Hi! My name is Sidney; Im here to answer every question you need to have answered(: I will get every detail down; and be straight up. So, if you need help or have questions i would love to help you; so what are you waiting for!
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Gender: Female
Location: California
Occupation: school;
Age: 18
Member Since: August 10, 2009
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what if your boyfriend stops calling like he use to when you first started out and hes moody and standoffish and bites your hrad off all the time and he acts like he doesnt want to talk to you or be arond you and he doesnt want you to touch him sometimes an d you think hes cheating because he comes with excuses to not want to be around you or do anything togehter (link)
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He might be; just start asking where he is goinn or just start askin questionss. and justt see whats really up(:
but then again you should just have a serious talk to him and see whats goin down; like.. maybe he just wants a break? asking questions never hurts?(:
goodluck
-sidney
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21/f. He's 24/m. We've have been involved for four years. REALLY long story short, it's been a rough road for us. He used to be emotionally abusive, but he made a conscious decision to change. I agreed to let the past go, and forgive him. It was great for a long time, and despite his family hating me, we were happy.
Recently, I got a job in my field. Instead of being happy for me when I told him about the pay, he said, "That's it? You should turn it down."
Now when I try to tell him funny stories about work, he says "sweet" with no inflection, and changes the subject. He makes a point of letting me know I'm "not funny" when I try to joke around, or he thinks I'm serious when I'm not. He suddenly doesn't understand me anymore.
It's become increasingly obvious to me that he doesn't care. About anything, including himself. He's studying for the MCAT, and it's all he CLAIMS he ever does. I have absolutely no objection to him studying, and I'd be happy he was doing it if it was really what he wanted. Instead, he's doing it to appease his parents, and I hate him for it. He doesn't have the balls to stand up to them and say he doesn't want to do it. Of course, he doesn't know what he wants to do anyway.
I've lost respect for him, I'm becoming less attracted to him. He's starting to say little nasty things to me, and I just don't want to put up with it.
I think he just doesn't belong in my life anymore...but how do I tell him? In person, I know, but I have to get him to stop "studying" long enough for me to say something. How do I do THAT when I never see him?
Should I give him a chance to redeem himself? (link)
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I agree; it does sound like he hasnt changed at all.
Its hard to let someone go that you have been with for so long and gone through so much with;
but theres a point where you relize that you need to do whats best for you. And i believe that if you follow this road that youve been taking for four years; its going to lead you to a dead end.
You need to let him go and you need to go and do your thing. You need a better man that will treat you with the respect that you really do deserve.
Just tell him everything thats been going on. But sit him down. And talk to him about. and say lets take a break for a little while. and then when we both think one another has changed; we will talk.(:
good luck.
-sidney
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It's soo annoying. This guy who I'm friends wit, on friday, said he'd text me on Sunday. So, I was waiting for a text..and got nothing. I hate always having to text first. Why do guys do that!?!?! (link)
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honestly; u dont wanna sound too desperate hun;
just wait until he says somthing so that it doesnt sound like u needed him to say somthing.
let me point out that this isnt easy at all haha.
its hard not to say anything but just try(:
goodluck.
-sidney
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20/f So...I am absolutely crazy about my best friend.
we have been best friends for about 6 years and i have had feelings for him off and on throughout that entire time. But right now he has a gf. she is super controlling and hates me cuz we are so close (like, we finish each others sentences and it drives her nuts). he says he wants to dump her, but then chickens out.
I am so crazy about this guy...and even though he has a gf, i think he cares about me too. I want to be with him....what do i do? (link)
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I had the exact same prolem...
try to take a little step out of the friend zone? just let him see what hes missing out on. Make him see how bad his girlfriend is. start flirting; and when things are chill tell him u like him. i would give anything to go back in time and do that=/
good luck.
-sidney
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my boyfriend sent me a text saying, "btw really random but you have the sofest lipes ever created"
... hahaa so is that good ? (link)
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Thats very good(:
That prolly means he wants more. lol
-sidney
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