Member Since: September 6, 2007 Answers: 2 Last Update: September 6, 2007 Visitors: 523
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so, normally i hate these questions, but i need some flirting tips.
of course, this guy i like who's said he likes me but just wont really make a move. we flirt some already, but i want to be able to hook him like a fish and just keep him interested. =] any tips? (link)
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**Flash him a smile
**Playfully push him/touch him
**Play with his hat (if he has one)
** Call to him "heeey *hisname*" sexily
** Blow him an old fashioned kiss
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Now I know that I have nobody to blame but myself, but I have wrecked nearly every close friendship I have had in my life because I end up hooking up with my friends' boyfriends behind their back. Most of the time there is drinking involved, but I don't think that is the problem. I think the desire to do it is already in me before the drinks and it just ends up being easier to do once I am drunk. I do not know why I do this. I know that I just want to feel wanted and I like the attention that I get from men, I guess it is an ego thing. I really love my friends and don't want to hurt them but I can't seem to break this cycle. I don't want to have to avoid ever hanging out with a friend when their boyfriend is around, I need to find a way to just stop being such a horrible person. What can I do? Why do I keep ending up in this same situation when I conciously know that I don't want to do these things? (link)
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Be aware of whats happining. next time a your friends boyfriend asks to hook-up, ask yourself, whos more important? Your friend or her man?
hopefully you choose your friend and if you do, simply ask if your friend comes along or no, beacuse you dont want to ruin your friendship with your friend. But if you continue to do this you wont have very many friends left. Not being harsh but im being honest. So whos more important? Eaisly just turn the guy down.
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