My name is Christina, and I will try my best to answer your questions :)
I've always had a passion for giving advice, because I feel like it's one of the few things I'm actually good at.
If you need any advice, send me a message and I'll be more than happy to help.
-Christina
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Okay so I'm 15, recently started year 11 and this boy has just asked me to prom (which is not until next July). He's quite shy and I think he only really asked me because his friends convinced him but apparently he REALLY likes me (he does go pretty red when he sees me and I catch his staring at me quite often).
Anyway, people are starting to say that he should ask me out but I'm not sure if he will - or if he even realises that I really like him... Since asking me to prom nothing has changed with us, we still act pretty much the same (although most of the year now gossip about us so we've been discussing that a fair bit).
We're both quite awkward people and I don't think he'll have the courage to say anything but I kind of want him to know I like him. I'm really not sure if he's likely to ask me out or at least ask for my number or something? Not sure what to do... (link)
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Try to build your friendship and when the time is right, tell him. It won't be as uncomfortable when you're closer to him and it's a higher chance he will like you too (Or like you more). If you currently don't have a close friendship, try to build one. I know how hard it is to builf a friendship someone when you're kind of an awkward person (I was in this exact situation), but I believe in you :).
Good luck and take care.
-Christina
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The boy friend wanted to take a break from the relationship of 5 months he had certain issues in his head about us
To much to fast and feels smoothered we need to take a break
But 2ninutes before he said thst he sent me a text from the site where we first met and sent me a fluirt thinking it was funny
We saw each other tonight with his son
When I told him I him I missed him he paused and then said why we text everyday
I responded I miss you anyways it's one thing to text everyday but its different from when you don't see them
I want to know if taking break also means breaking up (link)
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I think it means to stop being a couple for awhile, but coming back to the relationship. I would just wait and see when he talks to you again, and question him about it.
Good luck and take care.
-Christina
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Hii... 14\F I really like this guy , I dream of him and think of him 24\7. I tried but I just can't get over him. he is turning 19. He allways tell me he likes me and loves me, but i dont really know if its true! he lives far away, but me and his sister are really good friends. He held my hand before but just for like 3 min. He is really cute with dark brown eyes and brown hair and his smile is awesome! He have the cutest little dimples. Should I tell him? Im afraid he is not gonna like me back?? (link)
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You can tell him if you'd like, but I recommend you not to. He's 5 years older than you, and an adult. He may be "in to" someone. Plus, you mentioned you live far from eachother. I understand that you can't stop thinking about him, but it seems like you don't know that much about him. You should try finding someone a little bit closer your age.
I'm sorry if this isn't what you wanted to hear, but it's best. Good luck and take care.
-Christina
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Ok. So I was in Marching Band last year (my 8th grade year, going to be Freshman) and i met a guy (Sophomore, going to be Junior) We didn't really become friends till AFTER field season. It was at a districts performance, we started talking about a TV show we both like. After i performed (Color Guard show for me. He was there to perform with our Drumline) he gave me a thumbs up. Then at a pops concert we talked, and i bravely asked for his number. He gave it to me. I was in a weird dress for my show and i told him i felt awkward in it he said "Don't worry you look good"(We texted alot after that.) I performed and he told me I did great. Awhile later (different day) We had grown pretty close, I texted him if i dressed like a slut. (My friends kept telling me i did the day before and i was upset and wanted to talk to him) he replied "I don't think you dress like a slut your beutiful" I thought that was a sweet of him to say. I was talking to him another day asking him if he's looking forward to graduate in two years he said not really, I asked why and he said becuase he'd be leaving me. I asked why and he said I was special and that he's comfortbale talking with me and that he doesn't talk to a lot of girls. The big thing though was today. I went to a music store, and he happened to have saxophone practice today. I was talking to the owner about french horns when he walked in (I havent seen him in awhile) and he waved awkwardly at me, i did the same and the owner looked back and forth between us, shocked. He asked me if i knew him and i nodded. They boy went to go practice and i ended up being given a lesson. We left our seprate rooms at the same time. I put the french horn away (I was borrowing it for the half an hour) and was moving to give the owner the mouth piece, but the boy walked up to me and held his arms out to hug me, he said some words but i forgot what they where. I hugged him happy. I then left, smiling the rest of the day. We have never really broken the touch barrier like that before and he initiated it. He also told me this year was the best of his life so far because he joined band and got to meet me. I think I like him(I'm not sure 100%) but does he like me? I'm confused, Please don't say anything about age. (link)
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It's a possibility he likes you, but you two could just be really good friends. He hasn't shown much of the signs - Well, he could just not know how to act around you. He did say he doesn't talk to a lot of girls. Anyways, just try to stay friends for awhile and see what happens.
-Christina
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I'm 18 years old, and I work part-time after school. A few months ago, this new guy came in. He's a bit older than I am, and really funny and very cute, and I immediately took a liking to him.
I didn't think he'd ever be interested, but we started talking and he's asked to hook up. I have a few concerns;
1. He's in his 20s, and I feel like hooking up to him is sex. I don't feel comfortable going all the way with someone that I'm not even dating.
2. I like his personality, and I worry that getting physically intimate will cause me to develop feelings for him.
3. I gained a lot of weight recently. I'm just barely overweight, and you can't really tell how big I am in clothes. If I were to take anything off, I'm sure he'd notice some... trouble areas...
So, what should I do?
Thanks :) (link)
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If you don't feel comfortable doing this, then don't. If you want to have a REAL relationship with him, tell him that and take it slow. He should understand that. If he doesn't, then he's not the perfect guy for you. Date him if he respects you and actully likes you. :)
Good luck,
-Christina
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