Hello my Name is Beth and my dream is to become an advice columnist for a newspaper or magazine. So please ask me any question and i will answer no matter the how weird.
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Gender: Female
Location: Eureka
Age: 13
Yahoo: askbeth92@yahoo.com
Member Since: August 23, 2006
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heyy i have a long distance relationship with my bf and im 13 n hes 16....we talk on msn n thts about it....but i really like him n he really likes me..its just tht im not shure if i shud keep this relationship because it's long distance and they next time we see eachother will probably be in 3 years..so shud i keep this or move on? (link)
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my advice to you is to just tell him you want to be friends.. because since your only 13 i don't think your rady for a long distance relationship it's just to hard on you your school work... and on him... and i know its hard to understand but if you keep this relationship... and you have to wait three years just to see him again... then he's holding you back. you want somebody who will... see you everday... call you when they didn't see you... somebody close... well i stilll think you should be friends with him but a real relationship might be too dificult...
well i hope i helped...
good luck,
Ask_Beth
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Ok well, here is the deal... I started talking to this girl online, we talked every day, and night, we eventually became liking eachother, so after a few weeks of joking around, I decided to ask if it could be 'for real' as a relationship, She is 14, and I am 24. I know it's a bit of a age different, and no, I am not a pedophile, I never usually like people younger than me, just it's.. She acts more mature and it's really easy to talk to her, and listen to her. We have really great conversations, but we never met, but then one day, we decided to meet, and she brought a few friends with her... the whole time she avoided me, yeah I was shy also, but I would've talked to her if she wasn't avoiding me, cause I could tell she didn't want to be there with me, I mean, she did, but she didn't... and I know she's had past relationship problems, but I guess, maybe I was just another problem in a relationship, and I really fell in love with her, before we even met and she means the world to me, I just don't know what to think, she only lets me talk to her, if I ask her on this, but she speaks as if she don't know me, and I don't know what to think, any advice? P.S. She talks to me still, but don't tell me her true feelings, and acts like nothing happened, but she don't talk as much or act the same. (link)
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okay.. well the big issue in everone elses advice is that 10 years of age differance considers you a pedophile and i'm not goin to lie to you it is a bit much... but then again age is only a number.. you say that when you talk to her online she sounds more mature than her own age... but when you met her she completely ignored you .. now to me thats not very mature... so my advice to you is to just be friends with her.. after all she is still a minor.. and she is just now maturing into womanhood.. so keep your options open go to a single's night.. meet a woman over 18. but keep writing to her but don't give her the idea you want relationship with her because a 24 year old talking about a relationship to a 14 year old could scare her away so stick with just being friends ... well i hope i helped
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Ask_Beth
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hey...well my problem is that i dont know whether i should break up with my boyfriend. we've been dating for a year now and i do love him..but the thing is that we're only in high school and i think i'll regret it if i dont go to dances and stuff with just my friends and not have to worry about a guy. but hes so sweet and we're perfect for each other. idk wut to do!!! (link)
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o.k my opinion is that you shouldn't break up with him just to go to dances with friends... you don't have to bring your boyfriend to all the dances i'm sure he'll understand.. just make plans with the girls and if he asks you to go then just say i've already made plans with my friends.. but we could hang out later..and i'm a highschool guy has something to do for a couple of hours.. lol...
goodluck,
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Ask_Beth
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I'm 16 years old and one of my very good friends recently asked me out. I have known him for a year and the whole time, he had been going out with another girl. He and his old girlfriend had sex often and I'm still a virgin. He says that he won't pressure me into anything..do you think he'll expect me to have sex with him like he did her? (link)
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well, if your not sure you better not chance it.. and if he did pressure you into doing it and you didn't use protection then you could get preagnant. and a teenage pregnancey isn't the best thing on your agenda... so i would not chance it... because sex at 16 is not a good idea..
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good luck,
Ask_Beth
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I'm 17 almost 18 and I fell in love with the perfect guy we've been dating a couple months now and his family loves me and my family loves him. We have both hinted at marriage and we both are going in the same direction. He's 21 and I met him through friends. But i'm scared that I'm going to get my heart broken. He's the first guy thats ever been nice to me in a relationship and didnt expect things from me. I guess I'm just confused on how to take all this in. We both act almost as if we are almost ready, but I'm getting impatent waiting for him to pop the question. What can I do to hint that i think we should take the next step or should I wait for him to do it?
love,
~Christina~ (link)
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well... my advice to you is to WAIT! i don't think that a couple months is what it takes to get married.. if you rush then it might not turn out what you expected and could lead to a DIVORCE... i think you should wait a year or two... considering your only 18 and you have only know him for a couple months.. but if you say that he's a sweetheart then i don't think you have anything to worry about.. but like i said you should definately wait... this will prevent heartbreak!
good luck,
Ask_Beth
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