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they say theres somebody out there for every one but how do you know when you find that person and what if you never find that person?

Usually they will come to you. You never know when the time comes that you will find the right person. Just be yourself and if there is a person for you, I'm sure he will come to you. Good luck =D

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dear all males and any girl that has an idea,

what do guys like getting for valantines day?

Cologne.. Chocolate.

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How exactly do you hook up? And what is it?

It is basically dating.

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me and my boyfriend broke up cuz he just does'nt want a girlfriend right now. But the thing is I still have REALY strong feelings for him and I try tellin him how I feel but it's like he dont care. What do you think I can do to get him back or get him to understand me? I mean I really really have it bad for him and i'm nothing without him. please help me someone!!

Well, I know what you're talking about. Maybe he is just not ready to have a relationship or he might not know what he wants yet. Believe me, people get like that. Give him time, and then go back and ask him again. The thing that is weird is that he isn't paying any attention to what you have to say, which in my point of view, Seems like he doesn't care anymore. Just talk to him and then if you need anymore advice, leave one in my inbox! Hope I've helped! xO- Caitlynn

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ok so i dont know what to get my guy for valentines day but i am thinking that i should just like kiss him on the cheek (or lips) and say like "that's my valentines day gift to you" i mean we are only 13 so it would be big not like nothing. do you think that i should?

That's really cute! Great idea! Good Luck! xO-CaitLynn

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To all you guys...what do guys like for valentines day...like in general? i have no idea what to get my guy...like chocolate? flowers? hats? what? please help!

Cologne, Hat, Make him dinner, Do something that you two can do together.

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okay, im a lesbian, and im 14 years old. i want to get with girl but im not sure how to approach one. There's also the complication that they may not swing that way. How do i join the dating world and how do i ask a girl out?

Try going on a lesbian post or chatroom and search around for your state and age.

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(16/f) what do/can you get your b/f for valentines day?

I would set up something fun for him. Maybe, take him out to get something to eat. Or make dinner for him, add some candles. Whatever he likes.

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does anyone know ways to get over boys that you really LOVE?

Well, If you really love this guy, than you can just drop everything that you have that reminds you of him, Spend more time with your friends, Get them to show you other guys. Remember, love has to heal. It doesn't just disappear when you want it too. Another thing you can do, is pick apart the good things from the bad things that he has done and try to think of the bad things and think about how you can get somebody better. But, the best thing I would do, is try to go out and chill with other boys. It should get your mind off him real quick. I hope I've helped.

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My heart has been broken by my best male friend
but i still love him...should i still be friends with him or wat?

Ofcourse, Friends can last forever. No matter how much he hurts you now, you're going to need a good friend that's a male in the long run.

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I think about sex all the time.....but i know if it came down to doing it i wouldnt do it...I dont want to have sex but i think about it all tha time....im plannin on waitin until marriage...but wat do these thoughts mean?

It just means that you are wondering how it will be on your first chance. I used to always think about it before I had it, now since I am no longer a virgin, I regret it. You're just wondering, which is totally normal.

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I am 19 years old and have been seeing a girl for 2 and a half years. We recently broke up over christmas but have still been seeing each other because we get on really well as friends. I put my cards on the table so to speak and told her how i feel that i still love her and i want her back. She replied im still in love with you but i dont want to be in a relationship at the moment. When we see each other i keep on saying to her that i will get her back and she agrees with me she says we need time apart. Which i am willing to do if it means i get another chance becasue i really do care about her so much. The only thing i am scared of is there is another lad on the scene whos she assures me they are not seeing each other and just friends which i beleve, but im scared that when we are having our time apart she ends up having feelings for this lad and i wont get her back at all. What is the best way to go about trying to get her back? We went to the pictures lastight and it was goin brilliant then her phone went off and it was a text msg off this lad and her attitude towards me totally changed!

Well, You just have to trust her, but ask her how she feels about him, although it may not be a true answer, you may be able to find out by her reactions. Just the best thing to do is tell her that you're scared you might lose her. I also thought, that maybe she just wants some time along to meet new people, not like find another boyfriend, but just go out and have some fun with people. I'm sorry if it's not the best advice, I tried. If you need anymore though, feel free to leave one in my inbox.

- CaitLynn

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theres this girl i wanna have sex with so much how do i get to have sex with her or have her wanna have sex with me?

You cannot get or make her to want to have sex with you. She is going to have to want to.

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ok, if this makes any sense, plz help. what are the levels in a relationship? i know there's like friends, dating, kissing, french kissing, etc, but what's after that?

Feeling up, rubbing, sex..Etc. I don't really know what you mean by levels though.

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I am so in love with this boy.. that i have been lets say more than friends with.. ne wayz... I'm so confused now.. I don't know what to do I don't know if I SHOULD GO FOR HIM OR WHAT.. I really like him and he likes me well i would hope so.. becasue he kisses me and we act like a couple but i dont wanna be turned down if i ask him out what should I do help!! plz ill rate 5's

Well, First of all..I've had that happen to me and I found out he just wanted my sex, Be careful..Find out the real him before you ask him out. I think it's just puppy love. But I hope everything works out. Good luck!

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i feel so lonley without a boyfriend. i miss having some one here to always talk to and stuff, is that wrong?

That's totally normal. Everyone wants someone there once in a while. But, don't forget..you will find that special someone,he'll come to you when the time is right.

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Hi my name is sylvie im 17 years old and im a lesbian. Why is it that my girlfriend and I always get in fight i try to fx them but i can't please someonme tell me why.

You're not mean't to be a lesbian.Problem solved.

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If I were to make-out with someone with braces and I have braces would anything happen? Like would the wires get stuck together?? Thanks! xox!

Nope, I've had braces before. Nothing will happen.

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How can you advice me if i have a steady single boyfriend and still have a relationship with a married man. Please i need advice!

Umm.. Get out of the relationship with the steady boyfriend or else ditch the married man, Isn't that ignorant to both of them?

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Everytime i make out with my boyfriend i feel like he is attcking me with his tongue is this normal or does he have issues??? Can i have some advice to work around this!!

Most guys do go wicked with their tongues. Just tell him how you want it and he should understand.

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