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Hi i'm a sophomore and my boyfriend is also a sophomore and we've been dating for a year and a half. Only juniors and seniors are allowed to go to prom, but they can take freshman or sophomores as dates. This girl who is my friend and is also my boyfriends friend asked him to go to prom with her, but he didn't know what to say. So he asked me if he should or not. And I dont really want him to go with her because she always flirts with him. And I just don't feel comfortable with him going with her. So I guess my question is... Is it okay to tell him that I don't want him to go or is that too controlling? Because i don't want to be a mean girlfriend who won't let her boyfriend do anything, but I just feel bad if I don't let him go. Thanks!

sit down and talk to him and let him no that you dont feel comfortable with him going out to a prom with another girl. tell him you dont want to controll him or seem mean its just you have a bad feeling about it and dont want anything to happen. And see what he says mayb he will understand were you are comming from.

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My ex boyfriend is coming back to my neighborhood this summer and all i can think about is whats gonna happen.But also i like someone in my school and my friends say he like me back but whenever it's me and him or getting ready to be just me and him i always get scared and run or stop talking cause i don't wanna get hurt again.so how can i get my ex out of my head and the guts to handle my crush?

give this new guy in your school a chance but before you do explain to him that you have been hurt before and dont want it to happen again. And when you ex comes back just let him no its over between you two i mean you can never get over you first love it is very hard and it will take some time but you just have to work at it and give some other guy a chance. i've done it.. i was hurt terribly by my ex... then he decided to start coming back around and i just told him hey look you hurt me once before and im not dealing with you anymore.. and i gave that next guy a chance and now we are happily living together and it has been 3 years we have been together.. so give him a chance..

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about a month ago me and my ex started flirting and I started to really like him too, and then he got a new girlfriend but he still liked me a litle. Today I was with my best friend and he called me and said "...i dont see any connection your bing to obbsessive..." I was so sad. What can i do to make him believe im not obbsessive and just care about him and love him a lot?

thanks again for reading... =/

call him.. and tell him from the first time you guys dated you cared about him and loved him.. and that a person really never gets over true love.. and that you are not obsessed with him. you just care alot about him. And if you doesnt reply and he keeps calling you to be obsessed then just ignore it .. go on with your life.. i no this becauase i have been through the exact thing a long time ago when i was about 14 or 15.. i no it can be hard but you just need to stick it out...

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good god, where do i begin. okay well first off, well call him bob. me and bob were really good friends, then we went off to different schools. a few months ago i use to like him and i'm pretty sure he liked me. but now i miss it, and i want to win him back. but how can i do that? we go to different schools, and when i see him in his school we are with different people. i'll say hi, but thats about it. I really liked him, i'm going to be at his school next year, but this summer i wanna win his heart. there are always girls going after him, but i really like him, and he did like me. i wanna get that back. any help?

I would call him up and tell him to come over or meet somewere and let him no you really need to talk to him. Dont be afraid to tell him how you feel. You need to sit down and let him no how much you feel for him and that you love him. Dont be scared just do it. Mayb when he hears how you feel he might come out of the closet and let you no how he is feeling. Just give it time and a chance.

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Okay so yes i'm 14 and people say your to young to be in love. But I know I am. Me and my friend Nathan have liked each other for the longest time...over a year! But I dont live by him anymore. He tells me that he loves me and that he cares for me and no matter what he loves me...but he has a g.f and he said his name on myspace (I think I found my love) was about me..but i told him i didnt beleive him because he has a g/f and unless he put my name there i wouldnt know or not. Then I saw his away message on aim today saying that he was talking to his LOVE amber...his g.f and i just sat there and in my head said (I knew he didnt mean it) I dont think he ever loved me even tho he says he does...
what should I do "/

I would let him no that he is messing with your emotions.If he truly did love you im sure he would have your name there on myspace. But he didnt.. I think that mayb you should have a talk with him about it. it seems to me like he wants to keep you thinking that he loves you but really he just thinks of you as a hot girl who likes him. So what i would do is talk to him about it.. and tell him to get it straight dont let him lie to you or bring you down.

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