Member Since: February 16, 2007
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yikes
i have everything i need
i got vd
i have boobs
and i have hips
and i have hair DOWN THERE ,lol
but yeah
whats wrong with me
will i get it soon
i get vd a lottttt
help
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Don't worry about it, in fact, treasure that you haven't got your period yet! My mother got her period when she was 18! And I've heard of women who got theirs' even later. Trust me, it's better to have your period later than earlier, I got mine before I got the body and I couldn't fit the pads onto my underwear properly!
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I'm 26 and my boyfriend is 29. He has a nine year old daughter. He and her mom got married when she was born but it was really unhappy, from what he says her mom never wanted him around. After five years they got a divorce and she moved to New Mexico, where her family is, and took their daughter. He didn't want his daughter to see any more fighting so he didn't fight for custody, he was afraid of the things his wife would do or say and couldn't afford a messy divorce anyway, but he did his best to keep in contact.
About a year ago he met me and we started dating, and we're totally in love, he's an amazing guy who does everything for me. And things are better between him and his ex wife... she's actually been letting him talk to his daugher, and last time he visited she was a lot nicer and let him be with his daughter the whole time.
The problem is that because he lives so far away from his daughter he can't visit very often. They're about 15 hours away in a tiny little town where he'd never get a job, but he could move to a city four hours away from them and maybe see her more. But he's not sure he wants that, especially since I love my job so much and we're talking about getting engaged. It's really up to me... if I tell him I'll follow him, we'll move. He sort of thinks sometimes that it's better for his daughter if he keeps his distance to avoid fighting with her mom, but my parents said if he wants to be a good dad he'll do whatever it takes to see her all the time.
I'm asking this question here because I bet some of you have divorced parents... did they do things to try and live by you? If not, how awful did that make your life? If you could ask your parent to give up their job and friends to come live by you and see you more instead of just calling on the phone, would you? If this is the guy for me, do we have to move, or does visiting 3-4 times a year make up for it? What if we just fly her out to spend summers with us? I really love my job here but I want to do the right thing for his little girl. Will we hurt her more by trying to see her, because it means fighting with her mom sometimes? Is my boyfriend a bad father for not doing EVERYTHING possible to get custody and be a dad? Please help, and don't be afraid to be honest, I need to hear the truth, I've been struggling with this problem a LOT. (link)
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This is a really tough problem, my parents have been divorced since I was 3 (I'm just about to turn 16 now) so I know what your boyfriends' daughter is going through. My parents live pretty close together
(within a five mile radius) believe me, this is a lot worse (at least it was on me). My theory is that the further away someone's ex is, the less they have to think about them, so moving closer would probably be a bad idea. I think it would be nice if your boyfriend saw his daughter every month or so and they did something really fun and different every time so she would get a good impression of her father, with apsalutely no mention of her mother whatsoever. My parents always talked about each other when I was around, it was always "that reminds me of the time your mother cheated on me" or "that reminds me of the time your father hit your sister" the fact that they talked so horribly about each other didn't exactly dismiss those beliefs. Sparing his daughter the pain of watching her parents fight does not make him a bad father, not at all. I think it would be best if your boyfriend didn't fight for custody, his ex-wife might get jealous and start tell his daughter lies about him and you. This may sound cruel, but I'm just talking from my own experience. I don't know you or them on a personal basis so I don't know the right answer, but I really hope I've helped you.
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I always feel so self conshess[[ya I know I spelt that wrong]] I think its because I have so many zits: http://usera.imagecave.com/linzbaby/Extras/0000000.JPG
I mean, I like my figure. I have never had a weight problem or anything, im not the chestiest person though: http://usera.imagecave.com/linzbaby/Extras/standinup.JPG
I look better without zits, but im still not pretty: http://usera.imagecave.com/linzbaby/Extras/huh.JPG
The bottom line is, do you have any tips or anything for me to improve my looks?
P.S. Im not here for pity. Just tell me exactley what you think. (link)
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What are you talking about!? Your gorgeous! You can hardly see your spots, but if you really think they're that noticeable, than try using a small amount of toothpaste (white of course) to dry them out and blend them in with your natural skin tone.
And you have a great figure. Trust me, I wouldn't say any of this if it wasn't true!
I really hope I made you feel better!
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well im 13 and i lost like 30 pounds since sept.
i havent gotten my period since december and ive had it for like since june of 2005.
i never got it every month, but could it be because i lost alot of weight.
im still eating enough, but will it come back like over time?
please help. (link)
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Your periods' probably stopped because you lost so much weight, you should remember that being skinny is a lot more unhealthy than being fat. But that mightn't be the reason your periods' stopped, one of my friends has had her period for ages and it just stopped for a whole year and she's perfectly healthy.
I myself have had my period for about 4 years or more and it's never followed any kind of pattern.
If your really worried, you might want to talk to some adult women (teachers, aunts, older sisters, mother ect.)If you don't want to talk to them, maybe you should read up on periods in you local library.
I really hope this advice helps you!
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