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ok, this is going to be really embarasing. here i go: school has all sorts of idiots. u can get rid of them by cussing, punching, guestures, tattletalling. there is this one kid who wont stop bothering me. it started when he would stare really hard at me in sex ed. than he started whipping his head to look at me when the teacher talked about kissing and sex. a few weeks ago, he touched my ass, and he tries to everyday in the hallway and health class. if anyone finds out i will be so embaresed. if bf finds out, ill go insane, if he finds out i told on him, im dead. i didnt mind him looking at me that much.....but touching, squeezing, pinching, running hand down my ass is too much. i hate him, and he never even said a word to me. i really need help getting rid of him, please help me! PS: i am 13 f. (link)
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that would be considered sexual harassment, you need to tell someone you really trust. once you tell them and he gets in trouble, itll be so much easier for you... its nothing to be embarassed about.
about your boyfriend. depending on how close you are to him should determine if u tell him or not. if you arnt that close then you dont really have to tell him whats goin on with that perve in ur school. but if you are close to him then you should tell him. close guy friends can help out a lot... more than they get credit for.
hope things get better for you.
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Ok well when I started going out with my boyfriend (about 2 months ago), my mom told me that she didn't want me kissing him, but only hugging him and holding hands. She said that she didn't think that I was old enough to be in the type of relationship in which you kissed in. Well, I felt I was ready, and so when my boyfriend asked me on IM if he could kiss me the next day, I said it would be okay. Well, he kissed me (it was like a one second kiss on the lips), and I have kissed him about 7 or 8 times since then everyday at the end of school. I don't know what to tell my mom, because she will probably eventually find out about it. If I tell her, however, I'm afraid that she won't let me go to the movies, dances, etc. with him, because she won't trust us together. It just doesn't feel right not telling her. So what should I do?
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dont lose your moms trust. thats the worst thing ever. once you lose her trust its hard to get it back, and you cant go anywhere until you do get it back. tell your mom the truth. if she gets mad then it'll be much better than you losing her trust. if she gets really really pissed tell her you couldnt keep it a secret cos 'its a big part of your life' and u wanted her involved. corney i know- but it works with most parents!
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Okay, well I really liked this guy Chris. But then this guy Scott started to like me. Anyways I went on a date with Chris last night and now that I think about it I didn't have that muchf un with him. I don't even really like him that much it's liek since I can have him I'm bored of him. Anyways this otehr guy Scott I kind of like him a bit but I odn't know if I shoudl even start with him cuase I'm afraid I'll get bored with him to. i get bored with all guys but I don't know why does anyone else? I like this otehr guy but he's so out of my league so I just gave up. I don't really know what I'm asking I guess should I just stick with Chris since I gave him teh impression that I liked him or should I go for Scott or really try for teh guy I really like? And does anyone else get bored with every guy they date afetr like a few weeks? Or is it just me? (link)
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no ur not the only one who gets bored after a few weeks. you should go for the guys whose you like the most(the one 'outta ur league'). if you dont get him, then get together with scott. (it might be too late for chris)
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Ok so i am 7th grade 13 and I like an 8th grader. We aren't going out; yet. I really like him, my friend asked him he said he liked me too. Tomorrow we don't have school and it's supposed to be like 88°. Well he lives really close to me. He was like, what are you doing tomorrow, and I was like i'll be so bored. He says well, maybe if you can, you can come over and chill with me and austin (his friend). Then he said I have a pool and it's supposed to be hot so maybe we can all go swimmin'! I was like sounds awesome. Well I really want to go but i'm afraid what my mom will say if i ask her. She isn't home tomorrow she's at work and i WILL NOT sneak out. But i'm afraid she'll be like, i'm not letting you go over to a boys house you're to younge. WHAT DO I DO OR SAY OR DO about my mom.... i REALLY WANT TO GO!
i rate high
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ask him if you can bring one of your friends, and if you can explain to your mom thats its a get together. if his parents are there then have your mom talk to his parents. if his parent arnt gonna be there then you might not want to tell your mom that.
*also if your in 7th grade and he's in 8th grade then try to figure out if he really likes you, or if hes using you. (im in 8th grade and everyonce in a while some of my guy friends will use the 7th grade girls) so try to figure out if he really likes you or not!
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okay. i like this guy alot! And my friend asked him if he likes me. He he said "no.....just as a friend". but she says he said it funny (like he was lieing)
And, i dunno 2 move on. or keep flirting. *because when he flirts-i flirt/when i flirt-he flirts.
Do i give up or what? (link)
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Ok that has happened to me recently. keep flirting with him, if you think you have a chance then dont give him up. Get your friends to snoop around and see if he likes anyone else. if he doesnt like anyone then he's all yours. If he does like someone then dont stop flirting and trying to get him, i made that mistake recently and i really regret it.
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