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Hello. The name is Sarah. I am 16 and home schooled at the moment. I am expected to graduate class of 2005. I am in love with the Fiance, Brandon. He and our relationship mean the world to me and more. We are getting married June of 2006. You can send me questions and I will be sure to answer back.

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i was at my friend's house and we decided to prank my crush (because he's the type of guy who would sort of play along). well when we called him, we couldn't stop laughing so well he couldn't really play along with that and hung up. he was sounded pretty upset (like when he was asking who is this). but i don't know, what if he recognizes me by my laugh? my friend said that i didn't exactly disguise my laugh but that it's ok-but if he knows it was me, wow i'm dead. everyone will definitely know i like him (trust me, they already suspect it!). and plus he'll like hate me, which i really don't want because he's like the sweetest and funniest guy ever!! i dont know what to do, please help!

Dear Prankster,
Pranks can be a little annoying but their easy to get over. More than likely your crush is already over the prank. There should be no reason as to why he would be directly mad at you. You weren't the only one and it was only a phone call. If he brings it up, confront what you did head on. Never lie. It will come back to you in the end and if he finds out, he will have a hard time trusting you. If he is such a sweet and funny guy then what are you waiting for? Guys like that don't come around too often, girl. Catch him while you can. Scared? What's the worst thing that can happen? Really? If you never take the chance then you will never know and you will always live in wonder. We could be talking about your future husband, right now. Do it for yourself and talk to him. Good luck!
♥Sarah and Brandon

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heyy everyone. ok i was wondering if a guy is 18 years old and your 15 is it illegal to go out as boyfriend and girlfriend? because theres this really hott college guy and i really like him a lot but hes like i cant ask her out because its illegal. thanks yall!

Dear Illegal,
I am not too sure on this one. I think it depends on which state you live in. I am almost 17 and my fiance is 18. We have been a couple for almost a year now so I do not look at it as being illegal. You might have to keep the relationship on the down low if the two of you end up together. Please make sure that he is not just trying to get into your pants because you are 15. There are guys who will do that to you because you are younger. If he respects you and cares about the relationship, see if he can go without any sexual activities for a while. That will tell you whether or not he is worth it. Good luck.
♥Sarah and Brandon

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I am 14 and a female. There is a guy at school that I think is really cute. We both have history together and I will sometimes see him looking at me. I want to talk to him so bad, but I have never said anything to him before. What should I do?

Dear Chicken,
You are becoming a strong women. You can handle a silly boy. This is how I look at it. If you like someone and never tell them, you will never know what could have been. I say that you should speak up before it is too late. Think about it. What do you really have to lose? He might even be interested and if he's not then get over him. No boy is worth any fuss unless he is willing to fuss over you. You can do it girl and you are no chicken. Good luck.
♥Sarah and Brandon

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I forgive you and accept your love and your sorry. You are my love, my air,my smiles,my worries,my happieness, my world,my lover, and my best friend. And I love you. Can you take my hand and love me for the rest of my life and keep me as yours and hold me when im sad and bring me up when I am down?
Yours,
Brandon-Fiance

Dear Love,
I already have and I will for the rest of my life. I am so much in love with you and I hope that you can someday forgive all of the wrong that I have said and done. I am so sorry. I love you with all of my heart. Good luck, to us.
♥Sarah

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My ex boyfriend and I had been together for about two years, and now that we've broken up, he doesn't want to see me at all. (-there wasn't a fight, it was more of a 'this isn't working out, I don't feel that way about you' type of deal.) He's returned my things through a friend of ours, who gave them to me.

Well, I'm still kind of upset about the whole thing, and we were going to talk a little after we'd had some time apart. I still have some things of his, and was wondering if I should A. give then to our mutual friend, B. drop them off at his house/in person, or C. wait a week or two and then give them to him myself.

All of our friends are shared, so it seems that there will come a time when we'll be forced to see each other. I wouldn't cause a scene or push him to feel bad about our breakup if I did see him, but he seems to want to avoid me at all costs right now. When he'd broken up with me, we didn't talk at all, and it seems this still has to happen (not to get back together, but to clear my mind and his a little between us.)
What should I do? Should I wait it out?

Dear Return to sender,
You seem to still be upset over the breakup. Breaking up is sometimes so hard to do and I understand where you are coming from. To me it seems to be obvious that your still not sure what happened between the two of you. You feel that you are stuck in a position where you do not know what to do and it is so hard for you to move on and I feel your pain. Relationships are so hard. Love is so hard. I am thinking that you should face this before it really starts to upset you. Having some of his things still with you holds on to the hurt and the pain that came from the past and giving his things back might kill his ghost that lingers on within you. You need to confront him about all of this. You need to tell him how you feel about what happened between the two of you and how it is affecting you now. Give him back his things as soon as possible. Who cares if he does not want to see you. This is your life and you cannot put it on hold because of how someone else feels. Give him his things and do not look back. You will be just fine, promise. Good luck.
♥Sarah and Brandon

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Okay me and my x b/f went out for like 3 months.. and even thou that doesn't seem like that long it really was.. we really had something.. but i feel like i screwed it all up bc towards tha end i wasnt really acting like his gf and stuff.. but now its been like 2 months and i still like him sooo much.. and i wanna know how he feels but i dont wanna ruin our friendship that we have by mentioning something so what do i do?? and i know that if we went out again then i would change everything.. but plz HELP!

Dear Changed,
Are you sure that you would change everything that you did from before? Yes? I have heard of so many people having something to say but not saying it because their afraid of the outcome. You never know. Do you want this relationship? Then go for it. You live once, right? People change and I am sure that if the both of you were meant to be then you will both accept each other for the way that you both are. Am I right? Good luck.
♥Sarah and Brandon

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Sarah, what the hell is this and why havent you told me about this and why are you hiding it from me? You are lieing again to my face, you are making me get really upset and making me not sleep, i have been crying for a long time and i have been throwing up. So tell me wonder woman....What the fuck is going on? I thought you were looking at Ambercombie...LIE, Wheres my email?.... LIE. Keep them coming cause you are really messing up sweetie. Im getting really tired of the bullshit lies.

Dear Confused,
You and our relationship mean the world to me and more. You are such an amazing person inside and out. I apologize for all the wrong that I have done. I have been so dishonest and you do not deserve it. You are such an amazing person and deserve all the best things in this world. I hope that I can make it up to you. I am so sorry. I love you, Baby.
♥Sarah
Please Note: To the people looking for advice. This question is from Brandon, Fiance. Please do not comment on this because it goes past what you can see. Thanks.

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ok i love my boyfriend and everything but whenever well be on the phone and hell have to eat or something,..hell say ill call you back in like 20 minutes...and hell be like i love you so much ill talk to you in 20mins babe i love you...but then hell acll me back in like TWO HOURS!! i talked to hmi about it earlier tonite and hes like well stuff comes up i either have to leave w/ my parents or have to do chores or something and then hes doing it again right now!!....hes not getting the hint!!! what can i do??

Dear Boyfriend-trouble,
Why aren't you making the initiative and calling him yourself? Good luck.
♥Sarah

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Hey...I don't really think you can help much with this, but I'm curious to see what you think of it all. This is probably gonna be long. Sorry.
Okay. My boyfriend and I are really close in every way. We love each other completely, and we're technically engaged. The only thing is...he'd told me he was staying here for college, but then he went on a trip with his family to see the rest of their family this break, and all of a sudden decided he wants to go there for college. That would be a four year separation, maybe more, and I don't know how to handle it. He went away this summer for 2 months and it, like, killed me. I can't imagine not seeing him for a year. We're not going to break up or anything, and I'm not going to try to make him stay (though I'd like to) because he'd resent me, I'm sure, if I did. I don't want to make him stay here for me, but he's planning to go to tech school. Can't he just stay here? I would go with him, but there are absolutely no good vocal programs where he's planning to go, and I already got accepted into a college here that does. (I'm doing vocal performance as my major).
Anyway...I don't know what to do. I almost don't want to talk to him about it because I'll end up crying and making him feel bad, then feeling bad about making him feel bad. Lol. Plus, I hate for him to see me cry.
So...anything to say?

Dear College-Relationship Dilemma,
You seem to care a lot about this relationship. You are going at extra lengths to get others opinions on the choices that are being made here. It is obvious in black and white that you are stuck and you have no idea what to do, because if you did you would not be here in the first place. If this relationship is so important to you and your fiance, you both will find a way to make it work. He is your fiance, right? You both are lacking on your communication skills. This move will change the rest of both of your lives. Grab your fiance and sit him down for a little one on one talk about everything. Do not leave anything out. You might risk your relationship on it. Long distance relationships are so hard and I don not like seeing people go through them; but if it is true love then the distance will never matter. Good luck.
♥Sarah

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