Well... My name stays anonymous but i am a female and it feels nice to help people out when they dont know. So please ask me anything and ill do my best to answer it as well as i can.
Location: Mansfield, Ohio
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okay so theres this boy that my friend is trying to hook me up with , iv never met him we just talk on facebook , i really like him i know it sounds weird that i like him since iv never met hiim buuut , we have alot in common , we both sing , draw ,like poetry , and hes pretty cute based on his pictures , and i know this safe because my friend knows him from her school , hes not like a 30 year old petaphile or anything .
anyways we wants to chill with me and i dont know what to wear ? what should i wear if im meeting him for the first time ? (link)
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Well you shouldnt get to dressed up, then he'll know your trying to hard.. Go with something casual but cute.
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 3 years and he is showing no signs of wanting to get married. I have 2 children from a previous marrage and he has never been married before. We are both 33 years old and we live in Nebraska where people don't generally wait much longer than 2 years. We have had our ups and downs but we do very well with the exception of me wanting to get married and him putting it off. How long should I wait? What do I do now while waiting? (link)
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Not getting married doesnt mean he doesnt want to settle down with you. Just some people think differently about marraige. Maybe he is scared of comitment. Talk to him and ask him what he thinks about it. Ask him if he wants to spend the rest of his life with you. Dont turn it into a big deal. You should give him time. Maybe hes nervous about asking you.
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ok im a guy that is going into highschool and i have caught myself thinking about guys and i know i like girls but i deny to myself that im bi because i dont think i am but dont completely know so am i bi or how would i know? (link)
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Try things different dont deny it to yourself. You are who you are you cant change that. Experiment with guys if you like it better then girls then you"ll know for sure. there is nothing wrong with liking more then one sex. Just dont be ashamed of it.
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Okay I really need your advice please!!!! And soon really soon and long or lots of answers!!! Alright. So what are some things thatguys want to hear from their girlfriends. Like compliments or things to call them. Things he likes to be called and things that he will think I'm cute for. Thanks alot!! :) (link)
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Many guys are different. But most guys like when you tell them how much they mean to you and how happy you are being with him. Call him baby. turns a lot of guys on. be flirty with him and just tell him how much you like him.
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I have been talking to this girl online for awhile now. She is really nice and kind even though she lives a few states away from me. I really enjoy chatting with her almost every evening. She has been a good friend to me.
Well, I am starting to have these feelings for her. I know she is real and is who she says she is so please don't go on about how she could be a serial killer posing as a teenage girl. She has been completely honest with me and there is so much about her that I really like and want.
Is it wrong to have feelings for her? She has only been an online friend to me even though I've had these feelings starting for a little while now. Should I tell her that I like her? Should I try to turn my online friendship into a relationship? Even if I don't pursue a relationship with her should I still tell her that I'm developing these...feelings?
Thank you. (link)
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I think you should tell her exactly how you feel. Most likely she feels the exact same way. If not she'll understand.If she likes her try and make a relationship out of it. You cant live your lifes sayin "What if?" So go for it.
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how did you meet? i'm just curious to see what's out there. (link)
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Me and my man have been together for awhile now and to be honest he wrote me on myspace and i had no idea who it was, but he went to the same school as me i evntually gave him my number to text me and thats how we started talking. to find out later he is related to one of my best friends who ive known my whole life and never evn heard about him. we just ended up falling for each other and have been together ever since
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Okay, due to my past, my heart has literally turned black. I don't trust guys and it find it very hard to even maintain a conversation with them. Like they'll ask to meet with me (because honestly the guys that try to talk to me are from like Mocospace and chatlines or whatever and yes I know they are bad places or whatever), but then I shut down and never talk to them again.
I will not lie, I am a BBW (or in layman terms, "Obese") and on the account of my low-self esteem, I have been talken to and used for sex numerous times, to the point where I don't even want to have sex anymore. I get turned off by the idea of having sex with a man and kinda would rather want to do it with a female... that's how severe it has been.
Why is it that I shut down when it comes to guys now? I tell them the truth about myself as far as my looks are concerned but I still stop talking to them....
There is another guy that I have known for a year who adores me, and I admit that I have slept with him before and then I shut down on him to. After it happened I stopped talking to him. Then he found me again and is trying so hard for me to date him, but to be honest, I am not really attracted to him and he is a little cocky for me...
I don't know what to do. I am at a complete loss. What can I do? Where can I meet guys? I am in college but attend a large college so talking to guys is scary especially if your are new to campus.
I know have a lot of good qualities about me... but I think guys can't get past my exterior... so Idk... any advice will be greatly appreciated...
How can I stop shutting down on guys and where can I meet decent guys that will likely accept me for me? (link)
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No man is worth it If they just look at the outside.. Love wouldnt be real if thats all people looked at. You sound like you have a good heart and an awesome person to be. So be yourself and dont let people bring you down. For th shutting down on guys. well just try to be open if you think it feels right if not then its fine to shut down. youll find someone good for you eventually. wait for the right guy.. make conversations with guys. try to find what you do like about guys and what you dont. Let them get to know you not what they see.
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There is a guy down the street, he is over 20 years older than me. I am 16. He is really good looking, funny, cool, calm, and collective. We have the same interests (movies, motorcycles, cars). He sits next to me sometimes at parties. We have had conversations about stuff like Cialis (ED medication, we were joking about it), and once Dirty Jobs with Mike Rowe came on and we joked about the subliminal messaging in that title ;). I took his chair once when he went to the bathroom, and when he came back he laughed and totally pretended to sit on me and put his butt all in my face. I laughed back. Everytime he walks his dog, I go outside for some reason, and he talks to me. Once, I had texted him and he never responded. I went outside the same day, and he cut his walk short (he always walks to the same spot, this time he stopped and turned around waaaay before that) and he came and talked to me. He said he got my text and answered my question about motorcycles, then we talked about age and how I was sick of being young because I needed a parent signature on EVERYTHING. He said the government was just protecting me from myself. I laughed. I have a friend who is helping try and get more friendly with him. Me and her are planning on inviting him over tonight to help us looking for bikes online since he knows more about them than we do. I hope we can be flirty. Can you give me some advice? I want to be able to be flirty with him and be on a more than friend, summer fling, level. I know the age difference is illegal and bad, but I'm not talking about sex or anything. A kiss would be nice. Can you help me? He is single and lives alone, two doors down on my street. (link)
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I think maybe gettin close to someone as old as that is not a smart idea.Its very common though. A kiss leads to something else. He could end up in jail if someone was to find out. so i think you should stay on just the friendly level wait two years and it will be totally legal. so if you can wait. if he likes you he'll wait too
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I like this guy, a lot and he likes me too. We want to be together but he might leave soon to the airforce in like ... maybe 8 months. Should I try it or what? I really really like him. I mean, getting my hopes up is one thing but living in regret is another. (link)
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Its always nice to a have someone to love while your gone. Gives him something to come back to and look foward to. If you really like him then be together. Dont live your life with what ifs. If it dont work out then atleast you know you tried and made an effort. If you dont then you might catch yourself regretting not being with him.
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Lets call him Austin. Austin and I have known each other since 2nd grade. We only started being friends 2 years ago, in 7th grade since we were on the same bus. In 8th grade we became really close cause we were in EVERY class with eachother EVERY day. I started to like him nd what not. I acted really mean to him, nd him same way for me. I only acted that way as playing around. I'm not sure if he did too. I saw him at the mall on Friday and I was so close to telling him how I felt. Later that night I saw he was on facebook and I told him I was sorry for how I acted the past year. He seemed happy I told him that. Idunno if I should tell him how I feel or not. Please help me out! Thank yuh soo much! We are both 15. (link)
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Playing around with guys are cute and flirty in my opinion. I say you should tell him how you feel, maybe he feels the same way but just scared of what you will say. Make the first move, guys like it. The worst thing that can happen is he will just think of you as a friend
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