Im only a kid.. but im really good at helping people and helping them solve their problems. I sort of want to be a social worker and help people with their problems and concerns.. You guys can ask me anyting you need to! I will be here and answer all! Thanks
Location: tx
Age: 14
AIM: childgonewild729
Member Since: February 28, 2005
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Rachel,
I have this friend that is so hilarious! But when we are around other people she like talks about gross things and guys. Im not into that kinda stuff yet. I could never emagion her doing the things she talks about. I like her beter the way she is around me. I can not tell if she is lying to get attention or not. Please give me some advice on what i should do.
Sincerely, Hasn't Machured (link)
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Well hasn't matured...
I think that your friend is trying to get attention. I think that you should talk to her alone and ask her.. Well, sometimes it goes right and then sometimes it doesn't. To me, in my opinion it sounds like your friend hasnt matured yet. When I was in 6th grade, I used to make jokes like that. Now i'm in 8th grade. Ok, I think that you should confront her and tell her that you like her the way she is with you alone. She should be able to understand that. I'm not saying that your friend is 2 faced but everyone has a different side to them selves. Its not a bad thing b/c everyone is pretty much like that.. I am very different in front of some people but not all the time. All the time is not a good thing necessary. And shes your friend so she should be able to listen to you and respect that you don't like that! And tell her that your not into that kinda stuff yet and she should be able to understand. Like to me i still think that subject is kinda funny and I do talk about it and make jokes with my friends. But i used to do it alot and i have matured a little. So i hope i helped you and write back and tell me how things are going...
~rachel~
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Hi. This is "confused" again.
The guy I am talking about is very flirtatous. He seems to do what he does to me, to a lot of girls in our class. This is what he does to me: in science lab, he always sat behind me so he could lean against my back. he seems to stare at me in class (or i think its me), he makes me laugh because he thinks its funny how much i laugh and when i do he laughs at me laughing, he is always like "gosh, your so stupid" then laughs at me when i do stupid things and he rubbed my arm yesterday when i told him i didnt feel well.
by this, it seems like he is flirting but i dont know if he likes me because my friend tells me he flirts with everyone. the same ? i dont know.
what do you think? (link)
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Well "confused"...
Well not to try to rain on your parade, but then he may not be flirting. I'm not sure. Mabye he's a "player" or something and likes everyone but I doubt that. Well.. from every example that you have given me it really sounds like he's flirting. Then again he might just be that way and flirt with everyone mabye not knowing that he does it. Well, I know that it's 1st grade stuff, but when a guy is mean to you, usually it means that he likes you. Like one time, I had this guy say to me, "Ugh ur so stupid..Use your common sense." and then a few days later he asked me out! So you never know what the situation is.. Well I still can't tell if he likes you or not but keep writing back to me and I will answer your questions and help you figure it out! Thanks and I hope I helped you a little better.
~rachel~
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Hi, Rachel.
How do you know if someone likes you or you like them?I have thought I have liked a lot of guys but when they ask me out I like freak out and say no. but when i say yes, i can only seem to talk to them about like sex and stuff. There is also this guy at school who I think I like and he like seems to flirt, but I'm not sure. So my questions are: how do you know when you like someone, how do you know when someone likes you, and how can you tell if someone is flirting.
Signed:
confused (link)
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Well confused...
I think that when you like someone you can tell by wanting to be around them more, talking to them more, flirting with them more..I tell if someone likes me by getting pretty much the same signs back. Like if this guy talks to u alot and if he flirts with you and also hangs with you, I think those are signs of likeing someone or them liking you. I tell if someone is flirting because they like keep takling to you non-stop or like if they say eww.... i hate you.. like they treat you differently. Also if they pick on you like differently away from everyone. Sometimes, if they joke around with you or mess with you or even if they hang on you. There are lots of ways to tell if its flirting or not.
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well i was dating this guy and i dont thik uve ever liked anyone so much! he ended up liking me but was also cheeting on me, too. he was cheating on me with the girl i just happen to hate the most. he found out at her house. How could that happen? and then earlier before that he ended up breaking up with me but said he still liked me. he sais we never talked. he said he still wanted us to be togther but just not calling it going out so we wouldnt be intimidated to talk to eachother. but it was christmas break and he stopped liking me as much. i still like him and we broke up over 3 months ago and i cant get over him. what should i do?
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well....
I'm really sorry that he was cheating you...I don't think that he should of done that. It's totally wrong. This girl is like a total beep... and she shouldn't have done that. A guy like that, is like so imature.. Your better than him and don't go out with someone who would do something like that to u! A guy should treat you with respect and he should also be honest. But if you want a relationship then you kind of do have to talk to eachother. I don't see a point in going out with him if he wants to call it not going out...I think that you should talk to him and that if you really like him that you shouldn't feel uncomfortable around him..Thats the massage that i'm getting..I'm thinking that yall feel uncomfortable around eachother and I don't think yall should be...Mabye yalls relationship just wasn't meant to be..well to get over him I think that you should take your mind off of him I think that you should take an intrest in someone else or for some people it works if they don't even think about boys!I hope I helped you! write back and tell me how everything went!
~rachel~
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Please Please i keep using the same move on my boyfriend. Last time i tried the twistameter i got pregnant. My boyfriend says if i dont get new material than he will leave me. I can not help but hump him all day!!!!!!!!!!! Please send a picture of the move so i can practice it in bed tonight. Love Sex Adic (link)
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well... halie...
It's ok.. we all know you wrote this halie.. since you were on the phone when you wrote this to me..Now halie don't do this.. I'm trying to help people with realy problems and situations..But if your really having a problem then im sorry..For the people with real problems then you should talk to them about ur sex life.. He should respect you and everything that your for. He should respect that its hard for you to come up with new material... Well just talk to ur partner about the problems. I honestly don't think that any one of the partners should have a problem with the other partner. If they really like you and enjoy the company than they should respect what your for and what you want to do!
~rachel~
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Ok... so i have this friend. Not alot of people like her at all. i dont no what to do.! I think that she is nice and stuff and i like her, but not alot of people like her! I really dont no wat to do with this situation..man! im so so so confused. Should i contuiong to be friends with her or should i end things? She gets on my nerves sometimes and i dont no what to say or to do! PLEASE HELP ME!!!
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Well confused...
I think that this friend seems a little uptight.. i don't think that they should get on your nerves.. I think that means that they aren't giving you enough space and time with other people.. I'm sorry to hear that alot of people don't like this person. If they are annoying you that much and making your like suck then I don't think that you should be friends with them. I don't think they are giving you time alone away from them.. Have you tried asking them? Well i think you shold take a break from yalls relationship and give it a couple days or weeks or however long it takes for u not to be annoyed with them..(like 100%)until you feel comfortable with them and you are able to talk to them.. I hope everything works out with you!
~rachel~
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I'm have ing some trouble. There are some kids in my class that i like to hang out with, but i dont know if they want me there. Some of the things they talk about are sortof............. childish. I'm really confused. Can you help?
~Markus (link)
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Well markus....
The kids that you like to hang out... do u tend to annoy them? well i think that you should try to get to know them a little bit better adn dont try to act cool and impress them.. I think that you should just be yourself and they should like you for who you are
~rachel~
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Ok hello i have a question. My love life sux and im the shy guy who doesnt want the person im with to feel uncomfortable. Like there is this grl i like but i dont know if my friends will like her. What should i do but the other thing is i dont know if she likes me bak. Plz help
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I think that your friends should be very proud of you, happy for you, and even support you. If they are like your close friends, best friends, or even friends that understand you. I think that your should hang with her, talk to her, set some time aside for her, or even try to sit with her at lunch. I think that if you truly like this girl that you talk about, then everything will go fine. Now you tell me that your a shy guy. If you don't want to make her feel uncomfortable then you should try not to ask any uncomfortable questions. (even questions that you think are uncomfortable) If you follow through with that then everything should go fine. Another thing you could do is try to get to know her better like invite her to a movie or go to the mall or something. Everything should go fine! I'm sure that your close friends will support you and be happy for you and if they're not then their just jelous or not good enough for you.. I hope everything goes well and write back and tell me how everything goes.. Thanks and I hoped I helped you and your situation...
Rachel~
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