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Gender: Female
Location: DAT MAY-TOWN!, Georgia
Occupation: School
Age: 14
Member Since: June 5, 2006
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this may be kind of long but ill try to make it as short as possible. me and this guy mike have been broken up for about a year and a half. the whole time we have talked and he still tells me he loves me and misses me every once in a while. well tonight i was with my friend and he called me. well he then told me he was coming to my house but i told him no cause im scared of heartbreak. i do have a boyfriend of 7 months but i still do care about mike. and my boyfriend is amazing so i dont want to hurt him. well mike stayed for like 10 minutes trying to get me to come outside but i couldnt bring my self to it cause i always do. well later on he told me that he made me something since i made him a scrapbook last summer. he refuses to give it to me til i see him. he stayed on the phone with me after he left and had something to say but couldnt because his friend was there. he told me wed talk about it later and i asked when that was and he told me he didnt know. i really care about him and i always will cause he was my first love but i dont know what to do. should i just let him come over and give it to me and talk to me like he wanted and say what he wanted or should i just say no? please help. thanks so much!! (link)
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Wow, that was long. But I don't,mind! :)
I think that you should talk to Mike,give him another chance. Maybe he really still wants to be with you. If it were me, i wouldn't break up with my new boyfriend.....yet.
First kinda talk to Mike and see if he is for real. If he is, then you might want to think about a 2nd chance. Since you said he was your first love, then i would tell the other guy that You have stronger feelings for this other guy. If he is a nice guy, he will understand. Just ask yourself, who are you happier with????
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well i really like this guy and he is real nice including really HOTT. Well i want to do some thing with him because ive not got to hang out with him out of shcool. but im not alowd to have him over. eny ideas were we could hang (link)
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Why not his house?
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What da hell is wrong wit chu? you are pretty, and you know what?? im the one not pretty, and from the bottom of MY heart im pretty sure that C**** doesn't like ME and he proly only uses me, just so he can get FRENCH KISSES from me!!!!! YOU look WAY better than I do!!!!! Ricky WILL like you, and if he doesn't then fu** him, cuz he's missing out on a pretty, nice, funny, and LOYAL GURL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
NOw quit saying your not pretty!! im the one who needs to say that about ME!!!!!! (link)
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AWWWWWWW! Khrysty u make me wanna cry! Thank u so much! You really think that?
You're not ugly. I think you are very pretty! :)
L.Y.L.A.S.(Love Ya Like A Sista)
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Mmmk so i'm 14/f
I was wondering how to approch a really hot guy that you see at like a line at a movie theater. (ya this happened last night lol) so we were like secretly looked at each other back in forth you know pretending we didn't after but i had no idea how to talk to him i didn't know what to do. Help i can't wait for shy guys lol. How do i get their attention.
Thanks becca (link)
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Why don't you just go to him and say hello? then tell him your name. I know that feeling when you see a boy and you like him, the you whole body gets this weird feeling and you feel like EVERYONE is watching you.
But it is not that bad. Boys are people, just like us. I mean sure, they might be dumb and we may have to use smallers words talking to them (LOL) but they can also be very nice.
Just talk to him. I belive in you.
"i think i can....i think i can....i think i can!" :)
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ok there is this friend (who is a guy and i am a girl) and he is so funny! but latley he has been calling me so we can hang out. And he keeps on saying on how much me loves me. I think he means it in a friend way but im not sure. And I had a dream when me and him were going out and it did not freak me out. Do you think i like as more then a friend or not? Anyone who can answer this is amazing!!!! I would love help!
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As far as i can tell, i think that you like him as more than just a friend. But once you 2 start dating, you'll both realize that you're acting different. Example: You talk alot when you were friends. Now your a couple and you don't talk as much. You'll realize that it is better for you to be friends! :)
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Ok, So I am 13 years old and since May 2005, I have found myself madly in love with no other than a 20 year old McDonalds worker. He has started to open up a little more in the past couple of months, and he gives me lots of hugs, flirts, and shows all the "signs" of love back. Yet he has never told me. This week we are supposed to go to the movies. My question is, Should I open up and tell him I love him or should I just wait until he does? (link)
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I am also 13 years old. And unless you would like to end up on Channel 2 action news, i strongly suggest that you leave this man alone. i am pretty sure that your mom loves you and wouldn't want ANYTHING to happen to you.
Plus this man could just be leading you on. (making you think he likes you, but he doesn't.)
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My ex b/f i love him so much. but last summer i made the mistake of cheating on him when i was angry and upset. I made a bigger mistake by telling him. We broke up and usually i can deal with rejection and break up but it was hard on me. I thought i was over him but now as the skool yr comes to a end we talks to me and he was bringing back my old feelings.So the last few days he is on my mind constantly.i wanna know is there a way i can get over him or make him realize how i feel? (link)
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First, let me say that you did the wrong thing by cheating on him. I mean, if you were mad at him, you probably should've talk to him. But you did a good job telling him, because you accepted responsiblity. He should have been mad at you for cheating, but then he shouldn't be mad because you told him. You were honest and honesty is a big thing in a relashionship.
If he has started talking to you, who knows he might still like you. Just tell him that you were really sorry for what you did. And asure him that it won't happen again. if he still doesn't want to get back with you, then he is just being stupid.
*When a boy breaks up with you, he is giving you a chance to find someone better! :)*
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