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hey my name is danielle and i went out iwththis guy for about 10 months. i reli loved him and we didnt end things on the best note but it was needed. he lied to me and there has always been a problem with his ex shes the reason we broke up. they got togetehr after us but now they are broken up and i reli think that i will never ever get over that its been 6 months since we have broken up and i still lvoe him i was with this other guy recently liek going out and i had to end it because iw anst beign faire to im because i loved guy #1. i dont know wat to do i reli love him and i feel we shoudl be together maybe not now but later and i kno that we both think about eachother its one of thsoe relatinships that u just know.and weve been throough alot and i dno. wat shoudl i do. iw ant to get over him but i cant. i cant talk to him about it because then he will feel like he has my emotions inthe palm of his hand. id ont kno wat to do (link)
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hmmmmm...this is a toughy! i don't really know what to tell you but do what you think is right. personally though, i were you, i'd wait another 2 or 3 months just to make sure that i wasn't over guy number one, while trying to find a guy who'll treat me right. if you still like him after all of that, remember that everyone makes mistakes and maybe you two just met a road block. good luck!
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Well there's this guy, one of my best friends and well I really like him alot. He doesn't know and I'm not planning on telling him for fear of losing our friendship so I don't need help about that. The thing is, the other day he texted me the wierdest message and then logged off. I havn't been able to ralk to him since so I don't know what it meant and I couldn't ask. The text he sent me was: 'I less than heart you'
Like what the heck does that mean? I asked a friend but she didn't know.
To clarify what I'm asking, I want to know what the message means and why he would send it to me if it's not something stupid.
Any help is appreciated. Thanks. (link)
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i may be completely off the mark here, but it sounds like he found out and wanted to tell you that he doesn't feel the same way :( if that is the case, i say screw him because that is a rude way if telling someone they don't like you.
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Hello-sorry this may be long--will rate though
Well to start off I'm 15/f and sadly never had a boyfriend (that was real and truly "love") or a real relationship. And recently at school (I'm a freshmen so I'm meeting all these new people) but it almost seems like when I met a new guy I get a lil crush but then within a week or so I'm over it. Well, err I want to say Wednesday of last week my friend came over and we called some boys. (We called two boys one being my friend and the toher being her friend who's also friends with mine) So anyways all of us talked for awhile. And I was like hm my friends friend (the guy who well call Bob) seemed pretty cool. SO we went to the movies together him, my friend, and 2 other people, and me. I sat next to him we kinda talked thoughout the movie..he bought me a drink..and that night i was like slap happy. I had a really good night with him and the rest of my friends. So the next day which would now be Saturday my friend came over again and we called them and we talked. Then later that day he called me back on MY phone (usually he calls my friends phone) and him and I talked for ohh about and hour or so which i reallly liked. And then later that day I met him, "bob", at a school (which i had my father drive me too and pick me up from lol) and him and 2 of his friends and i hung out. And then from then on we've just talked like once on facebook. But see I don't know wether I like him for real or weather its just me being stupid wanting a boyfriend so ticking myself into liking him. And I want to call him but I read in CG! you should wait for him to call you...and ahh! I don't know what to do. Him, my friend, and another boy are hopeuflly hanging out this weekend. But idk what to do or how to tell if I like him for real or if i'm being stupid and faking myself into liking him cause hes just reall sweet. So if you could please just give me a little advise or something??
Thanks for reading and caring about my stupid boy problems =P (link)
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you should totally go for it and CALL HIM! CG doesn't know what they are talking about with that, this is the twenty-first century, women call their guys/guys in general all the time. if girls waited for the guy to make a move, nothing would ever happen, because lets face it, they are CLUELESS! and, as for the possible faking yourself into liking him, you'll never know untill you get to know him better.
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I really like this guy! he asked me out today adn i said yes! Things are going great! ((im 13/f by the way)) I'm sorat shy but i want to hold his hand nd stuf but i feel like mayb he is shy to. I dont want to have to make the first move so what do i do? i want to hld his hand but i dont think i should have to make the first move.... HELP!? (link)
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fortunately/unfortunatly guys are extremely shy, just like girls, and sometimes girls have to make the first move otherwise you'll never get anywhere. so, try some simple flirting and see what happens, but if that doesn't work, GO FOR THE GOLD and make a move! after all it could pay off in the long run!
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14/f okay there is this i have liked for SOOOOO long and no matter what he has done i have always like him and he know i like him and i have made moves twoards him but they never have worked because he just doesn't like me....and i understand that but i just don't know how to get overh im because i miserable and i hate knowing i can't have him....how do i get over him (link)
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try to find a new guy or even a "project" ;) to get your mind off of your crush. who knows maybe once he sees that you are unattainable he might change his mind (don't get your hopes up though, there's only a small chance that he will)
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So me and this guy have been going out for 3 months now, and we're 16. So when we're talking online, he tells me all these sweet things like how pretty i am, and how much he misses me, and stuff like that. But when we're in person, he doesnt talk about that kind of stuff. Ive asked him about it (on AIM), and he says hes just so shy. I dont know what to do to make him less shy, so he can talk about that type of thing in person. Any advice? Thanks. (link)
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most guys are like that, they think that by showing their sensitive side in public that their frinds/the general public will think that they are not "macho" enough. possibly if you take him out to a place (without his guy friends) where he feels comfortable, he might start to see that there is sothing wrong with saying things like...you're so pretty, etc. etc. etc. in place with actual people.
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I have been with my boyfriend, Derek for about, 8 months now. In the beginning, I was truly happy with him. We would spend time together every single weekend. Then, I started missing hanging out with my friends. So, I started hanging out with my friends with Derek there too. It was good until I started getting annoyed at the fact that Derek was so clingy and how we hung out every single weekend. I love him very much but he seems to not give me space. I've talked to him about it but it doesn't seem to get through his head. I want to break up with him but yet, I don't. I have these weird feelings right now and I don't know what to do. Half of me says I want to be single and the other half KNOWS I cannot live without him. HELP! :( (link)
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Many couples go through the same thing, they get to a certain point where the novelty of being together just sort of wears off a bit. maybe you should try to schedule some times where it is ONLY you and your friends (absence makes the heart grow fonder), and then something really fun and interesting between you and Derek (to spice it up ;) you could ask him questions about himself that you've never known the answer to. he might be acting that way because he feels threatened by your freinds, this will reasure him that he IS the most important man in your life.
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