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Hi, ok well my names mandy and i'm 19 i'm currently a student at uni studying medicine. I logged onto this website because i saw how much help lots of you need i am here to support you and give some great advice so i'm there to answer yours or even you can ask me a personal question too!!!
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hiya lv x i wud lov sum advice on.... well like dis lad nd we have bin meetin up for the last few months.. lastely he has bin to busy wid work, trainin nd gym, i feel lyk e is not interested in me nemore! he has been goin into town clubbing on the weekend and has not bin wid me.. i do lyk im lots but i dnt no ow e feels abwt mee! i dont no iff i shud ask im,but if i did it mite push him away =[ av bin goin crazy thinkin abwt it,, duz e lyk me?? thankyou loads of love xxxxxxxxxx (link)
Hiya Sweety,
Honey i think you just just tell him how you feel, the thing with guys is they are very isolated towards love, they don't show much signs. Tell him how you feel towards him as i don't think he has lost interest in you he is just really busy, get it all out, you will feel much better after. I have a really strong instinct he feels the same way about you, don't waste time as he could feel the same way.

Mandy
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my boyfriend is obsessed with my tits. he always wants to go up my shirt and see them and everything. we love eachother so it's not like im uncomfortable with it and i honestly dont care, so i guess my question is..why do guys like boobs so much? (link)
Hi Honey,
Well, guys are all different some are obssessed with boobs and some really don't care. I suppose it's just a nature of life opposite sex are attracted to what they don't have and boobs are just one of them.

Mandy
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there is this guy, i know he likes me and i like him too, but the thing is i'm not very good at communicating my feelings so i don't think he realizes i like him back... so are what are something things (or flirting) i could do/ say to him to let him know i am interested? (link)
Sweetheart,
If he wants you and you want him, just go ahead and tell him you have feelings for him. Trust metell him straight forward and your problem is sorted. I bet he'll be relieved. Dn't waste time with someone you like a lot.

Mandy
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16/f
okay im not sure if this guy is playing me or not..

he was my boyfriend for 6 months and people made up rumors that i was cheating on him, when i wasnt, this girl told him that and she liked him and now there going out. (the girl is my cousin)
this guy has been talking to me and saying stuff everynight to me since they have been going out about how he miss's me and wishes we were together and he talks about how he miss's sex and shit because my cousin is i guess prude..
last night me and my ex were at a party and we only went to 2nd someone walked in.. and hes scarred someone will tell his girlfriend(my cousin)
he asked me if i miss him and i said of course and he said he missed me to but then he said "dont worry soon it will happen" but that same night his gf left him a comment and it said how much she loves him and he responded saying i love you more than anything and then the next day(today) he is still saying he wants me back..
so i have a couple of questions.

1. should i tell my cousin hes cheating on her? ( even though its with me, i would want to know if someone was cheation on me, and i really do feel bad even though she is the reason why im not with my ex)

2. do you think this guy is playing me?
3. is it bad for me to still love him and want to be with him even though (he mights?) be playing me?

i just need some advice, or something.
thanks in advance. (link)
Hiya Darl,
Well firstly i strongly recommend you to tell your cousin. because it is breaking up your friendship. And also it's not right to cheat on someone i would definetely want to know if someone was cheating on me.
I'm not sure if he is playing you but if he is playing on your cousin. who knows how many girls hes playing with.
It's not bad to love him because you can't help who you fall in love with, ecspecially when you had something before.

Mandy
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like if once someone has a crush on you but youre not sure whether they do anymore..? because if someone liked you in the first place then didnt would it be possible for them to like you again? there must have been something there that they liked? (link)
Hi Sweety,
Well that is quite true but sometimes feelings can just completely disappear maybe because the person has changed quite a lot, from what you liked in them. So really it depends on how the person is and on the person that had the crush.

Mandy
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me and my Bf has like 4 years thogether ,From the first time I did sex I really didn't like it at all but I just did it because off him
But now is extra boring and I really never want to do it ,...he asked me what was going on and I couldn't answer him
It's not that I don't love him anymore ,but I don't want to have sex
I even sometimes cry because I don't want to do it and if I do it and did want to ,...I ussualy cry afterwards in the bathroom

Is this normal ?
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Hiya Darl,
This is normal, once you have sex a lot of times it can get boring for you whaat you need to do is try out lots of different sex moves. This will get you and your boyfriend excited and it will also bring a lot of sexual pleasures. try out new positions try things like you on top then him on top, blowjobs, handjobs, you know your boyfriend 'eating' you or playing with your breasts something new.

Mandy
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what according to you are the best things girls look out in guys? (link)
Hi sweety,
Well for me there is the funny side i want to be with a guy who is funny and makes me laugh but also i want someone who doesn't acts like different when he is around his mates and just acts sort of horrible to you i want someone who is nice to me and isn't ashamed of me. Maybe intelligent i don't mean academically clever (well its good if they are) but clever in a different way. And lastly looks i admit i would want a good looking, hot guy!!!

Mandy
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