My name is Lacey and I'm 22. I have decided to give all the advice that I have to anybody who needs it. Anything at all ASK ME. I've been through it all and I have nothing but answers. I'm a very smart girl and I like to help others when needed. I'm a very positive, caring and magnanimous person. I'm looking to be a future advice columnist hopefully one of these days and I hope that the advice I give to everyone is helpful. Feel free to just talk to me if you need to.
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I've been dating my bf for 3 1/2 months I really adore him but I have a feeling he might be cheating. I'm really emotionally unstable and untrusting because of all my past relationships so its hard for me to trust. I saw a dick pic on his phone that wasn't sent to me but then he explained that he was gonna sext me one night when we were talking dirty etc. I got so upset and he got really upset and apologized for everything and said I was his world and he didn't want to lose me. He is always there to reasure me that things are ok and always answers questions when I have them. Also what bothered me was that he didn't shave for a week and said he was too lazy to (he usually shaves everyday), he changed up his haircut a bit because he said he was bored, and also he said he wanted to shave his happy trail cause it made him hot lol. That made me a little nervous like why the sudden change in appearance? I looked through his phone and didn't find anything but I was so paranoid and thought maybe he deleted stuff. Its driving me insane I really do love him but i'm just so insecure. Help? (link)
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I hate to burst your bubble but it sounds to me like he's playing games and trying to make you paranoid. I say while your still young, breakup with him and if he wasn't cheating he'll come around sooner or later...but if he was, he'll be in no hurry coming back to you. In all honesty, if you think someone is cheating on you you're not fully satisfied with your relationship with that person. You need a break or you need to just move on to a much better person, because you deserve to have a great relationship with none of those problems at all sweetie. I hope I helped you out a little bit.
Sincerely, ASK-LACEY
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Hi everyone! I want to just tell you what has hapoened in the past 2 weeks but im not going to give age because i do not want to be judged. Im a teen and thats all im going to say. So im a girl and i have liked this guy named sam for the past year. We've had an on and off thing where we would talk then stop then talk again. In march we started talking again after a month of not talking. We started liking eachother alot and stuff. We would text everyday and then we would hangout all yhe time and the farthest we went was makeout. So last week was the last time we madeout and hungout. So mow this other guy named matt is talking to me and hes flirting and stuff and i flirt a little back but not much.. he makes me feel special and knows almost everythig about me. He makes me smile alot and stuff too. He has started to like me and i think i may be developing a small crush on him. But i think i may love sam. Those are strong words i know but i mean it. Although sam hasnt been replying to mytexts lately. He hungout with one of my best friends the other day but nothing happened. He wont message me back though. I have sent him a bunch of messages but he wont reply. Should i just forget about him and go for mat? Or should i stick with him? Im so confused!:( (link)
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I say give Matt a chance...If Sam is going to be confusing or making things complicated for you, then he is not the right guy for you. You're still a teenage girl, so you have all the time in the world to fall in love and if Sam is really the one....he'll come back to you in the near future. Hope I helped out a little bit.
Sincerely, ASK-LACEY
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My friends keep telling me to try online dating sites because its a good way to meet new people but I'm kinda skeptical about it. For instance if I do go on and I see someone I'm interested do I message them first or wait for them to message me. If I messaged a guy first would I look desperate. And how long do you talk to someone on these sites before you exchange numbers or decide to meet. Tell me what you think. (link)
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I would most definitely try Okcupid.com or plentyoffish.com Those are both very good dating sites and happen to be sites I've explored and met awesome guys on. I met my fiance on Okcupid and we are getting married in Sept. You won't look desperate at all messaging a guy first unless you say the wrong thing. On your profile word what you are clearly looking for and guys will talk to you. Talk to the guy for at least a week or 2 until you give him you're number or it's basically a butty cool before then. Give him you're email or aim if he's really wanting to talk outside the sites...most guys just wanna talk on those sites, just gotta look at the right guys. Hope I helped.
Sincerely, ASK-LACEY
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hi :] im 16/f!
well a couple days ago like 2 days ago my cousins neighbor (ben) was over at their house and boy let me tell you he is a cutie. well my cousin ash is like my best friend so im always over there and their neighbor always hangouts with my cousin nick. so we were all over there and like we were foolin around bein crazy and so then i go to like turn the radio system to a diff. station and ben slaps my ass with like wrapping paper haha. i didnt mind but then i acted all mad so i could flirt with him..so i was like punchin him and we were flirtin he grabbed my hand and held on so i couldnt do nothin to him and so i jumped on top of him we were all on the bed, hes layin down i straddle him so my cousin ash can kick him haha. my cousin ash me and ben go into the bathroom because thats where ben was hiding from me :] yeah he was "scared" haha so then he like grabs me from behind so he puts his arms around me and i get out and then im lookin at him forward and all of a sudden he picks me up..as im like straddling him frontwards and its all crazy! we do this for a long time like me actin as im all mad so i can flirt with him and him doin it back to me! he kept sayin.truce? truce? and im like not until i get to kick you for doin all that to me so then finally i got him and then he was like allright truce now? and my cousin shakes his hand and is like truce and i come out of the bedroom and i go give him a hug and im like yeah truce and then he had to go! so good timing lol because he had to go to baseball. i liked flirting with him it was fun! and this is the first time that we have flirted this much and like that.the only problem is that he really likes this girl and its not like i like ben its just i like flirting with him but im scared he wont want to since he likes this other girl and wants to do stuff with her supposively. what do you think i should do in this situation? what do you think ben is thinking?
SORRY SO LONG! but just thought i would let you know everything that went on ..
i will rate 5 for anyone who can help me :] (link)
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Okay sweetie,
this is was I think. I think he's just a hormonal teenage boy who happens to like you too...A guy can like more than one girl. The situation seemed a little bit flirtatious for sure, but I wouldn't try too hard. Be blunt and just say, Hey I like you and was wondering if you'd like to go out? If he says no thanks, then obviously he was only interested in you in a physical matter. I know this, because I believe I've been in this situation before. If you have any other questions, ask me okay? I hope I helped out a little bit.
Sincerely, ASK LACEY
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