Gollie Bob. I am 17 year old high school student. I have been through a lot of wacked out things, so if you belive that no one is in the same postion as you just remember someone out there probably is and just ask for help. I have lived through two parents who were drugies and been removed from them all before I was in high school. I'm not even going to mention what happened before I was 'removed'. I have been known to give out good advice so ask me and I would be honored to answer your quesion to the highest respect, honor and the best of my ability. ~*Halie
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Okay well there is this guy and I like him ALOT and I mean we talk all the time but everytime we talk he asks me to do stuff with him and I say yes but when it comes to the point im not ready and if i say no im a total loser and i like him but i think he is using me
*Please help!* (link)
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If you think your not ready then your not ready. Don't let a guy pressure you into doing something your not ready for because if you do it you will regret it later. Just simply tell him that your not going to do it because you are so much better than that! You won't be a loser if you don't do it.
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Thank you. The helped a bit. I should mentoing though that my friend and I are leaving for Bora Bora on March 30. We will be going through Latin America and leave from Chile (or there abouts) to Bora Bora in a few years. In that time we will be working for the money to go and open our Tiki bar. Do I love this girl? I have no idea. I am drawn to her very strongly, and she has asked the friend that introduced us when I was coming over again so she could see me. I would have no problem flying her out to Bora Bora once there and comfortably settled in. Now, here is my question. What would you do given this situation? Please keep in mind you do know me, and very well at that. (link)
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I would ask her out while im still around and then if you really like her bring her down and have fun with her. It seems that she really likes you so go for it.
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I have an interesting problem. My friend and I are planning on going to Bora Bora to start a Tiki bar. I'm all for it but I have recently found a girl that I'm interested in getting to know better and eventually start dateing her. I would absolutely love to live the rest of my life on Bora Bora, but her sudden showing up in my outer circle of friends has me wanting to stay. What should I do?
~Confused in Boulder (link)
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Dear Confused in Boulder,
This sure is a tough one. First you got to ask yourself "is this girl worth giving up everything for?". Then picture yourself down the road. Where do you want to be with this relationship. Will it not be a fling? Then there is the question can Bora Bora wait a while? It sounds like you really like this girl. Bora Bora is a big jump from Boulder also. Think how your life will be like there if you go. Now weigh your options. Does one hold more of your heart than the other? If it was me I would ask this person out, hold off on this tiki bar idea (tell your friend your still in for it but it will just take longer. Something like that) and in a month or so see where your relationship is and then ask those question I mentioned earlier again. Then when the time comes head to bora bora or keep your feet here with this girl you love. Good Luck. ~*Halie
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I'm a 15 yr old guy and my girlfriend and i were "dumped" by our former bf/gf and now they are together.....she is having a hard time getting over her ex and it's feeling pretty crowded in this relationship to me. Do you think it's normal for her to be really concerned with his pro and his away messages and who he's seeing and what he's sayin to his new gf? How can I help her get over him and concentrate on US?
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Show how much you care for her. Right her little notes. Let her know you care. Talk to her about how you feel. try to spend time with her (without crowding other people out). I think it's great that you care for her so much and you want you two to work. Tell her that and she will know how much you care. Trust me. ~*Halie
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