about

i'm tiffanie :) i'm that girl that loves to make a fool of herself and just laughs it off.

16, sophomore at WHS and i will be a licensed driver in the spring!

i will hold my own and won't get pushed around.

please don't underestimate me, i always go after what I want and i won't stop until i get it.

my heart is entirely too big for my body.

i like people with high expectations that don't settle for anything less.

i've got good intentions but they don't always come out that way.

i don't regret a thing i do. and i mean almost everything i say.

times are tough but i still run this shit :)

basketball player, water girl for football, and stat girl for baseball, and i love every second of it.

advice

Now I know that everyone has their own personal preferencese when it comes to dating. My question though is, is there something wrong with a 17 year old guy going out with a 15 year old girl? I mean do you see anything wrong with it? I know i'm going to get many different answers and that's what i'm hoping for. There's just this guy that I really like, but he said that youngest he would date is 16, and i'm 15, and he's 17. He's a really great guy. We both have a lot in common, and are a lot alike. I'm not saying that because of these things that we belong together or something I just want to know everyones ideas on this. Any and all answers are greatly appreciated, and thank you in advance.

i don't think this is wrong at all.. 1 of my ex's was 17, when i was 15 and we dated for close to 7 months. and another 1 of my ex's was 18 when i was 16, so it's the same age difference.
you just need to find out if your parents will have a problem w/ this, at first mine didn't like it at all then they got to know him and pretty much fell in love with him, so it really all depends on their opionin. but i see nothing wrong with it, good luck :)

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okay so the other night, i met up with my new boyfriend at this elementary school thats close to our house to just hang out. my younger sis came, and two of his friends and mine that i knew from 7th grade ( we're all in 11th now) were there too. now its been since june that ive seen him because he was in nc with his sister, staying with his dad for a large portion of the summer since his parents are divorced.
so my sis and i were there and my boyfriend is in the middle of giving me a hug when we see my dads car pull up. he gets out and its soo obvious he was mad.
so my sister and i get home, and my dad lectures me telling me that i should call and tell him who i hang out with. and he was also bugged about how my boyfriend "had his paws on me"
My mom gets home from work that night and the first thing she did was come in my room and ask for my cell phone. i give it to her because i knew she would look at it to see if there were any from him.
later that night, she was saying how she doesnt want me hanging out with scum like him. she assumes that since his friend isnt big into education like we are that my boyfriend is the same.
she is finding every possible reason for herself to not like him. since im going into a better private school that costs well over 10 grand, she believes he's going to "distract" me from getting good grades.
yesterday she was mentioning how i should date people who have money and are close with their family. this really made me angry because back when my mom and dad were dating, my dad couldnt afford much and he was not close with his family.
shes basicaly told me she doesnt want me to see him. my boyfriend and i have known each other since 7th grade but we've been talking for about a year and before he left for NC we were quite close and we have strong feelings for each other. we've both decided to fight through all this.
I justt need help with how i can convince my mom to allow me to hang out with him?
has this happened to you before? what did you do?
thanks very much.

well, this has never happened to me before but try to convince your mom to let you have a chance with him, maybe invite him over to dinner with your family so instead on judging a book by it's cover they can get to know him& how nice of a boy he is, and if they won't even give him a chance then it's not worth trying to convince them, just see him anyway- without them knowing, yes I know it's bad but there isn't anything else you can do you've tried to be reasonable with them and they won't even give him a chance.

good luck. :)

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hello-
okay so my ex boyfriend is dating this girl, & i don't really like her but i keep my opinions to myself. but anyway she always comments me& asks me about him and stuff& i don't like him but he use to be like one of my best friends& yeahh i miss him as a friend& like i was saying she always tells me her problems with him& i don't want to get in between them so i don't really anwser them.& he hates me now because she said i always tell her that i love him& i am trying to break them up& i'm deff. not because i'm not like that- but she always breaks up with him telling him that he should be with me,& he gets mad at me because he thinks it's my fault & idk what to do i mean i really don't like her but it's his choice& i'm not trying to break them up& yesterday he told my friend that he hated me & shit & i don't do anything & he says that all the time him & his girlfriend are on the phone she always brings me up. :\ & i really don't know what to do& every one knows i don't like him but she just doesn't get it& she like brags to me about him& i really could care less you know? i just don't know what to do help please?

theres not really much more you can do, other then tell her that you don't like him& if she mentions him don't seem interested at all, or if she comments you or something don't comment her back& maybe she'll get the picture. :)

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my boyfriend kisses me on the lips a lot; just a peck. its usually spontaneous and I don't mind, I think its sweet. but I'm usually caught off guard so I end up missing his lips or something, and then I feel like an idiot. I've made out and I know I'm not bad but I get clumsy when it comes to that simple peck. any advice for me?

it's not a big deal, my ex-boyfriend& I used to miss& everything all the time, we just laugh about it, so be laid back, don't think about it alot, just go w/ the flow. if you're not worrying about it, it helps alot. :)

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do you think im bi or lesbian??
everytime i see girls kiss, or i see pictures, of them having sex, i get turned on.
but when i see a guy and a girl, i just dont care..
i've always imagined making out with a girl and i loved it.but i have madeout with a girl before, and i liked it alot, but i like guys too, so i don't know.

what do you think

you're probably just bi, or curious- it's completely natural?

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sounds like you're a fucked up little whore is what I think, make the world a better place and go fall in a hole you skank

no thanks, (: i'd rather not.
thank's for asking me a question though. :D

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does anyone else think that this girl is absolutly amazing or what?
=]

-SH4RK P0X

amazing boyfriend much? (: (: (:

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ok i have a question, i dont know if it'll make sense but like, when i'm talking to my boyfriend..and we get into a fight, even if he just like raises his voice, or gets mad at something, well..my chest will hurt for a min. then stop, what do you think this means?

I don't know.

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ive already asked for help and noone responded, here it is again.
im in my 40's/male. i was married for about 20 years with the most amazing women known to man.
i have cheated on her with about; 10 different girls, but only had 3 actuall girlfreinds. we have been seperated for about 1 year; im now with my girlfriend she caught me cheating on her with. she doesnt know about the others.
also my 2kids (wife) basically hate me and i never see one of them.
since no one resoponded back to me before im going to make this short.

basically, i still love my wife and im now cheating on my girlfriend with her friend. i want my wife back!!! p.s we are going through divorce. help!!

I am not going to be nice about this, you're a whore- if I was your wife I wouldn't want you back either, seriously. I would hate you too- stop being a asshole& be a man.

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okay well, i have a question. i'm 13 and my boyfriend is 17. and his parents aren't cool with me being young and all, but my parents are and everything. but yeah, do you think my mom could get in trouble in any way?

no, first off- he's not 18 yet-& when he does turn 18, if you're still dating then it's a pre-existing relationship& they can't do anything, like if you two have sex ect, the only way that you could get in trouble is if your mom had a problem, but since he's 18 he's a adult& his parents can't do anything, you're fine hun. (:

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What if your 13 and your boyfriend is 17, is that illegal for us to date???

no/

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So where should a girl keep her hands when making out? I dont know what to do. Help? Thanks

I put mine around his neck, on his face or on his chest. :)

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Mmmm, i think i'm in love. When I talk to my boyfriend..he makes me smile, he's the only one that can make me happy, he gives me butterflies..and when i'm around him..I feel like wow...ahh! Is this love? (:

I don't know, I have never been inlove.

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Hi! I wanted to ask a question. Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 4 months..and when i say "what are you doing?" he usually responds "not you." ...What do you think he means by this? Or is he just playing around. And he brings up i'm a good girl and not "bad" and he says he's "bad" and stuff. What do you think he means? I mean, i can be bad i guess.. but i don't know what kinda bad he means...what do you think? And i'm 14 years old.


Thanks alot

He doesn't seem like a good boyfriend, but has he been bugging you about sex, because with the whole "not you" thing it seems like hes talking about sex-& when he mentions hes bad I imagine he isn't talking about math, i'd probably just get rid of him.

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hey,thanks for opening this,i hope you girls can answer my question.

WHat is the most creative/romantic/unforgettable way to tell a girl you love her?
I mean i can go with the traditional telling her "i love you",but i want something different.

here are some of my suggestions
1)ask her is she believes in love at first sight,if she says yes then i will say i didin't believe it at first until i met you.
2)the sky is full of stars,the sea is full water,but my heart is full of you.
3)third question:do you girls think that sending a letter,speaking face to face,sending a message,sending an email,or just telling her through her friends will give the best impression? I mean,I think that messaging her is kind of sissy,and that sending her an eamil is also a pussy way of telling her,so would girls flip for a guy that sends her a letter or just tells her face to face about his feelings?or would you rather a guy tell you through the phone?

thanks a lot for reading,please answer my questions if the first two choices are good and what way you girls would prefer from the third question,and if you guys have any other creative suggestions please fell free to send it,i will rate good ones.

Here is what i would do & what i would love for somone to do with me. you know she likes you so qo to the mall with her & then hold her hand & in the air & scream i love this qirl. & then kiss her, i think that would be sweet [: qood luck.

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when is it the right time to have sex? like what age is it okay to lose your virginity? what's the avg age when people lse their virginity and would it be better to lose your virginity with another virgin or a more experienced person?

I believe 15 is a okay aqe. but if you feel more comfortable before then do it; but use a condom with spermicide.

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ok i know this is bad but my bf is 20 and im 13 but im vietnamese and i went over there and thats where i met him apparently age doesnt matter over there but now im back here and he lives over there which sucks but every1 says hes using me but he says he wants to marry me when im 18 which im not sure about yet since im just 13 but i dont know what to believe or what to do about the distance i can only see him once a year and i can only talk to him like once a month i dont know what to do should i keep going out w/ him? and i dont know if hes using me or not but i love him alot ahh im soo confused help!

do what your heart feels is riqht. if you dont see yourself with him in the future then dump him but if you look at yourself when your 18 &+ see your self with him stay :] follow your heart not your brain.

dont believe what other people are tellinq you. i like a 17 year old &+ im 13 almost 14 & hes qoinq to be 18 in march. Everyone tells me stuff about him but we have a ahmazinq realationship so i`ll just ask him about it.

keep qoinq stronq.

♥ tiffanie

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Yes i really like this girl and we talk a little but she has no idea how i feel. What should i do/say to her? What do girls like to hear? Also what do u say for the first time to make her like her?
thank you,
Damien

You need to be yourself &+ be confident but not overly confident. I personally like it when a quy reads, try to find out that little thinq she likes. just be yourself. i hope it works out :]




♥tiffanie

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What are some good ideas to do on a date.
For like tongiht, a normal friday night, kinda warm out side. But nothing too expensive?

put put &+ qet ice cream ; if you like battinq caqes ; a local baseball qame - sports are always qood.

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what can i say to my boyfrind if he being a real bitch to me

do you have to be a dick to make up for what you dont have !?

♥ tiffanie

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