Let me start off by saying that I have wonderfull boyfrind.I am currently 17 and I am a girl.Michael, he is my soul mate.My mother doesnt like him. She has valid reasons but I love him nad he treats my with respect and loves me. I dont belive that theres nothing that he wouldnt do for me.
I am currently in Virginia. I moved here in August. he is in Virginia. Our plan is for him to come get me on my 18th birthday and for us to get married. I wont be able to see him until next Novenber. I miss him terrribly.
What should I do? I mean my mother would freak if she found out that I was with him again and I cant talk to him on the house phone and I am like the only one in the universe that doesnt have a cell phone.So, should I stay with him and move or should I stay here, in VA?
urs truly
Confuzzeled?
Kay, Stop. Stop everything and really think.
I was where you're at not too long ago. Do you know what happen to me? My boyfriend (who was 21 and a marine) left me and ran off and got married two months later to a whore. Sweetie, you're 17. I'm 18 right now and the best advice anyone can give you is DON'T GET MARRIED! Not right now at least.
You have a long beautiful life in front of you. You don't need a husband holding you down right now. Sure, when you're like 23-25 is a great time to get married. Right now, no. It's not. You've got a lot to look forward to. College, hot guys, dates, clubbing....it goes on and on. And trust me. I made the mistake of walking into college with a boyfriend and I kicked my ass for doing it.
You may love him and he may love you. But a true testimony of love is if he'll wait till you're through with college. You need to be able to stand on your own two feet before you get married. I work with an attorney and I see divorces everyday. If you're trying to stay with someone for your whole life, that's great, but more often than not, it's not going to happen. High school sweethearts are great, but they don't last. About 1 out of 100 actually works.
Walk it out and see how it goes. Don't put that ring on your finger yet. Guys are fickle and the only person you can ever really trust is yourself. Never forget that.
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this is the most common complaint ever, but i just cannot talk to boys, and boys dont like me. im 14, i am not really into guys, im not a slut, i dont do drugs, i dont go out and party, im on ski team, im not a big flirt and i dont really want to be, i just need good advice about how to feel comfortable around guys...and dont say "treat them as if they are your best friemd!! their onlyt human" come on i really need help!
You don't want to hear that they're only human, but they are. When you go to talk to a guy, just act like they're your brother. Guys are pretty easy to talk to, it's just getting started. So, try something like "Hey, I like your hair, looks good on you." Or something like that. They have HUGE egos, so give them compliments!
*Guys = Egos*
Abby
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My boyfirned of 3 years has just passed away. He was doing heroin with me and he took an over dose and his heart failed. I don't know what i can do without him I just loved him so much and I want to die right now. He was only 19 years old and just got out of highschool last year. I loved him so much I even lost my virginity to him and i can't imagine my life without him. What can I do this is the only person I have ever loved because I have serious issues at home. Someone please answer I rate 5's
I swear...if you die, I'll go to your grave and Dig you up. Look little missy, his death is going to make you a thousand times stronger than what you have been. All you have to do is make your life in his name. CLEAN YOUR ASS UP! No more herion. No more drugs PERIOD. Clean up and do something with your life. Write a book on the bad things that happen when you do drugs. YOU know first hand what can happen. So write one. Dedicate it to him. Dedicate your whole life to making his short life mean something to someone, if just yourself. There's support groups you could go to and do a collaboration book. Just..whatever you do, don't die and don't give up. You'll always love him, and the pain will NEVER go away, but as long as you live your life to it's fullest and in his name, you will be so much happier and proud of yourself.
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im just sayin hi, i guess. u already kno wats up with me (this is ross btw)
What's your name on here?
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my best friend is trying to hook me up with his girlfriend's step-sister. according to him, this girl does like me, but since we've only seen each other twice and we were never really alone to talk about "us", she is not sure she wants to date me. we already talk for hours on the phone but even then we have no privacy, and i'm not liking the way things look. i don't want to anger her or freak her out, but i also want to express how i feel and get her to give me a chance. from a female's point of veiw, what could i do to improve my chances of dating this wonderful girl?
Well, cutie, get your best friend to set up a date with her...Maybe a blind date would be best. That'd way you two would be all alone and you'd be able to tell her everything. Of course, you must drop hints before you do this. Be sweet to her. Send her flowers, give her chocolate. Email her a sweet poem. Eventually she'll get the hint on how you feel for her. Then on the date, explain to her how you feel and if you would like to start a relationship with her. Be sweet and if she says no smile and continue the dinner.
*Relationships with your best friends girlfriend's step-sister....is hard just by saying it!*
Abby
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Hi! I need help. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We have broken up twice, but been able to work things out. But since we have been together again, he hasn't told me he loves me. Then he is planning to move to 2 hours away to San Francisco for his masters and work. What about me though? I want to be involved. I don't want him to go. We do not live together! I have been in relationships but this is one that I cannot let go of, just means too much. This is the first time I can seemy self with for a long time. Please help. It doesn't help that I have trust problems becuase I have been cheated on before. I want to win him over completely. How do I do that?? I wait to make plans with friends to see if he is going to call me for that night. I know that is not healthy.
Okie sweetie, calm down. I just got out of one of those. I had been in love with a guy for four years, three of those he was with his slutty ex. Well, once they broke up, he and I started together a year latter. Tim always had Lauren hanging over his head. He was terrified I'd cheat on him or leave him, though I never did. After -----------, I told him about it. He was furious. Not at the guy, but he was angry at ME. I didn't understand it. But we had grown apart over the past few months before that happened. Come to find out, he had gotten bored with me so he decided he'd find a person on the side. it's a really ego crusher when your boyfriend leaves you for a man. So...What I suggest you do is take your boy and sit him down and get him to fess up and tell you why he has been acting this way towards you. Maybe he feels differently about you now.
*Life tosses many sad things our way*
Abby
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Is it bad to have wet dreams?
No. It's apart of life and puberty. It's normal.
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HAPPY VALENTINES DAY EVERYONE!
-.- Valentines day is the worst day of the year sometimes....
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I have a biiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiig butt. Every guy just stares as i walk into the room because my butt is sooooo big. I don't want people to see me as a small waist and a big butt. Please tell me how to make my butt appear smaller
Hunny, I wish I had your butt. I have NO butt what so ever. I only weight 95lbs so I'm a stick. Basically, sweetie, what I'm saying is don't fret over a big butt. It's just appart of who you are. The only way to make people see you for you and not your butt is by accepting your body as a beautiful work of art. When you finally do this, you will have a beautiful glow about you, showing off not only your body but also your face.
*Being yourself is the key to being Happy*
Abby
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Do you know of any good sex moves or fun stuff that me and my husband can do in bed?
Yup...But they have nothing to do with a bed. Because you two are married, you're sex life is probably getting pretty boring, isn't it? Spice it up! Get kinky with it! Surprise your husband one day by pulling out hand cuffs and teasing him. Get one of those little outfits that have no crotch and little holes for the nipples. And get out of the bed! Hey, you could even have a nice romantic date then jump in the back of the car and do it. Do something that you know if you get caught, you'll get in trouble for. It makes it sooo much funner. And funnier for us if you get caught.
*Do it in the backyard while it's raining*
Abby
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What do boys REALLY like in a girl? All these magazines & stuff say that they love what's inside, not outside. Is this true or is it crap?
IT'S CRAP! Yah, all girls dream of finding a guy who all he truely wants is a girl with a great mind and wonderful personality. But look at the photos next to the articles in the magazines...ALL OF THE GIRLS ARE BEAUTIFUL! Every guy wants a girl with a nice breast size and big butt and a small waist. 90% of the guys in this world want nothing but sex from a girl, that's why they get the hot ones and trick them into thinking they want to 'show their love' by having sex. The truth is no guy in this world can acutally honestly say he doesn't want a pretty girl. Nope, nu huh, it ain't gonna happen! Sure, you find a guy that truely does care that you're a good person or have a beautiful mind, but he's also got a thing about the girl being pretty. Guys are animals, they only think of sex, sex, and more sex. Remember that when the next guy says, "Having sex is the only way I can express my love for you and your wonderful personality!"
*Slimballs are guys in a cuter package*
Abby
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I like this boy named Robert. The only problem is he doesn't know. How can I tell him? The next problem is he doesn't know my name. I think I'm cursed. What should I do?
Cursed, are we? Nah. You've just got a little bad luck. If you like this Robert, introduce yourself. Does he have any special qualities? I remember a guy that I had a huge crush on that didn't know I existed till I made my introduction. I walked up to him and licked his cheek and said, "You're cute and you taste like candy." Thankfully, he just laughed and asked my name. Since then, we've been great friends. If you wanna talk to Robert, be original! Don't be all, "Hey, my name is Lucy and I think you're cute." Be creative. Guys dig girls who don't have a problem with being open about themselves or hiding who they truely are.
After you two talk on the phone alot, get him to play twenty questions. About ten questions into the game, ask if he likes you. And go from there!
*Individualism is the best thing that happened to women*
Abby
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if your boyfreind was wearing a condum could you still get pregnat i mean does the sperm go through the condum?
I only have three words for this, "Hole in Rubber." It split or it had a hole in it. But you know, that's why the condom package says "99.9% effective." It's great that you use protection of some sort, but as a backup incase the condom does break, I suggest taking birth control. Both ways are only 99% effective anyway, so if you have both, the probability that you will get pregnant is so slim it's practically nonexistant. Use everything you've learned about safe sex, even if it means not having sex at all.
*Safe sex, best sex*
Abby
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