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Hello, im bree. Id like to think im good at giving advice because ive pretty much gone through everything. So if you need any kinda help, i wont judge you. Send your questions my way. :)

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this might sound weird. but is it okay to make out with your best guy friend? because i read a lot of stories on yahoo answers about people that make out with their best friends but they arent going out. I want to do that with my best guy friend. so maybe if we do that. we might become bf/gf. unless it is wrong to do. but if its okay how would i start it?
please help. than you in advance.

Personally, i wouldnt do that if its your bestfriend. Chances are in the end yall are going to ruin your friendship or just have things totally weirded out. But i mean if you think its worth taking that chance then go ahead. Who knows, yall might end up married one day. Im just saying its a chance itll ruin the friendship.

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i am a sucker for love and i keep falling in love with the wrong people and i constantly keep getting hurt but i cant help it i love them so much like right now im totally in love with someone but people keep telling me that theyre no good, that i should stay away from them, these"spirits" keep telling me that theyre nothing but trouble, but i love them so much and i dont want to lose them like the others i built my world around certain people and now theyre either being taken away from me, leaving me, or i have to let them go without them my world falls apart Why must i feel so much pain??? why cant i find someone who i can love and trust as much as they love me??? why do i atract the wrong people??? i cant do this any more im ready to give up on this seeming to be a never ending search for love please if you have any advice for me i would really appriciate it cause my heart cant take much more of this
im a girl and my age doesnt matter

If love worked with everyone then we wouldnt have just that one special somebody, you just havent found them yet.
People are going to stomp on your heart, its how life/love works.
"in life, everyone is going to hurt you.. Only you can decide who is worth the pain".
As far as the you always find the wrong guy part, thats how us girls usually are. We are attracted to the jerks. Not sure why that is, but thats just how it is.
All i can say is just try and chill out and live your life. Love will come to you but in the meantime just make the best out of everything in your life.
Sometimes all you really need is your friends.

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So, I'm not talking about my first kiss-I've been kissed before, although not much. And I don't know if my boyfriend has been kissed before-but I'm guessing he has. I'm talking about OUR first kiss. We haven't been together very long (btw, we're both 16) but we haven't yet kissed. And I'm wondering, should I leave that up to him? He's shy (we both are to some degree), but he is the guy, and he's not THAT shy. Or should I take matters into my own hands (he's quite the gentleman, maybe he's wondering what I'm ok with, and besides, I tend to be more agressive). Or should I try to talk about it? So-wait for him to make a move, just go ahead and kiss him, or what? How would I go about the correct option?

A kiss isnt something to fret over hun. Dont sweat it, if you wanna kiss him then do it. Theres no special secret to it. Your never going to be in a happy relationship if your so nervous you cant do something you wanna do. So go for it and good luck:)

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So, my boyfriend and I haven't been dating for very long and we decided to NOT have sex for a longgg time down the road. Which I think is great! But we're young and live with our parents and stuff. I mean we do things like dry humping and touchy feely and things like that but I get soo paranoid that someone's going to walk in or say something. My opinion is we're not having sex, we are being responsible but we DO have hormones! What do you think? Do you really think our parents would freak out? Do you think what we're doing is okay?

Everyones parents are different, only you would know what your parents would say.
My advice, dont get caught if you think theyd flip.
What is done behind closed doors stays behind closed doors.

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