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ok. me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now. probably about 2 months. and it seems like we don't talk as much as we used to. its like we get all nervous around each other and we can't seem to start a conversation xcept when we're on aim. i know thats sad. does anyone have any advice on this one??
thx. x0x0 (link)
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Call him up once in a while just to talk..! or maybe you should just tell him how you feel...if ur to scared..just tell him on aim!! because thats prolly the best thing to do..to make it better anyways!
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-Brooke
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(**names are changed**) ok so my bestest guy friend, *mike* told me that he liked my friend *mary*. now you see, i like mike...a lot-and i always have. ...and he doesn't know. so when mike told me he likes mary...i just pretended i was all cool with it and i was like 'OH MY GOD!!! do you want me to talk to her for you?' and all this other stuff. so i talked to mary for him and found out that she likes 4 other people. and i told him and he was all pissed about it. so then finally my other friend *tom* convinced mike to tell mary that he likes her. and when mike told her, she said "you know that martha (thats me) likes you right?...i can't do that to her, she's my friend" and what not. but mike didn't believe her when she said that i liked him. so then there was a build up of a lot of things...and i was just like "mary, you don't know how bad i want to tell mike that i like him...but at the same time, i don't." and she convinced me to really tell him. so i did...and now everything is really awkward. which i hate b/c like everytime something big like this happens, usually we're so cool about it and like, i can't look at him or anything. and i really want to talk to him about how i feel, b/c we are such good friends and we're so open...but this is such a touchy topic...that like i don't know if i should talk to him and risk looking like an idiot, or just wait till this all blows over...
sorry this was so long...advice on what to do? help/comments, anything! (link)
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well if your so open just tell him..or what i always do is tell the guy online, because i would feel weird too like in person or on the phone. just talk to him about it and stay calm while doing it.
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-Brooke
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Well there's a boy-we're both on the same tennis team. We're friends, we've never hung out outside of tennis, mainly because he dated my old bestfriend as a freshman, then again a couple of months ago *sophmore year*. By "old bestfriend" I mean we were BeSt friends in middle school but high school came along and we grew apart. I'll sit with her at lunch and comment on her xanga but that's as far as it goes now-a-days. Recently, these two broke up *again* and it was his fault. He started acting wierd or something like that. The problem is, I really like this kid! Since like 8th grade. Before him and her went out my friends told me to 'go for it' but of course I didn't but now after this break-up i don't know if i should. I didn't 'go for it' i think because i was kind of scared? It would've been my first boyfriend..Not to mention we're on the same tennis team. I'd really appreciate advice on if i should 'go for it'. Should I wait? Drop it? Help!
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well, i think you should go for it. if you like this guy alot. plus your on the same tennis team so that will give to time to bond and flirt a little. lol . just give him the signal
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-Brooke
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I'm 15/f. Last year I really liked this guy, but we rarely talked and stuff. In like April I stopped liking him. Well, now I think like him again. It's summer now and I haven't seen him since the end of May. I'm going to see him again in a few weeks. I want to be able to talk with him, but I don't want to freak him out or anything. What should I do? (link)
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all you need to do is to really just say calm, and be normal. if you freak out he might think your crazy!! and im sure you dont want that.
-Brooke
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