-mail: taintedvanityx@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Alabama
Occupation: School.
Age: 15
AIM: carli baybee
MSN: miss.carli@hotmail.com
Member Since: November 19, 2007
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What is that feeling called when you see the person you like and you get that feeling like rushes of energy shooting through your chest? my friend was curious and now I am too (link)
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Anxiety most likely.
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so i have a friend that is into drugs, and we used to be best friends calling each other every night. doing whatever. i think i had a crush on him, but i didnt want to because of the age diff [hes a senior and im a sophomore] recently, i saw him. i hadnt seen him for a really long time because he was into drugs and alcohal, and we lost communication but i never stopped thinking of him. i saw him, and barely recognized him. we hugged for a long time. but it was like something was different. and i cant get my mind off of him. what should i do? i dont want to like him, but i do. jekal;d. (link)
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i'm in a highschool with a lot of druggies and alcoholics. and they all start to get distant from everyone else.
And really, the only way of getting over him that i can think of, it just thinking of the future. Thinking of how he would be in a relationship with someone on drugs could be. =/
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im 15 and im a tomboy and i heard this boy...lets call him DF wants to ask me out i have never been asked out before and i have never liked a boy before and i dont want to be mean and say no but i dont want to go out on a date with him what should i do and thank you to whoever takes the time to answer this thanks alot PPPEEEAAACCCEEE OOOUUUTTT (link)
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Just make up something like, you just got out of a tough relationship or something.
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I'm dating this guy and we've been together for about 2 weeks but known eachother for a long time. We had sex and we talk a lot. We've told eachother we loved eachother, but he never calls me anything sweet like baby or etc. Does that mean he doesn't really love me all to much??
SOrry if its long. (link)
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No, that doesn't mean he doesn't love you. A lot of guys, and some girls too, just won't say anything like, "baby, sweetie".
I'm not one to ever say it myself, actually.
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i like this cute guy @ school. he is really shy! I THINK HE SEES THAT im like looking at him but how do i get him to talk\notice me! PROBLEM! im really shy around guys! hellllllllllllllllp! plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz! ps im like 4or5 years younger than him ! (link)
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The only way you'll ever be able to talk to him, is if you go up and talk to him. Or get a friend to ask him if he's ever noticed you, and let it flow from there.=D
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ok so i have non this guy for a lil bit and i really like him. and we have gone to the movies and he has held my hand and he has given me a piggy back rid and all kinds of things i have sat on him to. ok so i want to ask him out now!but every time i call i get his answering thing so i left a message and no call back? and i herd he likes me from my best guy friend who goes to the guy i lies school but he also says hes been talking to his ex gf and to me thats not good at all.
so i want him to go to the movies with me and my friends bc they all have dates but me!!!!
so what do i do???how do i ask him out how do i know that he likes me!? (link)
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Well, you'll never know until you ask him out. And if he says no, then...screw him. his lost.
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next month is v-day i want to make something SPEACIAL for my long time relationship boyfriend, get any idea? i want make him something that he will never forgot and touch his heart forever, we been together 8 month which is my first time long time relationship. he been so good to me. pls help me. (link)
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Make him a transformer cake! You can never go wrong with a transformer cake!
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I want to speak to my girlfriend for about 15 minutes per day. Usually i will call her fairly early on in the night about 5pm. We have been going out about 6 months now. The problems only really arise when she is busy and says she will call me back later, usually in ten minutes to half an hour. When she doesnt call me back, i call her again, she will then usually say she is busy doing something else and will once again say that she will call me back in ten minutes to half an hour. Then she doesnt call so i call again, this happens a few times in the night until i get upset she doesnt want to talk to me, and she gets angry that i am calling her so often. Then we have a massive argument where she says im too clingy and i say she doesnt really care about me. We only really get to see each other once a week because she lives quite far away. She says she loves me and i say i love her, but she never really seems to want to talk to me unless she is bored. I'm really struggling for what to do because it is upsetting me a lot but i love her and dont want to break up with her. Any help would be much appreciated. thanks. (link)
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She is going to think you're too clingy. From now on, let her call you more often, then you call her. =D
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13/M
hi... ive been going out with this girl for about a year now and i love her alot. we get wild sometimes but not to wild. the furthest we have gone is that she gave me a hand job. but after she did i got a little worried and i didn't feel right. i thought i might be a little to young for these things.
am i to young?
are we going to far for only 13 years old? (link)
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You aren't going 'too far'...just only go as far as you feel comfortable.
And don't do anything you might regret.
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i like this guy..he is a natural flirt but i never know if he is actually flirting with me or jsut being himself. How do i figure it out or not. i mean i really like and he is amazing. the only problem is that we don't really talk much in school, we talk more online. it just seems like he is flirting online if u knwo what i mean. he is really great but i don't know if it is real or not. i really like him and i want to tell him but i do'nt want to make a mistake...waht do i do?? thanks in advance!! (link)
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Well, if he flirts with you more than other people, then for sure he likes you...but, getting into a relationship with someone that flirts with everyone is never good. Because whose to say he'll stop at just 'flirting'? =/
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16/f
ok so. i know i sound really stupid asking this question but i really need to know what i should do. and it's gonna be pretty long so if you take the time to read this question and give me advice that would be AMAZING.
basically, im 16 and i like 5 GUYS. yes 5. haha i know that sounds really funny and stupid but it's kinda a big problem. like i've liked more than one guy at a time now but usually i've kinda made up my mind and like developed a better relationship with like 1 of them. but this time i feel like all the relationships are getting better and closer to like more than friends so im so confused on what to do! my girl friends understand like the situation i'm in and like they are telling me it's fine to like more than one guy but that i should really make up my mind. like i don't really wanna make up my mind. i know this sounds bad but i'm not really interested in a relationship right now. i had a year long relationship all year last year and i'm kinda sick of the boyfriend-girlfriend thing. anyways, advice on if i need to pick one of them/who i should pick?
here's a little more about the guys..
GUY A: ok. he doesn't go to my school so i don't see him very often. i mean i could see him every weekend if i wanted to but i just haven't. he's really cute and like i really like him when i'm hanging out with him and stuff. he likes me too and he asked me out like a week ago but i told him i wasn't really sure about who i liked at the moment. he was fine with that. we text all the time and sometimes talk on the phone. he's so cute and i feel like we have so much in common.
GUY B: ok this guy also goes to a different school.here's the problem. this guy also likes me but he is best friends with GUY A. i like GUY B a lot but the thing is he's not very attractive. i know that sounds bad but when i don't find someone attractive it's harder for me to like them. i really like him when i'm talking to him on the phone and stuff but i just don't like him that much when we're hanging out. he's kinda awkward too. he's also friends with the guy i went out with for a year so it would be kinda mean of me to date him. i really like him though and i can trust him with anything and everything.
GUY C: ok. aslkgjalskjdasg this guy is the most confusing guy i've ever met in my life. but i love it. it's so fun and like he's so mysterious. i like can't figure out what's going on in his head. i've known him for a long time. he goes to a different school than me. i've liked him on and off. but whenever i see him, which isn't very often, but i could see him more often, i always start liking him again. there's just something so cute about him. like i can't explain it. anyways, i like hooked up with him a few months ago and it was totally out of nowhere because i know he's never made out before and so i was his first time? so that must mean something right? he's definetly had other chances. he like flirts with me a lot but he's like confusing because he flirts with EVERY girl. i'm like not sure if he likes me or not. but i was talking to him on aim the other day and he was like 'hows GUY D?' and i was like 'what?' and he was like saying that he saw our convo on facebook or something (we were like flirting or whatever) and i was like 'oh...he's really good :)' just to see if it would piss him off. so then he was like 'do you like him?' and i was like i dont know.. i like a bunch of guys. and then he was just like ok gtg bye. like it seemed like he was mad because he's always like love you bye and stuff like that. i think he got mad either because he thought i liked him or because he thinks i like GUY D. i talk to GUY C a lot on aim but we never text or talk on the phone. he tells me he wants to hang out with me all the time but he never really calls me anymore. idk if thats because he feels like if he calls me to hang out i will think he likes me.. or what? should i like make the first move and text him or something? we used to talk on the phone sometimes and text. ugh. HES CONFUSING. but i like it. its more of a challenge compared to the other guys that i like already know like me.
GUY D: he goes to my school. he's one of my best guy friends. i went out with him 2 summers ago. he like flirts with me all the time and he like makes suggestions that he wants to hook up. we text and talk on aim all the time. he's really cute and i have fun talking to him. i hung out with him yesterday for the first time in awhile and it was really fun :)
GUY E: ok this is getting ridiculous already i know. this is the last one i promise. anyways, he goes to my school too and he's like good friends with GUY D. and he like knows that GUY D wants to like hook up with me and stuff. but he's really cute and he's also one of my good guy friends. i see him at school a lot and we talk a lot. we text sometimes. he's really cute like he holds my hand sometimes and like i dont know. he does that to a lot of girls though. hes the touchy kind of guy. i'm not really positive if i like him or not but i hung out with him yesterday too and we like flirted a lot or whatever but thats just how he usually is.
HELP!? (link)
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That was sooo long.
But, i say go with guy D. =D
He sounds best.
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