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Ok I met this girl online like 11 months ago and in April I asked her out. I have pics millions of letters and we talks hours everyday on the phone. I really love her. But her past relationship she was raped and had a baby so now her dad doesnt trust guys being with her and since she met me online that makes it even worse. I really wanna see her yesterday was 7 months. I need advice on getting her dad to trust me if anyone can help. And no im not leaving her shes perfect we never argue or fight. Please dont give me answers saying to dump her I understand long distance is hard but I know with her dads trust it will work. Thanks much guys and gals.

Well, i'm sypathetic to her father. This has to be really hard for him. I don't think there is any one thing you can do to change his mind. just keep being a great boyfriend. it's going to take him a very long time to come around. but if you keep being a great boyfriend, her father will see it eventually. good luck and i wish you two happiness

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hey... well i kiinda have a problem.. well there is this guy dat i like and this weekend we wanna hang out and fool around... but i have my period do u think i shud postpone the hanging out? cuz i dont want 2 give a hand job and than he cant return the favor... like he knoz i have it but i dont want it 2 get carriied away and he 4gets bout it.. i need help ASAP!!!

i'd get a rain check. if you're just hanging out with him to have some fun, make sure that you can have fun too!

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theres this guy that i like nd hes soooo sweet! but he told me that he likes ma best friend nd that hurt rlly bad. i thawt he liked me but he mite now now. bfore his friends were comin up to meh n sayin that he likes me n stuff but i didnt like him then. also sumtimes i rlly like him n othr times i just think o him as a friend so i dunno whether i should go out wit him or not cuz if i do i rlly don wanna hurt his feelings cuz hes 1 o the sweetest guys i evr met. wat should i do? thnx

Well, it sounds like you like him to me! :) I think you should get the courage to talk to him about it. You guys sound like you're close. Even if he doesn't say what you want to hear, atleast you can know the truth and move on in your relationship. Best of luck

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how can u tell when ur in love with a guy???

If you're in love, you know you're in love. This is just my opinion, but i think love is wanting to be with someone dispite their flaws. Once you get past the "they're perfect" phase, and you still get a huge smile when you think about them - that's love.

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I have a problem...as you may have read ealier I like this guy named Max and he looks at me sometimes. Most people tell me to say hi or strike up a conversation with him and I just don't have the guts too. If you are going to tell me "Oh don't worry what other people think" then don't even bother to answer this question. I need better advice than that. I really don't know what to do. I have been rejected 4 times in the past 3 years...so I'm not all that attractive then. Help!

Why don't you try talking to him a little bit at a time. If you see a cd he has, say "hey - that's a great band" keep it short and sweet. that way, if he's interested, the ball is in his court. just do a little detective work and see what he's into. when the time is right bring it up. i know it's scary to talk to someone new - but this way - it's only one sentence. you can do it! good luck and let us know how it goes! :)

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I have a boyfriend that I've been with for almost two months. I feel that I love him, but I barely see him, and he never openly talks to me. I have three other guys who like me, and I goofed the other day and cheated on my boyfriend with one of them. The guy I cheated on him with I really like, but he's got a girlfriend and can't leave her, or he won't have a place to live. I want to be with the other guy more then my boyfriend, but I can't be. Should I stay with my boyfriend?

This sort of stuff can be really complicated. It kinda sounds like you have this boyfriend just to have a boyfriend. That's not fair to him or to YOU! If you've already cheated on him, you're probably not as crazy about him as you should be for such a new relationship. Don't force yourself to be with someone, just enjoy life! Good luck and I hope everything works out:)

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I have a crush on my best friend thats a guy! He doesn't know but I don't know how to tell him and I know he doesn't like me like that...But how should I tell him I like him? I RATE HIGH AND GIVE GOOD COMMENTS!

I had a similar situation happen to me in reverse. I was really happy my friend was honest and open with me. That's what I feel is the most important part of friendship! Although nothing ever happened, we gave it the "good old college try." Don't be afraid to take a chance! I say go for it. If he doesn't feel the same way, you tried, and now you can move on. :) Good luck and keep us posted!

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My boyfriend wants to go to the movies with me and he has been bringing up making out. But ive never made out before. Could someone please tell me how? I know this might sound stupid but i have nooooo clue :P (Please dont say it comes naturally) I RATE HIGH! Thanks :)

ok - all you have to do is kiss him. open your mouth a little bit. chances are he'll make the first move. just copy what he does and you'll do just fine. (you sound young enough that he hasn't made out either)

otherwise, after you open your mouth, move the tip of your tounge against his, and then take it back. you'll be making out in no time. don't be nervous - it's fun!

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