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Bora Bora or new girlfriend?
I have an interesting problem. My friend and I are planning on going to Bora Bora to start a Tiki bar. I'm all for it but I have recently found a girl that I'm interested in getting to know better and eventually start dateing her. I would absolutely love to live the rest of my life on Bora Bora, but her sudden showing up in my outer circle of friends has me wanting to stay. What should I do?
~Confused in Boulder
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Dear Confused in Boulder,
This sure is a tough one. First you got to ask yourself "is this girl worth giving up everything for?". Then picture yourself down the road. Where do you want to be with this relationship. Will it not be a fling? Then there is the question can Bora Bora wait a while? It sounds like you really like this girl. Bora Bora is a big jump from Boulder also. Think how your life will be like there if you go. Now weigh your options. Does one hold more of your heart than the other? If it was me I would ask this person out, hold off on this tiki bar idea (tell your friend your still in for it but it will just take longer. Something like that) and in a month or so see where your relationship is and then ask those question I mentioned earlier again. Then when the time comes head to bora bora or keep your feet here with this girl you love. Good Luck. ~*Halie
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