I made it down a long hard path, to gget where I am today. I came from a broken home and now I'm starting a really good with my new husband on a house boat. I'm loving life right now but I didnt always, life used to be really tough for me, I was drug user, I wasn't a nice person. But now I am making a differece in the world, at least mine. But thats why I'm here I want ot help people, I wish that I had my now to talk to when I was back there lost in the abyss of being a teenager. But now I'm very much in love, extreamly happy, and I have wuite a writting career.
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Location: Seattle
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Age: 20
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I'm a bit older than the people that usually answer questions on this sight. I'm 28 and my girlfriend will be 27 in about a week.
We have been dating for about 7 months when I was in medical school in Cincinnati. I had to move to Rhode Island to start my residency, but she stayed in Cincinnati. I love her and I miss her terribly.
It gets difficult because my family is from a very traditional Indian family (Asian Indian), who do not believe in cross culture dating (or anything fo the sort). My girlfriend is caucasian. I kept the relationship secret for a while, but then I told my parents. My vacation is comign up and I want to spend it with her, but now my mum says that if I go to see her- she will not let me see my family anymore. I would be disowned. I love my family, but I love my girlfriend, and this is really tearing me up inside.
I don't know what to do, personally I wish I coudl just leave everything and everyone behind, but this is really affecting everything- my heart, mind, and soul.
What do you think that I should do? (link)
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You are in America! Here, as a general rule, we live our lives and don't let others live them for us. I'm sorry that your mother is taking such a hard stance, but if she loves you (like I'm sure she does) she will eventually come to the realization that you doing what is best FOR YOU is all she really wants. If you love your girlfiend, then treasure her and don't let your family sway you. In the end, you are the one who will hurt otherwise. Take a stand for the woman you love!
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so im a sophmore girl and all be 16 soon all my friends have gone pretty far with a boy and well me, i havnt. when my friends ask me how far i have gone im kind of ashamed of the truth so i exagerate the truth a little, well.......a lot!so they all think im something im not. what should i do, i'll sound like an idiot if im just like "just kidding i havnt gone that far". so a little help please?
and i have had the chance to go further but im scared of not doing something right or if the boy thinks im dumb or if i do something tsupid so yeah (link)
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Well, I'm going to start by saying that you are only sixteen, sex isn't something to rush into. A lot of the time teens your age like to brag about things they haven't done to look like they are cool and experienced in the eyes of their peers. Don't let that affect your decisions sexually.
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ok, there is this guy who definitly likes me ad i think i like him too. i have a feeling he might ask me out and i want to say yes but i know that people are going to wonder what i see in him and probably laugh and make fun of me. he's a great kid and really nice and he listens to me but he's not very attractive. what can i say to make people not bother me if we go out? (link)
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Fist the only thing that should matter if you find him attractive, it doesn't matter what other people think. Even if they are your friends. Judments on people do come often in this world but if I listened to my friends I wouldn't be happily married. The thing is someone is always going to have something to say and about something...that's just life. If you would really be happy with this guy, then laughs and comments shouldn't bother you. Being true to yourself is what matters. So all you should focus is what you want and not care about what other peple think.
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I love my bf to death and everything..
But for some reason we've been having problems.
I've been crying so much over him for little things.
Like lately it's like he doesn't care about things anymore or something or he's lost interest in me..
He said I need to learn to respect and trust him.
I mean it's hard because he's lyed to me a couple of times.
It seems like he doesn't feel the same way about me anymore and it makes me cry.
I never used to do that before.
I feel like he used to be obsessed with me and I loved that and now he just doesn't care it seems like..
We've been together for almost 5 months now.
I really really don't want that to end because I love him and I know he really loves me.
What should I do?!
Please help me. (link)
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Find strength with in yourself, get into your own thing. Yo may love him now, or for awhile. But the majority, of guys aren't constent... I would know. HE's lied before? I would think about that one. My father once said to me once a lair always liar. It is possible that his feeling changed and he doesn't know hwo to feel you. If that's the case you'll move past. I have been in a few really tough relationships that ended. And it was an emotional roller coster before hand. But in the ong run of my life everything turned out great. Just because he may your first love doesn't mean he'll be your last.
Stay strong, stay wise, and be true to yourself, because in the scope of life that's all you can do.
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how can i sharpen up my flirting skills??...how can i flirt more but not look desprete??..wat are some flirting tips??
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I dont really think of it as flirting skills. Focus on talking as yourself to the guy your interested in. Don't put on a front, that could and probably will end up messy. It's no good for you, to not be true to self. Tht is not worth any guys.
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I'm grounded for about 2 weeks about I'm off grounding April 4th.
That's when I'm gonna hang out with my bf.
But instead of him talking to me all day and comforting me while I can't do anything since I'm grounded..
He goes out and hangs out with his friends and does other stuff and talks to me on the phone a little.
He has his fun while I'm grounded and lonely and can't hang out with anyone.
I've been talking to my friends on the computer pretty much all day and talked to him a little because he was 'busy'.
Wouldn't it be right for him to comfort me and talk to me all day because I'm grounded??!
I don't get it..
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While first off all you should still want him to have fun, just because you have to stay inside doesn't mean he has to. However I completely have been in similar situation when I was younger, it still doesn't feel good. But just because he's doing stuff while your grounded doe not not mean he doesn't care about you. I would tell him how you feel in CALM manner. Go by the logic,
"it's all good. "
Good luck and try not to get too bored.
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