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hey! i have a quick ?.... me and my boyfriend have been together for a little while now and christmas is coming up and i need some gift ideas on what to get him, just name anything and everthing you can think of thanks!!!
You could get him colgne or maybe a nice outfit... Ask him some things he likes and then see if you can get it for him.. And if you can't, save up money so you can! or take him out to dinner or something... Or get him a hat... or if you're a creative person, make him something!! Hope I helped sweetie! Brittany
Well Im a girl duhh and me and my boyfriend broke up and im about to date a hottie who he hates am I doing the right thing???? I know I am! haha Umm Can i say we all hate my ex boyfriend all i hope he becomes a girl soon because thats what he is really meant to be! he is a pussy! I love you Brittany G! Your my diol!
Well I think you are doing the right thing... Since we all know your ex boyfriend then I definitely think it is. You are still young.. It's time for you to go out and have fun! So don't worry about that loser. Remember that he has NEW girlfriend now and he needs to choose between you two. But whatever Date *The Hottie* cuz hes alot better and he doesn't look like a girl! :) I love you manuela V! lol Hope I helped
i guess me and my ex boyfriend broke up i still really like him alot i might even go as far as saying i love him i was trying to stay away from him when he was at my friends house because he had tryed to hook up with my best friend the weekend before we talked he said he was trying to kiss her because it would piss me off and he wanted to make me mad because i was talking to his cousin i told him that i still like him and he said the reason he broke up with me was because things that were going on in his life at the time he said you know i love you and i told him not to say that because i feel strongly about that word and i believe that it is miss used alot i told him not to say it unless he ment and and he dosen't mean it so he dosen't need to say it all he had to say about that was that you dont knwo that i dont mean it we were in the car on the way home he said it again i told him to stop saying it my friend got pissed and said he does mean it you dont know he dosent and you love him to so shut up but at school he still majorly flirts with girls right in front of me i dont get it oh and to make this all better he has a gf but what should i do im head over heals for this guy to bad he dosen't feel the same sorry this is so long i Rate extreamly well thank you for your time whoever will take the time to read this and give me a little bit of help
Hey girl.. I'm in the same position right now. My ex-boyfriend always told me how much he loved me and everything, but he dumped me because he needed to get his life straight. Here's something about guys... To get over a past relationship, they date someone else. Maybe he really does love you and he doesn't know how to express it except by saying that he does love you. I mean guys are wierd when it comes to those words. If he said it, he must mean it a little. I mean if he really loved you, he would come back to you when he feels ready too. Guys at this age are just trying to have fun.. and when its time to settle down, they will. So don't worry about it. If he doesn't pay attention to you, then maybe you should go out and have fun for yourself. And if ya'll are meant for each other, then it will happen. All I can say is go have fun, there's no reason why you should worry yourself about a guy who only pays attention to you when there's no other girl to flirt with. So keep your head up and try other things. You never know... there might be something out there for you. Well, I hope I helped! Brittany
im going out with this girl but nothing really seems the same from what we started outwith.who do i know if she still likes me? because i really like her. sometimes she acts cold she sometimes dosent want to talk to me and durring our conversations online i ask 2 many questions and she getts annoyed really fast and i think that she is starting to not like me bacouse woe used to talk every night she'd call me but now she dosent and i dont want to call her bacouse the past 2 weeks shes been really sick and i think that thats the problem can you help me and tell me if she is acting like that bacouse she is sick or beacouse she dont like me anymore
There could be many reasons why she is acting this way. If ya'll have been dating for a while, then the reason why she hasn't called you as much as she used to is because she might be comfortable with the relationship. Or maybe she has been really stressed out about things. The problem with most girls is that when we are stressed, we tend to not tell anyone about it. Also, if you ask too many questions, girls do get annoyed. Alot of girls don't like for people to know their personal business. So don't stress over it. Since she's really sick, you should do something great for her. Visit her, or call her out of the blue to see how she's doing. That'll liven her spirits and maybe help her get better quicker. So there's a possibility that she doesn't have interest in you, but there is other possibilities also. Don't be so paranoid. If she's with you, then she more than likely has interest in you. You just have to believe it for yourself. Also, since you're having these doubts, you should talk to her about what you feel and see what she says. Good luck! Brittany
Ok well I go to a school where there is over 3,000 people. I'm a girl and I am 15 years old. I guess I am ok looking too. And whenever there is a hot guy who likes me i talk and flirt with them. So it's like no big deal. But after a week or so, sometimes not even a week, i start to get REALLY sick of the guy! To where if i even think about him i just want to throw up! I've never been in a serious relationship and everyone thinks of me as a hoe because i move from one guy to another! Is there something wrong with me?! I start out liking the person but after a while he just gets so old! And it is like this with EVERY guy! No matter how hard i try to be commited to someone it just does not work! So do you think you can give me advice on why i can not stick with one guy and be happy for once? Thanks a lot!
There's nothing wrong with you! Your still young and you want to be free. There's nothing wrong with that. If your friends call you a hoe, maybe its because they could never get as many guys as you can! There's a definition of a hoe and I haven't seen you describe yourself as one in your question. So don't worry. You'll grow older and want to settle down later, but right now.. just have fun and live each day. Tell me how everything goes! Brittany
hey i know it's a little early..but this is when i usually do my xmas shopping..
ok..by christmas, my b/f and i will have been together for 3 & 1/2 months & i have no idea what to get him. he's black, he's into rap & football and stuff like that..a typical guy..but i'm never good with coming up wit something to get a guy so any suggestions would be great :)
thanx
Well instead of getting him something now... wait until Christmas. You might want to do something for him totally different. So wait until Christmas and then, ya'll might want to go out somewhere or just hang out. So wait, you never know what might come in the future. Hope i helped! Brittany
I am not racest at all..but I have a problem..Okay well I have a really good friend..hes black..im white..I have liked him for about a month now..I really like him..hes all I think about! I found out a week ago that he liked me and wanted to go out with me..he even wrote the sweetest peom ever about me..I cant go out with him because my mom would flip if i went out with a black person..she just doesnt believe in black and white..and neither do some of my friends..It just wouldnt work..I really like this kid and I need to get over him! what should I do?! please help...
Okay, you don't need to get over him. All because your mom and your friends wouldn't like it doesn't mean you don't have to like an inter-racial relationship. Your on this earth to please yourself, and please others to an extent. If you really like him and he really likes you, then you should try it out. No matter how a person looks, that doesn't show who they are. My grandpa is white and he met my grandmother in Africa. Yea thats right, my grandfather married a Black woman. My grandfather's family at first didn't accept it, but then they grew used to it. So try it out. Talk to your mother about it. And remember, It doesn't matter if a person is black, white, green, or purple.. it matters about who they are. And your friends and family need to understand that. If they can't deal with it, tough.. You follow your heart, not their views. You are your own person. Good luck! Brittany
I saw this guy that I dated 4 years ago when I was in 8th grade, now I'm a senior in highschol.....we've been talking since and after all that time we saw each other again the other day, he didn't want 2 start the relationship again because of the distance between us....when I saw him yesterday we hung out than kissed but he pulled back and said it would be 2hard 2 handle a long distance relationship....well about 15 min before I went upstairs 2 my apartment he grabbed me and we kissed on and off a lot....and he said he'd promise 2 see me again very soon....I'm so confused and I just wish I knew what he wanted......What do I do??
Do you really like him?! From what I see, ya'll still have feelings for each other. I know its long distance, but you never know when you might get a chance with him again! This could be a sign that you 2 need to be together! Talk to him about the situation. Take a risk and try it out! You never know what might come out of it! Good luck! Brittany
okay hurr it goes i went out with this guy over the summer for like a month and a half and i truley believed i loved him then he cheated on meh and broke up with me for my best friend. Well they are broken up now but i still love this guy but he hates me now n i really dnt know why but i kant get him out of my mind i love him sooo muchh and i want to be back in his arms sooo bad wut should i do?
Okay! I know how it feels to be cheated on! Ya'll we're only together for a month! I was with this guy almost half a year when he cheated on me! I know its hard to get over him... The best way to try, is to go out with friends and have fun! Thats what I did! Then, I met this guy and we've been together for 5 months! So there's someone out there for you. Keep that in mind! Forget about the loser! Theres better things for you to waste your time on! So keep your head up to the sky honey! O yeah, I hope that girl isn't your friend ne more! Shes not worth your time either! Your so much better than them! Well I hope it helped! Brittany
My brothers french exchange partner came over about a week ago and we got on well. I REALLY like him alot and now he is gone i feel so depressed that i'm never going to see him again. He is all i can think of! I got his mobile number but because its in France it doesn't work. My family don't know how i feel about him and i don't intend them to but my friends know and there not too much help. PlEASE help me!!! Im a 13 year old girl. He is also 13.
Well, you are only 13. I know that it's hard and he's all you think about. But this right now is just puppy love for you. I've been through it MANY times.... I know you may think that he's all you ever need, but you haven't been out to see the whole world yet. Someone is going to come along your way one day and knock your socks off! You won't even know it hit you, but it will happen. So don't stress sweetheart, there are many things for you to see. And when that one person comes, you'll have faint memories of "the exchange student", but it won't compare to what you have then. So remember, things happen for a reason. And if you're meant to be with the French boy, then it'll happen. So don't stress. Go and live life! Everything will fall into place from there! Hope it helps! Brittany
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okay i really like this guy i've liked him for such a long time gosh like 3 years almost i'd say and his birthday is coming up in 20 days i want to buy him something cuz he's my best guy friend.. but i dont know what to buy i dont wanna buy him somethin that also gives clues of me liking him or anything because i dont want him to no .. i told him the 1st time i liked him which made 1 year of our friendship like hell n its our 2nd year of our friendship and i rather be friends w. him than nuttin at all but yet i rather be his gf than his friend but anyways wut can i buy him??
oo btw he's turning 14
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Hey, I know exactly how you feel. I used to have this major crush on a guy for about 2 years, so I know how tough it is for you. Even though you try not to show that you like him, giving him a gift is going to hint in that you like him no matter what you give him. However, since you are good friends with him, its easy to show your friendship towards him with a gift. The best gift for a friend is a card and money. I mean I know it sounds kind of dumb, but it won't start confusion. For instance, say you gave him a cd, but he already has that cd. Or someone else gave him that cd. So giving him money can give him the chance to go out and get what he wants. But if you REALLY want to give him something, then get him something fun and exciting. Stay away from ordinary things. Get him something out there and eye catching. That way, no matter what, he'll notice you out of everyone else.
If you need anything else ask me!
Brittany