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Ah I once again am having guy troubles, it always seems to happen again over and over. But this time I seem to like a really cute guy, but he is really popular. I don't know if I should fight or if I should just let him come to me... or if I should just stop liking him...HELP ME PLEASE (link)
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okay.
the persons social status shouldnt mean anything about anymore. personally, i date out of my so called "clique" and explore other opportunities. i mean who ever did write the rules on dating, right?
but.. if you are afraid or shy, which most of the time i can be, i'd tell you to just try to become friends and close with him. if he likes you most likely he will give you some sort of signal.
i'm normally more of the traditional type. i've only asked out one person in my life. and of course that was because they kept telling me how much they liked me. you know? so its not like i had to wonder if they would say no.
hope i was some type of help. :)
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i had my first real boyfriend last year and we got really serious, we said we loved each other and we did it lasted about 6 months but he moved, and i never thought i wouldnt be able to get over him like this or would miss him this much, its been like a year sence we broke up, and i still miss him bad, how do i get over him?
lost in love (link)
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Okay. There is no real way to get over a person. I'm going to tell you that now. You can't take a medication and expect everything to just go away. I've been through the same exact thing..but I didn't have sex. But I don't think that really matters. I have been through it about three times. I lost the person I loved. People might say that not to talk to him or anything or to try to talk to him. It all really depends on you, yourself. One day, when no one is home(and youre ready) you need to get ice cream (or whatever suits you) and buy a lot of tissues. Take out everything you have of him and just take a few hours to cry over it all and look over everything. Flash back to memories and cry as hard as you can. Get a shoe box and put what you have of him in it (letters, pictures, ect. If you have big things that won't fit..find a box that will.) Decorate the box however you want and slowly close the box to try to put away your feelings. This sounds really stupid..but it is what me and all my friends do something like that happens. Put away the box, and if you ever feel bad you can go back to it. Have a journal in it and keep notes about your feelings. Eventually, you will stop going to the box so much and start to move on. You will learn to be happy, and by the next time you go to the box, you can look at it without crying, and write a closing entry on your journal. That is what I do. I know it sounds stupid...but it helped me a lot. I don't know. If you don't like it...thats perfectly okay... But I'm just trying to help you with what I done. I hope I helped and good luck, I know it is not easy.
Much love.
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i hate liars and my boyfrined lies constantly.. not so much to me.. but sometimes to me.. i cant always tell if hes telling the truth.. i guess sometimes his lies are for my benefit? we also really like eachother.. what should i do (link)
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You should tell him about his lying problems. What happens if he cheats on you and lies to you? Is that lying for your benifit? You should really consider even dating him really.. I mean hun... I have trust issues. If my boyfriend lied to me I would tell him about it and stuff.. And if he kept doing it I would break up with him because I can't trust him you know? But of course. That is my opinion.
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i have a really close guy friend we close but we cant be nothing but friends because on long distance and i hate long distance realtionships because the never work out. ok but n-e-ways sometimes we act like lovers and sometimes like friends but even when he had a gf we did the samething because he always liked me more then his gf even though he broke up with her for me but i still didnt go out with him and like now i dont know what to do i do love this guy and like he perfect for me and all but i am really confuessed?can you plz help i wil rate! thanks! (link)
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Long distance relationships...
._. I'm the master at them. I finally quit after my last one ended up me getting cheated on really badly and my heart left broken and battered. Some of them do work though, considering my best friend dated this guy named Serge for like 3 years. When they finally got out of school he moved to her, and they got married. They are still doing great (from what she tells me..hehe). It all just depends on if you are really ready for them. You will have to give up everyone else, temtation and such for someone that cannot hold you or touch you or kiss away your tears when you need him to. But! If you do have one, and both of you are loyal...well. It might just work out in the end. But you have to ask yourself. Is it worth it? Hope to be some help, and good luck. ^_~
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Ok I have fallen hard for one of my guy friends and i've liked him as more than a friend since January or something. Ok, now he has a girlfriend, but on the day he asked her out he told me that he really only liked her as a friend, and this girl's friend kind of made him feel like this girl would be crushed if he didn't ask her out, so he did. And tht was a few weeks ago. And last week, he kept looking at me and paying attention to me a whole lot more than his girlfriend and flirting and such, and this week he's hanging around with her again, and he still glances at me, but it's like we're just friends again... I'm so confused and I don't know what to do... any help will be greatly appreciated, THANKS! (link)
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GOSH. And they say WE are compliacated. You should confront him yourself. Tell him how you feel and ask him if he feels the same way back. If he doesn't...well try to forget about him you know? Because he does not seem like he really can be a man and make his mind up...
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Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about two months now and the guy hasnt even tried to kiss me. Like im sorry if i sound bad for saying this but i have needs! So I was wondering what are some ways i can turn my boyfriend on so that he'll wanna make out with me, or at least kiss me? (link)
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okay! How funny. My previous relationship before the one I am in now was just like this. The guy was a jackass though, but that does not matter. Anyway. I kissed him first... And he still didn't even touch me. -.- So, just tell him how you feel. If you are too shy to tell him... Try to just causually ask him or do it yourself. He might not like public affection. I, personally, like it. But whatever floats your boat!
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