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I am like really really good at advice giving so if you need any help at all if you ask me I guarentee you will have an answer in under 24 hours but most likely in under a hour!!!
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im 14/f, and i really need help. There is this boy that I can't get out of my mind. Whenever I think about him my heart beats faster, and I get butterflies in my stomach. When I'm around him I can't stop smiling and I get nervous. His voice sends shivers down my spine and when he gives me a hug my heart soars. When he so much as looks at me I melt inside. he's cute, funny, sensitive, kind, caring.. he's everything.
Two problems though...
1. he has a girlfriend and it tears me up when i think about them or see them together.
2. he's my best friend...
I've tried to get over him... i just can't. What do i do? Should I try and tell him how i feel? Could this be something that will end our friendship?
Thanks to anyone who can help
Too long question but still rate me a 5 plz!!!!
well like 2 mounths ago this kid in my class said that this other kid liked me and my ass .And where friends in all (me and that kid ). Anyways im like to the kid who told me i said " your lying i know you are."But that week i stoped to think those kids might actialy like me .Because they always kick me and all (no hurting me just foolin arund ) and they through erasers at me . And in gym im always one of the first girls to be on there team .Also there was a dance and the next day a kid ( one of the kidsthat were throughin erasers at me ) said that he new a secret about me and he wont tell . How do i get to know if that kid likes me and how do i get him to lke me
thanx
Just threaten him if he does not tell you or if you were to flash him or moon him you will have all the guys you could think of because guys love it when a girl moons or especially flashes them trust me on this one!!!!Hope I helped
Alright, these past two nights I've been crying myself to sleep because of my boyfriend.
I RARELY get to see him because we go to different schools, maybe once or twice every TWO/THREE months. :/ But we talk on the phone like every 2-3 days, and on the computer a lot.
So, a few days ago..Thursday, I was expecting him to get on the computer, but he never did..and I didn't call, because, I dunno. i just hate calling when he doesn't tell me to right at the moment..even though he told me I can call anytime. So, I don't know..I just started crying because I was so upset and stressed out from not seeing him anf stuff. Tonight, he hasn't gotten on, and I started crying again. I think a lot of you won't understand really, because you don't know how much I miss him, you have to know the situation better.
But..what do I do? Because, he hurts me a lot. I mean, this has happened multiple times. But like..a couple days after this goes on he finally comes online and says 'hi', and I CAN'T be mean to him..or tell him that he just made me cry. I don't know why, I just can't do it. It's like emotional abuse, and i just don't think I can take it anymore.
I do not want to read that long question but please still rate me a five and if you rate me a one you are roadkill!!!
okay. i have a blind date this friday. what do i do ? we are going to the movies to see constantine those who have seen it, is it good? look, it's my first blind date ever and i have no idea what it's gonna be like. what do i do if he is gross and like tries to do something in the movie? what do i do if he hates me and i like him? is there anything i can do to make sure i can escape if i need to or something? Please help!
signed,
blinded
-Just get through the date without worrying about anything.
-That movie was actually a really good movie so have fun.
-If he is like gross than sorry but that is your normal perverted guy sorry I can relate.
-If he hates you then sorry but you will just have to get over it and find someone else.
-Just make sure you lay down some ground rules with this guy and if you still need to escape pretend you drop your popcorn and say you have to go get some more then just make a run for it while you have the chance.
Hope I helped and please ask me any further questions you may have for me!
me and this guy went out for like 2 weeks, right. so anyways we did a lot of bad stuff but of course hes in 11th grade and im in 7th. i cry ever morning because i think of what we did. he dumped me the next day after we did it. and told me that he was using me to get down my pants. please help me on what i should do! you are like the only girl i can trust, and plus you are so pretty. i love you and thanks! please!
Well my advice would be first of all never trust anyone who is one or more grades higher than you because you will always get in some sort of trouble or get your heart broken the next day.I think you should just forget what happened and make a better choice next time before going out with someone that is in a higher grade than you especially that much higher.I hope I helped with your problem!
hm.. where to start.
well first i've been with my boyfriend for almost 1/2 of a year now, and I'm beginning to feel a little clingy. Clingy as in i don't want him to leave whenever he has to, don't want him to get off the phone when he has to.. I was wondering if there are any guys who LIKE clingy girls? or do they just find them annoying?
Guys love girls who are clingy if you mean in a way where you want to stay in bed with them but not clingy as in to scared to have sex or to scared to let go of them!
*16 yr-old female*
Okay well me and this guy were together over the summer and our relationship was kind of, well lets just say he wasnt so good at being a boyfriend to one girl. The thing is though that i fell for him and hes the first guy ive ever felt this way for. And i mean hes done some pretty shady things to me but still through all of that im there for him and i support him with everything (*making the college basketball team/new jobs/new car..everything*) and he knows how i feel. Well the other night we were talking online and he was telling me how amazing i am and how he really does love me and what not. Now normally id believe him but i cant because i know that if he truely did, he'd be with me right now and not a bunch of girls, ya know? So what im asking for is what is your perspective on this whole situation. Do you think im worng for not believing him or do you think he really does care but he wont be with me because he doesnt want to hurt me..thanks in advance..x0x
and im sorry its so long
I think you are totally right girlfriend I can relate and I suggest you go on with your life and tell him to do the same!
I know there's probably a ton of questions out there like this, but i'm gonna ask it anyway. I love this guy to death and he's my friend. He just broke up with his g/f whom he was obsessed with. I don't really know how to get things going. He's absolutely amazing, and i'd do almost anything to be with him. Any advice?
If I was you I would just go for it before another girl snags him.Just ask him to be your boyfriend I mean what is the worst that couldf happen.If this does not work let me know and I will give you another idea!
hey...ummm....ok ive been talking to this guy for about a two weeks and were both talking to each other because well he this each other are hot and like each other lol....i want to ask him about his past girlfriends but i dont know how to bring it up??? and even if i should bring it up...also one more thing we have nothing else to talk about so any suggestions..weve talked about family, school, pets, sports that we do.....so anything else...please help thanks
Just talk with each other about what you did that day or just some of your interests or maybe some things you heard that you thought was pretty funny!
im 16!
im scared to french kiss a guy and theres this one guy that i really like an he likes me to but everytime im with him i get scared an i just kiss him on the lips an no more. im scared im goign to do it wrong or something . i dunno what to do
What the heck are you afraid of I mean what do you mean you might do it wrong all you do is kiss inside his mouth!!!!
well theres this girl that i have gone out with before and she broke up with me and now she likes me again but she has brokin my heart more than once should i ask her out?
No my advice is you tell her how you feel and if you think you want to give her one and I mean one more chance than that is your decision but if not than just forget about her and find another cute girl you like and just kinda move on with your life and forget all about her!!!Hope I helped!!!
ok, there's this guy. i've liked this guy for a really long time, since like the 2nd or 3rd week since school started. we liked eachother for a while, but he liked this other girl to. finally, we decided to try the whole "going out" thing. that only lasted for 2 days. he broke it off and i was really sad. we didn't talk for a long time after that. but i had never REALLY stopped liking him, i would say that i didn't but i really did. just recently, we started talking alot more. we've been flirting alot and he acts like he likes me, but i don't know if he does. before we started talking, he would always be really mean and hurtful to me. but i still liked him. now, since he's nicer to me, i've sort of started recognizing my feelings. my friends think i'm crazy because he was so mean to me. i've tried to get over him but nothing works. and i don't know what to do because he acts lik he likes me but he flirts with other girls ALL THE TIME, mostly in front of me. I can't stop liking him and i don't know why. how do i tell if he likes me and should i take him back if he does like me??
I say you should go ahead and tell him how you feel about it and ask him if he likes you the same way still and then be happy together!!!
-Advice-Babe-