alright, well today on january 3rd,2005, i called this kid named pat that i really really really like and hes 18, but he has a girlfriend and i asked if he wanted to chill and he said yeah and that he'll call me sometime cause he has my number..but i was really jealous when he said he was chillen with his girlfriend when i called him, and i really like him and i dont know if hes really gonna call me back. i think its a crock of shit but hes wicked nice and mature ..what do you think? is he gonna call me back or no? and do you think i should be jealous of that girlfriend?
SIgned - heartbroken&confused
First off Pat is 18 and HAS a girlfriend. This should hint to you that he has a life and might get pretty busy. I know when I'm caught up in alot I forget to call people. But on the good side, he has your number. Here are some things that you need to know:
1) Age is BIG - An 18 yr. old guy doesn't want to hang out with a 13-14 yr. old girl. That would be like he's hanging out with his sister. If you are near is age, You ahve a chance with him.
2) Looks are big too - If his girlfriend is ugly those are big bonus points for you (if you are pretty). But there are some guys that don;t care about looks.
3) There have to be sparks - If Pat is not interested in you, then probably he might not call. But if you are considered one of his buddies, he just might.
I don't think you should be jealous of his girlfiend because they come and go. And hey, if he doesn't call, but you still want to talk to him and hang out, call him! And if he's busy ask him when would he have some free time. I hope I helped.
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Two Questions: How can you tell if a guy likes you??
#2- Okay I like this boi Richard. He my friends talk to him alot and they say he says he likes me, but he's shy and he won't tell me, so and I am one of those pplz who are need to be reassured all the time. So it's like my friends are constantly asking him and I know that can push him away. But today my friend Taja asked him if he liked me (and I didn't tell her to) and he said no. And then she was like "Right.....look me in the face and say that" and he couldn't look at her and he didn't say anything....cause he was lying she said. So then I saw him after school today and he had the biggest smile on his face and he was waving at meeh. And also the same morning, he was watching everything I did when I wasn't looking....so how I can tell if he likes me....
I think he is totally digging you but is just shy and doesn't know when to tell you. Just give him some time and he will come through. Good luck with the 2 of you!!!
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Hello everyone who is reading this and thinking about giving me advice. All I want to know is, will I ever find love? I am so tired of being all alone, I thought that after a couple bad relationships and getting to college would change my love life. Well it hasn't, so I am asking for any advice anybody as on meeting guys and not trying to be shy around them. I just want to meet my soul mate and I need help on how to do this!
I guess you are going to have to go out with different guys to see which of them are your soul mates. But don't just pick any guy to date, they got to be ones that you are interested in. From there you will find out if he's totally boring you or if he's totally perfect for you. Don't just stand around and wish that you had a soul mate. Do something about it. Have a goal and achieve it. I really wish you luck in the process of doing so. I still haven't found mine, but I'm only 17. I am hoping to seek mine sometime when I'm attending college. I know I will find someone sooner or later because there has got be someone out there that is perfect for me. And I know that there is someone perfect for you too. So don't stress out because you will find your prince sooner or later.
~*~One day your prince will come. Mine just took a wrong turn, got lost, and is too stubborn to ask for directions~*~
GOOD LUCK!!!!
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im in love with this girl, i mean like IM IN LOVE.
but i dont know if she likes me. i have gone out places with her, like football games and shit. but i just dont know. shes really hot and its the first person ive felt this way about, i mean sure ive liked girls but not like this. i seem to never know when to kiss a girl or hold their hand or put my arm around them, its just sumthing i dont know, when do i do any of those things!?!?!
plz answer me ill rate a 5!
Aww....that's so cute. I wonder how old you are. The first that that you need to know is that she might not feel the same way about you. And if she doesn't then it is her loss because I bet that you are a great guy. If you want to know how she feels about you, ask her. Take her to a quite place like a park as it nears sunset. Make it special, I mean you are IN LOVE with her...hehe. Then sit her down on a bench and say this, "I don't know if you feel the same way, but I really like you." Don't say that you love her because you'll freak her out...LOL. And if she feel that same...AWW...then you can ask her out. And whenever you feel comfortable enough you will kiss her and hold her hand. Just don't rush it. GOOD LUCK!!
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Hi my name is Jess and there is this boy who is a grade younger than me and i guess i like him but everyone makes a big deal out of if someone goes out with someone in another grade oh and he likes me too so what should i do go out with him or not
I think that you should because you guys both like each other and that's all that counts. It shouldn't matter what others think as long as you two think it's the right thing. Trust your gut and your heart. They never lie!!
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okay so i have this friend whos basically like a sister and lets say her name is sally well i've known sally since she was born (shes 2 yrs younger than me) and our families are really close so therefore were really close. then i have this guy whos my best friend that i've known for 2 years. we've helped each other through everything and we know everything about each other. well recently we started to have feelings for each other. but my friend sally likes him a whole lot (but the thing is she hasnt met him b4! and when she talks to him online its like hey watsup nothing u same cool yeah...ya know? and idk why she likes him so much she just does! *shes 11*) n e way this guy knows sally likes him but him and i really would make the perfect couple but im just confused about #1 were best friends but idk u know ashlee simpsons song "peices of me" that TOTALLY describes our relationship!! n e way #2 sally wud be heartbroken and the worst thing of it is i know she has no chance with him (i know thats mean) but she hasnt kissed a boy and hes a lil more advanced cuz hes older ya know? and i dont want to tell her that and i was thinking of telling the guy we should just be friends but i like him so much and idk wat to do!! please help me!!! ps. i rate well!
^sorry its long but i need MAJOR help! thnks....
Okay...you really want him, but you don't want to hurt your friend's feelings. Well, why don't you tell the guy to talk to your friend and tell her that she's a really nice girl, but he just doesn't see it working out between them. That way YOU won't hurt HER feelings and in the same time, she know's that the boy doesn't feel the same way about your friend. Now there is a chance for you and this guy that you are just madly in love with...TEEHEE. I don't know. Think about it. Hoped it helped!!
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Brad: u goin to the BBQ
me: oo yeah u??
Brad: i might have to make an appearance
Me: how r u getting 2 the bbq
Brad: miself - most likely
Brad: i can ask madre if i can drive you .. if you would like- im not suppose to drive but she knows i cheat
Brad: just let me know if you need a ride
Me: yea so wuts been goin on in the life of brad lately...??
Brad: busy busy little booy
Brad: :-P
Me: eww put that tongue inside ur mouth
Brad: :-P
Brad: :-P
Brad: :-P
Me: nasty
Me: nasty
Brad: SHUt it
Flirtin or Talkin?? Does he like me as a friend or more than a friend??
He was flirting. He probably likes you more than a friend and might even want to ask you out but he's afraid of rejection. If you want him to ask you out, flirt with him back to show him that you like him more than a friend too. If he gets the message, he'll ask you. Good Luck! AWW!!
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im 13/f never made out with a guy and i feel so...unloved lol! is there sumthin wrong with me? where did i go wrong?!?
No girl...you are fine. Many girls go too fast and have their first kiss at 12 or 13, while some take it slow and have their first kiss at 15 or 16. I'm sure you'll get yours soon. Don't worry and most of all...don't rush it and make is special because it will be your first. Aww...Goood Luck and No Worries!!
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i ahve this problem i just moved to a new stae and met a rly cool guy and we were talkin but stuff happened and we stopped talkin and were jsut freinds but it seems like whenever i am round him i kiss him and stuff but i dont want a relatioship so should i keep doin this i feel like i am leadin him on or just stop...if you could tell em anything it would be great i am so comfused!!
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You don't want a relatonship so I suggest that you stop doing what you are doing. You guys can still be friends and kiss each other as long as he knows you guys are just friends because you don't want to lead him on and get him hurt. Hope it all works out!!
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hey im 16 and im a male, girls.....this one is for you, is a guy being to nice to you a good thing or a bad thing, nice to a point where hes a real gentleman, opening doors for you, wlaking you to the door step, paying for your ticket and maybe sometimes dinner, depends on the occasion, is that a turn on or turn off about a guy, i thought it was a turn on???
It is sooo a TURN ON. Whoever told you it was a turn off?!?! I wish I met a guy like you. So many guys that are 16 over here are such weirdos. Like they live in a different planet and are lost and don't know what to do with the rest of their lives. They treat girls like they are trash. It is so mean (that is probably how it is everywhere, but finding real gentlemen are hard to find). If you're with a girl and she doesn't appreciate you well then screw her. I'm sorry for my language, but I mean come on...who wouldn't want a real gentleman. You sound romantic too. You are one of a kind!! Stay that way. Trust me, girls want a guy like you (unless they are lost and live in a different planet...LOL).
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I never had my 1st kiss and I'm 15 now, and i want 2 get my 1st kiss..but i'm nurves,i'm afraid that i will suck at it and i have no idea what to do!Plz tell me how can i not be nurves and just relax.
Thnx,
Ana
Aww...my first was when I was 14. I was nervous and I didn't know what to do...lol...because it was my first. It was at night time and he picked a special spot. Aww...he was just so cute about it. Now, whenever I pass by that spot it reminds me of him and how much he hurt me. I mean he told me he liked me a lot and then 3 weeks later, he called me up and told me he hated me and never liked me at all. And then 2 months later he calls me and tells me the whole story behind it. I'm just telling you this because your first kiss should be memorable and not horrible as mine. Don't fall for a guy like the guy I fell for. Still, to this day he is a player. Like everytime one of my friend's or I see him, he is always with a different girl and he keeps calling me saying, "Your so cute. I want you this time...FOR REAL. NO JOKE" and its like NO, it's over. Please don't make the mistake that I did. Don't rush it either. You will be 16 soon...SWEET SIXTEEN. Maybe you'll get your first kiss then. Who knows?? Or 17? I don't think that you should worry much. You'll get it sometime. And don't be nervous. It is a piece of cake. Just follow him. You can also tell him it is your first if you want too. Just don't be nervous and don't worry.
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ive been goin out with this girl for almost a month now. everythings been goin great and we really like eachother but we havnt kissed yet. i want to but i dont know if its to fast or if she wants to. is this only my fault? help
Aww...it sounds like a cute relationship. I think that it should keep going the way it is going. You shouldn't rush it. Girls don't really like that. However, when you do kiss her try to make it romantic. She'll LOVE it. AWWWW!!
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i am so confused. i have written just about the same thing a lil bit ago, buts its not working. and i need help.
*i really like this kid, but he really likes my friend and just has a crush on me but he really likes this girl (my friend) and she only likes him because he likes her. but i truly like him and he doesn't even realize what shes doing to him. but theyve went out 3 times and shes broken up with him for another guy and yet he keeps going back and i wanna tell him what shes doing but its so obvious and i wanna tell her i like him but yet i don't!! WHAT DO I DO??
*so confused
Man you got it bad!! You really care about him and you don't want him to get hurt. Your friend only likes him because he likes her. Well, then she probably won't mind that you like him. Tell her the situation. If she really is a "friend" then she should understand and she would try to help you get him. You really care about him and I think that you should tell him. And if he doesn't feel the same way then it is his loss. I don't know what guys are looking for these days...seriously.
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im almost 15 and ive never kissed a guy..am i a loser?
No, you are not a loser. It is totally normal. You have nothing to worry about. When you're ready and the time comes, it will happen. Make it a memorable moment. Just don't rush it.
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How old are ppl when they have THE kiss? Like what's the most likely age?
It is really hard to tell. It mostly happens from the age of 12 to the age of 16, but if you are younger or older than these ages don't worry. It will come to you. Maybe you aren't ready or you are scared. Most of the time "the kiss" just happens. Just chill. When the time comes, it will happen. The worst thing that you can do is rush it. Make "the kiss" a memorable moment. Something that you can always look back on and say..."Yeah, I remember 'the kiss'." Hope this helps!
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Me n my b/f have been goin out for 3 weeeks now. N its almost a month so I was wonderin wha u think i should get him
I don't really know for sure, but definitely something that he will remember you by. You guys can hang out all day, or maybe you can get him a keychain (if he's a keychain fan) with a picture of you in it. I don't know because guys usually think of it, but its nice that girls think of it too. Don't give him a bear because my friend gave her b/f one and he just looked at it and was like, "What?", but that was him. Maybe your b/f is different. Just know that it is only a month so don't think too big. And remember, love is probably the most beautiful gift that you can ever give him and it might just be enough.
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i really like this guy...hes a year older then me..i kno he doesnt like me(at least i think he doesnt).. we flirt sometimes i guess... but how do i kno if he likes me or not? i dont wanna tell him i like him if he doesnt like me back!
Do you guys do more then just flirt?? Do you guys talks about personal stuff, his interests, your interests? Does he talk to you like he talks to his friends or as someone special? Does he consider you as a friend? Ask yourself these questions. If he talks to you about his feelings and his problems, and is worried about you and wants to be around you, then probably he considers you more then just a friend. But see guys are secretive about these things. They will give you hints but will never say it out loud becuase they are afraid of rejection. Us too. If you see something going on, go for him before it is too late and thinks that you are not into him. I hope for all the best!!
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i like this boy a lot i mean iv liked him for like 2 years how do i make him fall in love with me.? ps he kinda likes me but i want him to like me more
ps.... what questions are good to ask a 14 year old boy?
I think the best way is to be yourself. Then the guy will see the true you. Try to become friends first. That is a good way to find out stuff about each other. If you really like him then, hang out with him and then ask him out, or maybe he might ask you out first. You have liked him for 2 years now so just go for it but make sure you won't regret it later on.
Questions: Ask him questions about his hobby's like if he likes baseball ask him if hes watching a baseball game today or if he plays football be like do u have a football game today. Ask him questions about him to give him a hint that you are interested in him. And if he does not get it now or later on then hes not worth it.
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ok i put up questions about how a guy asked me out a while ago and i sed no but no regret it. and everyone sed go for it.but now the only question is when? its summer i dont see him that much. should i say to him over im or and away message cuz he has an away message up like 24/7. wut should i do? how should i ask him?
It's hard to keep a relationship if you hardly see the guy, but if you really like him and you think it is so worth going after then ask him out when you get to see him more. You wouldn't want to pop the question if you haven't seen him for a while and it is the first time after a while. Don't leave him an away message because he might not see it if he is away from him computer. I think that you should call him and hang out and then ask him out. Just be casual about it. Hope it works out!!!
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