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I have a friend who is a girl and she wears a "promise" ring from her boyfriend on her right ring finger. So I figured that a ring on the right ring finger meant that a girl was taken. Now I have another girl that I like but we're only friends now. She wears a ring in the same place and has been for the 3 months i've known her. Today I find out she doesn't even have a boyfriend! What is the ring for? Why would somebody wear a ring to purposely take themselves off the market if you'll excuse my analogy? And for future reference, what is the significance of girls wearing rings? Thanks (link)
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Promise rings can mean a variety of things. Sometimes fathers and mothers give them to their daughters for things like a promise of virginity, or guys give them to their girlfriends as a promise to be together or the opposite with a girl giving one to a guy. Or there is also the cases where a guy gives a promise ring to a girl without any promise attached, just as a symbol of love. To answer your question about why would a girl puposefully take herself off the market... she probably wouldn't. That girl you talked to is most likely wearing the ring for a reason other than to be seen as "taken". For your next question of what is the significance of girls wearing rings... that is a very unspecific question. Rings are worn for fashion, as a symbol for a wide variety of things, or just because they feel like it!
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So there is this guy and me and him dated and when we did it was like all we did was have sex. but it wasnt like that when i was with him i never wanted to leave his arms. i have liked him for years and when he was finally mine i did not want to let him go. but he broke up with me and he kept telling me he still liked me. he broke up with me because he needed to focus on school which was true but he also went out with 3 girls after me. also almost getting one of them pregnant. and he lives about 15 minutes away and i dont see him like i would like. but when i do i get the feeling that he does still like me but other times that he doesnt. i have never cared for someone the way i do about him.
and i saw him this weekend and he has a girlfriend but we were still flirting and cuddling and wrestling it was like we were still together but we werent because we didnt even kiss.
how do i get him back. i really miss him. and im going to see him in like a week.
what should i do. how do i get him back.
sorry its long. (link)
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Do you think that you should take him back? From what you have said this guy sounds like a serious player. He has lied to you too. He said that he wanted to focus on school work and then dated other girls after you. Just the fact that he has gone through three more girls in what seems like a small amount of time is bad. Also, take a look at the two of you from the outside. He is dating someone else but still flirts with you and cuddles and gives off the vibe that hes into you. How do you know that if you get back together hes going to do the same thing behind your back with another girl. Lastly, you went out and said that all you did was have sex which seems like he only wants a physical relationship. I guess what Im trying to say is really think about the situation before you try and get back with him because it seems like a VERY bad idea.
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Last night my best guy friend stopped by around 11 ish or so. Well, I ended up kissing him, dispite the fact he has a girlfriend. I've liked him for so long, and I just had to take a chance because I didn't want to keep wondering what would happen if I hadn't done it.
Well, now I'm not sure what to do. He seemed to like it, I mean he kept asking to stay for a couple more hours, and he invited me to hang out later today. But I'm kind of curious as to what I might expect. He told me he liked it, even though I totally caught him off gaurd.
But where should I go from here?
Should I wait and see what happens?
Or should I try to make another move? (link)
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This is pretty risky business. I understand why you did what you did but don't do it again until he ends things with the other girl. It isn't fair to you or his gf if he is with both of you. You don't want the situation to become you being the girl he cheats with. I've seen my friend be in your situation where a guy kept saying he was going to end things with his gf and then never did. Don't let him use you. You should hang out with him and talk about what happened. Ask him what it meant to him and whether or not he still wants to be with his girlfriend. If he does then make a clean break and tell him that you should probably just be friends until he is ready to end things with the other girl. Then, when he is single put the moves on and see where things go.
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I like this guy and he likes me and we both know this but he wants to stay single because he just got dumped.He is an awesome guy and people always say who do you like better me or Steph(thats me) and he always says Steph,anyways he broke one of my jelly braclets the other day and it means make out and I was at his house and we sat on the couch and he put his arm around me and held my hand and we almost madeout and we will for SURE make out...It is confussing me because we aren't going out...If it helps we are both 13 and Hes a really nice guy and cute and funny. (link)
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I think this situation is exactly what it sounds like.. he likes you but isn't ready for another relationship but is willing to be friends with benefits. His wanting to be single is a result of either being hurt by his old girlfriend, or not wanting to be tied down to one person. If it is him not wanting to be tied down then watch out. He might hook up with you and then move on leaving you heartbroken. So just be careful and don't put yourself in a situation where you may get hurt.
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okay so i used to like this boy, lets call him bob, a whole lot, and we used to talk all the time and stuff. but now we like switched seets in the classes we were in together and we dont sit by eachother and we never really talk anymore.
anyway, he asked me out a few days ago and i said yes and i was all its a dream come true! but im not really sure if i really still like him the same. like we never really talk and when ever i see him i feel like i want to run away and not look at him but i still really want to kiss him. i have no idea what to do! please help, thanks in advance! (link)
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You should deffinitely hang out with him and see how it goes. If you have a good time and feel like you are getting the same feelings you had before then pursue the relationship. On the other hand if it doesnt go well then at least you will know where you stand. As for wanting to kiss him that may just be a physical attraction and after hanging out you will be able to figure out whether that is the case or not.
Good Luck!
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