So there is this guy and me and him dated and when we did it was like all we did was have sex. but it wasnt like that when i was with him i never wanted to leave his arms. i have liked him for years and when he was finally mine i did not want to let him go. but he broke up with me and he kept telling me he still liked me. he broke up with me because he needed to focus on school which was true but he also went out with 3 girls after me. also almost getting one of them pregnant. and he lives about 15 minutes away and i dont see him like i would like. but when i do i get the feeling that he does still like me but other times that he doesnt. i have never cared for someone the way i do about him.
and i saw him this weekend and he has a girlfriend but we were still flirting and cuddling and wrestling it was like we were still together but we werent because we didnt even kiss.
how do i get him back. i really miss him. and im going to see him in like a week.
what should i do. how do i get him back.
sorry its long.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Ally3cm answered Wednesday March 28 2007, 2:57 pm: Do you think that you should take him back? From what you have said this guy sounds like a serious player. He has lied to you too. He said that he wanted to focus on school work and then dated other girls after you. Just the fact that he has gone through three more girls in what seems like a small amount of time is bad. Also, take a look at the two of you from the outside. He is dating someone else but still flirts with you and cuddles and gives off the vibe that hes into you. How do you know that if you get back together hes going to do the same thing behind your back with another girl. Lastly, you went out and said that all you did was have sex which seems like he only wants a physical relationship. I guess what Im trying to say is really think about the situation before you try and get back with him because it seems like a VERY bad idea. [ Ally3cm's advice column | Ask Ally3cm A Question ]
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