Q: there is this boy who i flirt with a lot and whenever we hang out with a group of friends that group always talks about how we should go out which makes things really awkward and they also dare us to kiss each other but i don't want to do that yet.

how can i handle being put in that situation?

Q: Hey!, I'm Ashley. I'm 16.
i've known my this boy Henry for almost three years. He is friends with some of my best guy friends. We flirted on and off for about two years but never went out because we hardly saw each other. This past summer Henry started hanging out with my neighbor and best friend Ryan who i've known my entire life. This put him closer and we saw each other more and more. Then he asked me out and we were dating for two and a half months. we recently took a break but now we both want to get back together but Ryan now likes me as more than a friend and is jealous of Henry. When ever he can he tries to separate us, and tells me lies about Henry. He advises me not to take him back. I only see Ryan as a friend so I don't have feelings for him but I don't want to lose him either. I feel that he will get very angry is Henry and I start up again as a couple. I don't know what to do.. advice please? :)

thanks so much-
Ashley

Q: 19/f he is 19/m
I just broke up with this wonderful guy after 2 years and 4 months of dating. and I don't know how to get over this.
He was my first true love (as corny as that sounds) and we had all these plans to do together, to be together.
But he and I had a roller coaster relationship.
He is bipolar and schizophrenic, and has a whole boatload of other mental problems (but won't take his medication), and I took care of him when he had all his court stuff, and when he was in the hospital for 2 1/2 months.
I was the one who bent over backwards to make his life easier and so he would be happy.
But he wanted so much to live his life the way he wanted.
But that meant promiscuous sex, and drugs and addictions, and I told him I can't be around for that.
I can't do that anymore, because when is he going to be around to take care of me?
He told me the only time he's been happy the past few months when we have sex, and that just totally blew my mind.
I thought he was happy with me and he told me he wasn't because he wants someone that is more along his lines of thinking.
But I really do love him so much and it hurts so badly.
so please please help me get over him.
Because it hurts too much.

Q: Alright so I know most of the questions on this website are about my topic, but I really like this guy, he's in one of my classes and we don't really talk that much but he's really funny and he makes me laugh, and he smiles at me when I'm laughing at him. The thing is, homecoming is next week and I really want him to ask me, I don't want to ask him because I just don't like asking guys, it's just my personality. So the thing is, how can I get him to ask me? I'm really shy around guys, I'm fine with talking to them and stuff as 'friends' but it's really hard for me to just approach them and be like "hey i like you" any advice? thanks so much.

14 (almost 15)/ f

Q: He said he is just as worried as i am and wants me to do everything i can to make sure that i am okay. I do not want to and can not get pregnant right now, so i made sure i told him that things like this cant happen and that we need to be extra careful. I am thinking about going on the pill.

Q: Okay thanks for the help, one last thing, Do you think the possibilities of me being pregnant are high from this incident?

Q: He does know, we've been talking about it a lot. So it's not too soon to take a pregnancy test?

Q: Two days ago my boyfriend and i had sex. Him being the idiot he is sometimes :] put the condom on inside out and then fixed it. Everything seemed to be okay until later on i realized the condom fell off and was still inside me. Luckily i realized it right away and he backed away and got the condom out...(it was weird and really funny at the same time) ive been worrying so much that i may be pregnant though. Sometimes i worry so much that i start feeling like im going to throw up. Am i just over reacting? Is it possible to get pregnancy signs only two days after sex? i need answerrrss fasstt!!!

Q: Okay, I just started goin to a new school and this is my first year. Well anyway my bestfriends also went to the school with me and so does his girlfriend=[ Then im just realizing how much I like him,but I don't want to tell him I like him because it might ruin of friendship.I also want to tell him though but i think he might just think of us as friends though and nothin more but after all of this my friends says he likes me but I dont no what to do..Should I tell him or not? And how could I realy find out if he likes me?

Q: My boyfriend was hanging out with this girl named Natalie. Natalie told me that he got a boner while they were together. Does that mean he is turned on by her and not by me. I don't know what to think.

help.

Q: 14/f

Recently I've got together with one of my best boy mates, we knew we liked each other for a couple weeks, then we talked for about half an hour before deciding together to be a couple.

But we don't really act like it cause both of us are really shy...

And there's always other people around and I'm really self-conscious about it.

I mean, if it's just me and him I'm much more comfortable. But I feel awkward when other people are there.

So yeah, what should I do cause we're both shy and I don't it to not go anywhere?

xxx

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