Question Posted Saturday February 21 2004, 12:48 pm
Hi! I need help. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We have broken up twice, but been able to work things out. But since we have been together again, he hasn't told me he loves me. Then he is planning to move to 2 hours away to San Francisco for his masters and work. What about me though? I want to be involved. I don't want him to go. We do not live together! I have been in relationships but this is one that I cannot let go of, just means too much. This is the first time I can seemy self with for a long time. Please help. It doesn't help that I have trust problems becuase I have been cheated on before. I want to win him over completely. How do I do that?? I wait to make plans with friends to see if he is going to call me for that night. I know that is not healthy.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AbbyMichelle answered Sunday February 22 2004, 2:35 am: Okie sweetie, calm down. I just got out of one of those. I had been in love with a guy for four years, three of those he was with his slutty ex. Well, once they broke up, he and I started together a year latter. Tim always had Lauren hanging over his head. He was terrified I'd cheat on him or leave him, though I never did. After -----------, I told him about it. He was furious. Not at the guy, but he was angry at ME. I didn't understand it. But we had grown apart over the past few months before that happened. Come to find out, he had gotten bored with me so he decided he'd find a person on the side. it's a really ego crusher when your boyfriend leaves you for a man. So...What I suggest you do is take your boy and sit him down and get him to fess up and tell you why he has been acting this way towards you. Maybe he feels differently about you now.
*Life tosses many sad things our way*
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