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My name is Em. I love to dance, play lacrosse, volleyball, and soccer, hang out with my friends, watch movies, dance in the rain, sing, act like a dork, go swimming, shopping, and having fun :)
Gender: Female
Age: 14
AIM: BluMonkE835
Member Since: July 10, 2006
Answers: 18
Last Update: March 10, 2007
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I really like this kid i.ve never met him or talked to him. im really shy........how do i start a conversation when the only class we have together is Physical education????????
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Don't worry. Phys. Ed. is probably the BEST class for conversation starters!! You could always talk 2 him about sports and how great he was in the last game that you played. Also if you did something better then he did, you could give him tips on how to improve

*~Em


I'm a 15 yr. old guy and I've recently realized I like one of my best girl friends (Let's call her Rachel). She's a really nice girl-and at one of my friends parties last week, I told my other best friend that I liked Rachel, but I thought she liked someone else at the party (Let's call him Jamie). My friend wasn't sure, and she told me that she wouldn't tell Rachel or anyone else. I've been talking to her a lot on AIM, and I like her even more- but I'm not sure if I should make a move and ask her out, I'm afraid that my heart will be broken once again (already broken thrice by my friend I talked to at the party). Please help!
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Take a leap of faith, and thik about asking her out. Most BF/GF relationships start out in friendships 1st. For all you know, she might like you too, but is too scared to ask you out.


Ok, this past year i have had 2 boyfriends. The first one was really great and I liked him alot. We were really close and i thought he cared about me. Then at one of my bff's b-day party's he was invited and so was my other bff. Well, my other bff and him went to look for the girl that was having the party's softball they lost in the woods. A little later they came out and my friend took me to the side and said he had kissed her. I was REALLY hurt. Then in the same day he broke up with me. This was his excuse:" I got my 1st cousin pregnant." Then, later on I found out it was a lie.
The second boyfriend I had was really close to me too. Then, he stopped returning my calls and all my friends were saying he was cheating on me. My bff(the girl the 1st guy kissed) said he had been calling her all the time. She also said she would talk to him for hours at a time. So, it really hurt me that she was doing this to me and rubbing it in my face. I don't wanna lose her as a friend, but why can't i hold on to a guy.....? (link)
I know that this isn't the answer that you're looking for, but I think that you shouldn't trust her very much. She's obviously hurting your feelings and keeps chasing your boyfriends. She knows that you're dating, so why is she doing this to you? Definitly tell her how you feel. A true friend wouldn't do something like that.


14/f. yep, it's another dumb crush question. Tommorow I am going to see a movie with the guy I like and my friend thats a girl. I need ANY tips to attract him to me at the movies. I already know to sit next to him. (My friend told me to drink Coke cause he would like the taste in my mouth. lol). If he tries to make-out with me, it would be my first time... so any tips on that would be good too. (unless you say 'let him lead' or 'go with the flow' or somethin like that... then i dont want it.) =] I RATE. (link)
I know this sounds cheesy, but just be yourself! That's probably the best way to attract people. Also smile a lot and make jokes about certain stuff. He'll like you because your fun to be around and he'll definitly recognize that. Also, if he says that he just wants to be friends, don't rush anything. that would just push him away (I know, I've done that A LOT. LOL :) ).


I have minor acne and i wear make-up 2 clean it up.My dad says not 2 wear it but i do any way.All my friends say im so pretty and so do random people. i dont think im so preety.I dont care if my friends think im pretty i want this 1 boy jay to think i am.He only likes this 1 girl jasmine who is hawiin and japaneese and so pretty.Does the acne have any thing 2 do with what he thinks of me???? (link)
Everyone gets acne....it's part of growing up! I doubt that acne makes a big impact of what people think of u. If people think that your pretty (especially your friends and family), then you honestly must be! I don't think that they would lie to you.




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